wat would u do?

ok if u were in sims place n ru slept wid another woman n u came to know abt it

wat would u do?

would u walk out on him?

OR

would u give him a second chance?

And y?

well i woudl kill my husband...

yes any woman with self-respect would......though in this case things are kinda different......simi brought it upon herself......but that doesnt make ru's crime any worse.....both are equally responsible for whats going on....ru is obviously way more responsible though...naina

I would walk.....trust and honesty is what makes a relationship strong. Ruhaan no only broke Simran'd trust now, but he wasn't honest to either about who Naina was. I'm still hoping nothing happened beyond the hug.

Ya thats true! Rohan broke the trust of Sim and didnt tell about Naina

Sim brought it on herself. What was the need to sacrifice your life for a person she just met on the street. Yes, you need to help people in trouble but not to the extent she did. She acted like they were 'langoti yaars'. She kept saying Su helped Chaachi but didn't Sim put her up at Chaachi's? Isn't that payoff for her good deeds? Once they found out that the Dr was fake didn't anybody in the Oberoi Khandaan find the need to take her to a Dr? Chaachi suggested but Sim never followed up. Ru had so much chemistry w/Su it was only a matter of time. Abhi stopped Ru from telling Sim that she is his ex, now why does he want him to tell the truth about the night together? Doesn't that jeopardise the marriage more? Abhi should have warned Sim from the very beginning since they had such a special relation.

I would tend to agree with FLGators. Its true that Sim went to unbelievable and impractical lengths to "cure" her friend and constantly pushed Su and Ru together, knowing fully well that it was hurting her (Sim) and Ru as well. Infact, I feel that perhaps even if it hadn't been Su but any other woman, there may have been a possibility that Ru may have momentarily got carried away (may not have fully strayed though) ... I mean, its all just physical. In this case it was different in that Ru had loved her and believed that Su was also madly in love with him and hence he strayed.

But having said that, I sitll find it difficult to accept that Ru strayed. I mean, marriage is a commitment after all and part of that commitment is that no matter what the tempation, one would be loyal and faithful to his/her spouse.

So its very difficult to judge what one should do and it cannot be an impulsive decision. I feel in this case, Sim should give Ru a chance to explain himself (which also means he will need to reveal that he knew about Naina's past) and Ru on his part will need to reassure and prove to Simran that all that happened was just a moment of physical weakness and nothing more. And all this can only happen over a period of time.

My logic for this would be that Ru has never had a roving eye, nor has he been the straying kind. In any relationship, if one partner commits a mistake, its not always the end of the relationship. Simran also has had a part to play in this unfortunate turn of events and Ru also on his part, did keep pleading with Simran to not let Naina get close to him. He also did manage to fend Naina's advances to a fair degree. So its only fair that they stay together and pull through this crisis together instead of immediately splitting.

Originally posted by: FLGators

Sim brought it on herself. What was the need to sacrifice your life for a person she just met on the street. Yes, you need to help people in trouble but not to the extent she did. She acted like they were 'langoti yaars'. She kept saying Su helped Chaachi but didn't Sim put her up at Chaachi's? Isn't that payoff for her good deeds? Once they found out that the Dr was fake didn't anybody in the Oberoi Khandaan find the need to take her to a Dr? Chaachi suggested but Sim never followed up. Ru had so much chemistry w/Su it was only a matter of time. Abhi stopped Ru from telling Sim that she is his ex, now why does he want him to tell the truth about the night together? Doesn't that jeopardise the marriage more? Abhi should have warned Sim from the very beginning since they had such a special relation.

mmm yehh true....but thn sumhow i feel dat ys everybody bashing up ru fr just dat 1nyt i mean cummon first luv is first luv n thn it isnt dat hes ditching sim fr su and well it ws a mistake he ws too overtaken by old days emotions....

Bottomline is that the deed has been done. No matter what happens next, either Ru consoles Sim or Sim leaves to reconcile later with Ru, Su is now going to be a constant factor in their lives threatening their marital bliss for a long time.

As an aside, if Ru really wanted to handle this better, he could have teamed up with his one confidant, Abhi bhaiyya, and come up with a scheme to get Su out of the house, since Sim had gotten unreasonable with her need to help Su.

seriously i will be son angry at him.
I will be angry most of the fact that during our marriage he doesn't trust in me, he doesn't believe in me.
He doesn't keep the promises he made me at the wedding.
I would prefer he told me the truth than lie to me.
So he lost my trust so how can i trust him again.
I'm sure i could give him a second chance but doesn't know if i could trust him again.
So, i think i will separate myself from him for a while in order to think about the situation, my feelings, my life