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Can we please just stop this? It is actually beyond my understanding why after months of tolerating RaRi and Ishkar for months and we get news of Ishveer's approaching reunion people are still having their Team Ishaani v Team RV debates? How are we going to enjoy our leads together when we viewers are divided and fighting over whos right and wrong between them? They are both wrong but lets remain positive that they are on their way to redemption.
Another thing really bothering me is some people on her questioning why RV does not trust Ishaani right now, why he's not accepting her immediately? He isn't a puppet that he will go with what she says when she says it and she changes her statements quite frequently. In any relationship once trust is broken it can never be the same again
"We want the RV who could read her eyes before..." what fairy tale do some of you live in? How can he read her eyes when the Ishaani who once would hurt for him when Baa insulted his status is now herself calling him servant, drivers son n all that rubbish. I strongly believe despite his mistakes the ones who can still understand RV's character now are the ones who have always truly understood his character.
Those continuously bashing RV (so bored of this actually) act as if they would be so quick to forgive, forget and trust again after the person they loved more than anything treated them the way Ishaani has. Not many people ever remain the same once they've had their hearts broken let alone as many times as RV has. He said it himself if his heart broke once more it would stop beating completely. People change when they've been hurt badly! and RV is no exception! The man has been hurt continuously since the beginning of the show. only difference between then and now is that back then his heart was broken because he loved a girl he couldn't have, it wasn't Ishaani who hurt him, even if so it wasn't intentional so there was no reason for him to change but now he has been hurt by Ishaani and deliberately! (yes I know she had her reasons)
Anybody in his position would change, people go cold, numb, heartless when they get their hearts broken. Maybe some of you have never been hurt by someone you loved so cant put yourself in RV's shoes. On face value you cant bash RV for trusting Ritika over Ishaani, to him Ritika has proved her friendship again and again to him whereas Ishaani has shown mistrust (trusting Chirag over him regarding many things but specifically suspecting he killed her father) hurled all sorts of insults at him in recent months. Yes I know Rits was pretending to be good and Ishaani was also faking her hatred but HE DOESNT KNOW THAT!!
How can ppl easily forget Ishaani did the same thing with Chirag! she too trusted him blindly over RV and Chirag too was negative character just like Ri and RV hadn't even done anything for her not to trust him at that point whereas he actually has reasons not to trust her right now.
I've also seen comments mocking RV that all he knows to do is cry in some corner and Ishaani is the man of the relationship because she's doing what he hasn't done by claiming him as her husband. this is actually quite funny to me because I don't know anyone who would forcibly claim someone they knew and have been told numerous times doesn't love them but infact hates them.
True love is not about possession, yes RV could have claimed Ishaani as his wife but he cant force himself on her when she said she didn't want him. Ishaani is only going back to RV because she discovered Rits true colours, she's dangerous and claiming her rights as his wife is the only way she can protect RV. After her meeting with Rits questioning her baby's father, she was still going to marry Shikar despite knowing its not Rvs baby just coz of Ritika's emotional game. It was discovering Rits true colours that took her out of Mahan mode and to protective wife mode. Ishaani was never under any danger with Shikar so besides his love which was rejected RV had no reason to force himself on her claiming his rights as her husband. Despite what others will say but what RV did was the actual sacrifice, letting go of the one he loves by finally submitting those divorce papers. Ishaani's sacrifices had no basis but purely assumptions
Another thing Ishaani is secure in RVs love for her, she has seen his love and also heard him say how much he loves her many times so she can confidently claim her rights as his wife knowing fully well her husband truly loves her no matter how much he pretends (this isn't her 'reading his eyes' but she 100% knows for a fact he loves her coz he has said so). However, he doesn't have that assurance and security in her love for him, neither has she shown him nor has she told him. (to us viewers she has but to him she hasn't) I myself would be pretty sceptical if someone who's been telling me they hate me now suddenly claims they love me and even if he eventually believes her a part him will still feel slightly insecure that one day she may change her mind and say she hates him again.
Its like its different rules for Ishaani and different rules for RV. one emotional scene and people were quick to forgive Ishaani and forget the way shes played with RV's emotions in the last few months
and just because some viewers have forgiven her so quick they expect RV's character to do the same when out of nowhere shes telling she loves him after telling him she hates him for months.
To be clear I DONT condone some of the things RV has done neither do I agree with the way Ishaani handled things either coz all this did nothing but hurt both of them and butcher their characters however I just think despite this being just a show , to understand why some of us still understand and sympathise with RVs character you need to put yourself in his shoes. You too would certainly change if not worse after being hurt as much as he has. Emotional pain is the worst type of pain and it can take many years to heal.
I'm not commenting on Shikar or Ritika coz I don't care for either of them. What I do care about is minimising the negativity, stopping this RV v Ishaani debates, they have both equally made mistakes and both need redeeming. As a viewer I don't want to see any hatred, physical or verbal abuse but rather their trust being rebuilt and actually work together as a team to face adversities.
If anyone is going to justify their RV bashing on RV and Ritika sharing a bed, sorry but I wont be responding I'm just going to ignore those comments because ive seen this over and over and over and over again in every thread and quite frankly I'm bored of it other than that please feel free to comment. It shouldn't be Ishaani v RV or Team Ishaani viewers v Team RV viewers but should really be Team Ishveer viewers v CVs. They are the problem here ruining a beautiful story. I'm a viewer who just wants to see them together, whether they are fighting or loving eachother I don't care as long as they under one roof, one room as man and wife with no third parties I'm good with that.😃😃
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