Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
but she defo doesn't let go or set someone free to the extent D can..
And pray , how is that exactly done ?😆 I did not quite understand . Am not being sarcastic ,plz do not misunderstand, I am serious ...I have really not understood ur concept of ' letting go " . Like i said ...feelings linger . She may never forget Vaibhav or She may eventually . But she wants to stay OUT of his life , not be near him , wishes his marraige the best . She has accepted her fate and has NO complaints ...neither against IMV nor against fate itself . Is not that letting go ? She has not even bothered to chamchofy to V that ultimately she left bcoz of his father and his blackmail . She could have done that u know ...under the pretext of having a CLOSURE TALK . She cud have lied to him that I am married , but if u wanna know why I left u ...oh it was ur mean ol Dad . This way she cud have achieved satisfaction of seeing the blackmailer punished . She did NOT do it .
She loves Vaibhav as crazily as Vaibhav loves her . I agree with u on that part . She took a bullet for him , she has NOT squealed about his Dad's deeds to him not just coz she will be harmed by his Dad but also coz as a lover she does NOT wish family strife in Vaibhav's life . She brought in ANOTHER man to see that V moves on . Yes , thats LOVE ...she did not deeply wonder about how that other man's life may become upset if at all this silly lie is found out as she is a public figure . Maybe she is not acting in movies anymore after her break up , maybe she is simply sunning herself on beaches in a foreign land thinking of V . But that does not matter . She does not pick up the phone and call him , email him , wanna talk to him , be near him .THAT matters .
One cannot equate MOVING ON with total wipe out of feelings only . That NEVER happens in any human's life . When a human being dies , he takes ALL memories with him , good or bad , tragic or happy ...as an INTACT package .That does not matter . What matters is what he DOES . Why shud Sabina be qualified to speak on 'moving on' and 'letting go'only if she wipes V completely from her mind ? I don't think she was being hypocritical here at all . She , Chandraprabha etc r the best people in my opinion to talk on 'moving on' and 'true love' as they found a way and committed themselves to keeping away FOREVER . CP has become sanyasin but has NOT forgotten her past . The two tears that fell on BB's hand from her eyes proves it . Its just that she has marvellous control and focusses on her present by not expecting anything from the past ...not even closure . Sabina is almost same . She does not want anything , and frankly she was detained here by Devki and company and also her health . She made two tactical errors ...the nakli Pati lie and listening to IMV yet again and cancelling her plane . She will pay heavily for this . But V cud indeed take a few lessons from her in letting go just as IMV cud from CP .
I fail to see where D has 'let go' . To 'Let Go' one first has to HAVE someone deeply in love with u .She never had it . No one has been deeply in love with her and she has let go of it , so I do not see how she can be compared to Sabina on that level . Rajvi , Sabina and CP r the only 3 women in this show who had men in love with them but found themselves unable to reciprocate due to circumstances and so let go of them and accepted fate . D never had it in the first place , so what is she exactly letting go of ? She is merely being practical , understanding her limits as he NEVER promised love at all to her and is quickly choosing the next best option ...The friendship that existed .I dont wanna lose that friendship , I'll stick with it if it comes to losing him , is her stand .
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