28th September - Rasode mein kaun tha ???

So Amber is missing ...where is he what is he upto...but he is missing and Nia is asking about it ... Tum thi main thi kaun tha and Shree beautifully answers ..Rasode mein main tha ...aur wahan se uncle nahi bhage...

Plan yeh bana ki uncle ko dhundna hai aur Sangeet function ko bachana hai...wahan Kabir and Shree and Kajal sangeet ko bachate hain ...they rope in hakim to entertain the ladies and he does...how by dancing absolutely ridiculously ...khair anyways ...RB comes to the rescue and tells Nia ki he knows where is Amber ...Amber is watching the Sangeet from outside ...Nia finds him and talks ...Amber is scared of marriage ..he is scared of change basically ...kya nautanki ..dramebaaz hai ...Amber

..kabhi kabhi lagta hai ek kaan ke niche dun...( Character only not the actor ) baal kya dye karne ko keh diya toh aise bhage Sharma ji...pagla gaye hain...itna drama sirf baal dye karne ko...mujhe Guneet ka future full of drama lag raha hai ...

Originally posted by: atikna

So Amber is missing ...where is he what is he upto...but he is missing and Nia is asking about it ... Tum thi main thi kaun tha and Shree beautifully answers ..Rasode mein main tha ...aur wahan se uncle nahi bhage...

Plan yeh bana ki uncle ko dhundna hai aur Sangeet function ko bachana hai...wahan Kabir and Shree and Kajal sangeet ko bachate hain ...they rope in hakim to entertain the ladies and he does...how by dancing absolutely ridiculously ...khair anyways ...RB comes to the rescue and tells Nia ki he knows where is Amber ...Amber is watching the Sangeet from outside ...Nia finds him and talks ...Amber is scared of marriage ..he is scared of change basically ...kya nautanki ..dramebaaz hai ...Amber

..kabhi kabhi lagta hai ek kaan ke niche dun...( Character only not the actor ) baal kya dye karne ko keh diya toh aise bhage Sharma ji...pagla gaye hain...itna drama sirf baal dye karne ko...mujhe Guneet ka future full of drama lag raha hai ...

. Amber is beyond my understanding nd often irritating. Ok I get he is panicking bcoz of d changes around him bt is he a kid not 2 hv ever realize or think marriage itself is a change. God's sake he is 50 nd it's his 2nd marriage. How come he never thought of tat. Most imp before trying 2 run away 4m his sangeet nd probably wedding 4 even once it didn't flash into his mind how this step would impact Guneet who he claims 2 luv so much. He never thought will she again b able 2 take tat pain? Tbh instead of treating Amber always like ok l understand ur prblm it's high time Nia puts some sense into her Dad. Being a woman she understood how G will get hurt. She needs 2 make Amber realise this 2. Won't b surprised if even post marriage it is shown Niya continues in counselling her Dad how he should make G a part of his life. I bet major issues will crop up later wid 'child' topic coming now nd then. Was also shocked 2 hear Amber telling RB 'Maine socha tha choti si family hogi- me, G nd N. Like really! How come he assumed Pummy mummy will not come wid G. Hv always felt A has higher expectations 4 others, khud bhale hi kisi ke expectations par khara naa utra ho. As d story moves on later would luv 2 c d way Niya has changed her entire life according 2 him nd his happiness is always her priority, can he ever do same. Saying so bcoz l feel d way RB ko takleef horahi thi Niya ko rote dekh, agar NiShi is in store will Amber happily accept a 16 saal bade guy 4 his daughter considering he gets irked when ppl point d age gap wid G. Also since he is d ML don't know why always A is shown in a way tat viewers will only sympathiez wid him phir chahe kitna hi bura kyun naa kiya ho?

I am like done with Amber Sharma. Not only is he amazingly self-centred, he has the nerve (or the CVs do) to project his selfishness as love & consideration for Guneet - “kya main uske laayak hoon, kya main usko khush rakh paaonga” type of self-doubt. That’s what bugs me more. The only real self-doubt he has is “kya mujhe badalna padega, kya mujhe sifr apne terms pe pyar nahin mil sakta”.

It’s disgusting how a selfish indecisive male who doesnt know the L of love is being passed off as the ultimate selfless lover & parent. If it wasn’t for VB & ST I wld hv quit on this regressive masquerading as progressive show the day Ambar messed up Guneet’s first roka.

The rasode mein kaun tha part was hilarious 😆Nia and team did a great job handling the crisis 👏

Amber is getting on my nerves too..poor Guneet's heart is gonna be broken when she finds out about this 😭

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

The rasode mein kaun tha part was hilarious 😆Nia and team did a great job handling the crisis 👏

Sachi... the updates by Ankita (with the apt & funny captions) & analysis by all of u is far more entertaining than the show!

Totally agree with the posts above. Nothing, nothing can justify Amber Sharma running away. And to justify it in the name of love! That he doesn't want her to hate him later?!! Like she won't hate him now if he runs away! It's true what was said above-- he wants love on his terms but is disguising it as this great, selfless love.

If he needs to be persuaded to return or returns only because he wants to spare Nia from having to face everyone's fury, then truly Guneet is so much better off without this guy.

But love seems to have turned Guneet dumb and blind and she seems to have swallowed all her self respect too. She never discussed his outburst at the Roka when he regretted his decision to marry- one romantic eye lock and that was it. I'm afraid that even now his running away may not get discussed by the two of them- some romantic gesture and she and viewers will both make their peace!

I'm also afraid that Nia will continue to play interpreter, spokesperson and counselor even after the wedding. Amber Sharma gave Guneet a bhashan on communicating, but like everything else with him, even that is only a one way street.

And to think that it was the so called intense communication and meeting of minds between NDP and BM which had got them this far!!

And there are 3 leads in this show, but unfortunately we never get to see the perspective of GS!

Originally posted by: Bana

I am like done with Amber Sharma. Not only is he amazingly self-centred, he has the nerve (or the CVs do) to project his selfishness as love & consideration for Guneet - “kya main uske laayak hoon, kya main usko khush rakh paaonga” type of self-doubt. That’s what bugs me more. The only real self-doubt he has is “kya mujhe badalna padega, kya mujhe sifr apne terms pe pyar nahin mil sakta”.

It’s disgusting how a selfish indecisive male who doesn't know the L of love is being passed off as the ultimate selfless lover & parent. If it wasn’t for VB & ST I wld hv quit on this regressive masquerading as progressive show the day Ambar messed up Guneet’s first roka.

There's no doubt tat father-daughter bond has been beautifully portrayed bt rt8 4m day 1 hv never cn Amber going 2 d extent in changing himself d way Niya has changed her entire life 4 him. Guneet toh baad mein, 4 once he never thought ki uske bhaag jaane se Niya kis problem mein padegi. How much she will hv 2 undergo. This is d only thing I don't like abt MDKD ki Amber ki badi se badi ghlati ke baad bhi HERO portray kiya jata hai. He always thinks abt himself first leading 2 bad actions nd then no remorse. It's annoying 2 c Niya nd Hamkim brushing off his bad deeds under d carpet. I often feel G was rt8 in telling N ki "tumhe apni dad ki burayia nazar hi nahi aati.' Hv lost count of d no. times A was extremely bad wid others- always insulted G, made personal attacks, crossed d limits in instigating Anurag by revealing abt her personal life, badly treated Randeep who had always tried 2 save his agency, didn't even left Pummy ji bt never ever 4 once hv I cn Niya making him realize how he hurts others. Why? Dad aapka BP badh jayega"". Really?? I bet post marriage G is bound 2 get hurt more as A's expectations r different. Remember d dream he saw of how his life will be after marriage. I totally agree what A said 2 N 'yehi choti baatein baad mein issues banti hai, pyaar kahi nikal jata hai" Don't know why hv a strong feeling ki yeh honne wala hai bcoz G's personality is not only different 4m A bt also 4m his dead life. I won't b surprise if later G regrets marrying A as she has clearly told N ki she has never asked 4 marriage, was happy wid his saath only. It was Niya who rushed 2 everything. Poor Niya. I feel so bad how she blames herself 4 every mess created by her dad. Come on she is just 24 has her life and career. Why Amber can't c this? Wid some hints of NiShi coming up soon, I wonder if Niya thinks 2 settle how her life will b. Her Daddy duties r never gonna end

I really like the title..🤣rasode me kyon tha..?rasode me mein tha..shree says🤣🤣

Jokes apart..

Muze sabse jyada bura tab laga jab niya kabir se baat kar rahi thi aur keh rahi thi ke sab usake wajah se hua he..n usse usake dad ko akele nahi chodna chahiye tha .usse apni meeting cancel kar dena chahiye thi..n all that..

I guess jab niya ne ambar ko pucha what he want to do next..n ambar said marriage .(kuch episodes pehle ka scene tha jab niya ko pata chalta he amneet ke bare me n she accept them),I think ambar just said this in flow n wasn't even ready for marriage at that time..

But others get so much excited , proposal,shadi barat..they get so carried away in happiness..even guneet..

I don't think niya ke samne woh marriage ye word bolne se pehle ambar ne ek baar bhi pammi mammi kaha rahegi baad me..?unke sath hi rahegi..?guneet ki baki ki family..?ya unki hone wali life..?ya fir honewale bacche..?inn sabke bare me socha hoga..

I m sure he had even not think that how will be their future life specially financially..

N i think guneet may be so much trust him or assuming ke ambar pammi mammi ki responsibility..n i think unke honewale baby ke bare me toh guneett ne bhi nahi socha hoga..

I have had enough of Amber. I did not sign up to watch a 50yrs old petulant child. I feel sorry for Niya and Guneet and actually Anjali as well.

Hi guys!

New on this forum. I recently sat down and watched all the episodes coz I thot seriously kuch accha and different hai. Also because Shaleen joined the show.

I read all the comments and and I could not help but agree here. AS is very fickle minded yaar. And he is so inconsiderate about Niya's work or GS's feelings. Ever since the marriage has been fixed, he is behaving as if he belongs to alien world where marriages dont exist and he is all over the place.

Ever since the functions have begun, I feel Amber is so paranoid that he completely forgets that this GS's 1st marriage and she has a lot of wishes and dreams about how it should be. Why does his 24 yr old daughter have to explain each and everything to him all the time. Hona toh yeh chahiye ki Niya ki shaadi mei AS should sit down and explain duniyadaari to her 😆