23rd September episode - Amber scared ..one two cha cha cha

So umhmmm....kal ke emotional episode ke baad hamari serial ki gaadi wapas patri pe aane ko tyar...

The episode starts with Guneet trying to teach Amber the dances for Sangeet party...wah waah .

Kya kya koshish ki Guneet ne ...and finally Amber ki gaadi one two cha cha cha pe aake ruki aur woh iski practise karne lage

Baat hai yeh ki scene isliye acha hai because Varun's expressions are so so realistic...jaise ki ek bandar ke hath mein watch de di ho he was so much like a fish out of water ...I mean expressions ke badshah hain Varun Badola ..he personified Amber 's exact feelings ...anyways so we see Amber feeling strange and little scared of changes being brought in his life ...he is clearly not ready for such changes ..he talks to himself he remember Nia's words ...but is unable to convince himself ...Amber moves around the house trying to talk to Nia and in trying to run away from what he is feeling

Meanwhile we see Nia going out to give a presentation and then again being pulled into her feelings for Kabir ...Kabir toh jaise Nia naam ke taale ki chabi hai...atleast this is the impression we get .

Nia bhag rahi hoti hai apne presentation and she recieves a call from Rishi..who tells her that she can relax as meeting is delayed and then goes on to tell her that this is the first time he met people who move forward without carrying emotional baggage and because he is with them he is also becoming like them...he looks at a picture in the frame and then says that he is also moving forward and leaving forgiving himself and others...and then goes on to say that he has begun to like Nia very much and then a music most probably music which will be about Rishi and Nia plays in Bg ...meanwhile Amber wants to talk it out to Nia and is unable to..

Amber is getting insecure about the age factor in this marriage

I really hope Amber and Guneet do not get married. Clearly Amber is not ready for it and his decision to propose was completely impulsive ( which you don't expect from someone his age). He clearly does not want additional responsibilities or want Guneet in his personal space.

Originally posted by: coolniki

I really hope Amber and Guneet do not get married. Clearly Amber is not ready for it and his decision to propose was completely impulsive ( which you don't expect from someone his age). He clearly does not want additional responsibilities or want Guneet in his personal space.

I've had this thought that the marriage was being rushed. Let's see how they deal with it tho :)

I feel they'll postpone the marriage track now by amber calling it off as both Varun n Shweta are not available. And good, if it happens. Amber Guneet need to sort out a lot of things! I understand guneet is not as old as amber n it's her first wedding, so she must be excited, really excited...but I am not liking her supposedly cute behaviour since last few days. Maybe it's just her wedding excitement, but she's not able to maturely look at the situation around and how it is impacting amber. Amber too doesn't understand her but he has Nia to make him understand, so at least after a lecture from her, he introspects and makes up for it. But there's nobody to make guneet understand anything. I fear a major showdown will happen between amneet when guneet will be in her lala land n amber will lose it🙈 So I prefer this wedding gets called off n they have some time to understand eachother. That way, they can as well reduce the bheed from the sets.

N rishi is back🤦 I got more irritated by him n the amount of screen space he got yesterday. That rude badtameez aadmi is suddenly sugar sweet now after whatever he would have done in this period of his MIA. N when I think of him with Nia, I feel like🤢 (that's about the characters, not the actors) Suddenly he's liking her a lot too🤓

I was not a fan of kabir-nia pairing till there was randeep but now I badly want them to happen! I find Kabir really so cute!! Look how naturally he takes care of Nia, getting her a coffee Yaad se, making her drink it n setting her stuff in her bag, tucking her hair behind her ears n all😆 I mean no, this doesn't make him perfect man for her, but I just love the comfort n ease n understanding the two share❤️ and his presence in her house toh...he roams around like his own house...I am fan of kabir amber Jodi since forever😆

I don't think Amber is at fault here. I agree the way he behaved in the Roka ceremony was unacceptable. But later he did realize his mistake.

And he wasn't even thinking about the age difference. It was Pummy who first mentioned it. Then her other relatives made a big issue out of his grey hair. And according to the precap where they are forcing him to apply dye in his hair and saying "We will tell everyone that the groom is only 40". The age is being planted in his mind. If that is the way Anjali and his relatives behaved no wonder he distanced himself from them. I would have too.

No. I simply do not want Kabir and Niya to happen. Not because I want Nishi to happen. Because I strictly believe that you should not date your best friend. Because sometimes you need someone to talk about things you can't share with your spouse. And in this situation who would be better than your best friend. But if your best friend is you spouse that option is not available

And finally RB is back.. I absolutely loved their conversation. Looks like they are getting close. I hope CVs don't mess up their story.

Originally posted by: IFLove

I feel they'll postpone the marriage track now by amber calling it off as both Varun n Shweta are not available. And good, if it happens. Amber Guneet need to sort out a lot of things! I understand guneet is not as old as amber n it's her first wedding, so she must be excited, really excited...but I am not liking her supposedly cute behaviour since last few days. Maybe it's just her wedding excitement, but she's not able to maturely look at the situation around and how it is impacting amber. Amber too doesn't understand her but he has Nia to make him understand, so at least after a lecture from her, he introspects and makes up for it. But there's nobody to make guneet understand anything. I fear a major showdown will happen between amneet when guneet will be in her lala land n amber will lose it🙈 So I prefer this wedding gets called off n they have some time to understand eachother. That way, they can as well reduce the bheed from the sets.

N rishi is back🤦 I got more irritated by him n the amount of screen space he got yesterday. That rude badtameez aadmi is suddenly sugar sweet now after whatever he would have done in this period of his MIA. N when I think of him with Nia, I feel like🤢 (that's about the characters, not the actors) Suddenly he's liking her a lot too🤓

I was not a fan of kabir-nia pairing till there was randeep but now I badly want them to happen! I find Kabir really so cute!! Look how naturally he takes care of Nia, getting her a coffee Yaad se, making her drink it n setting her stuff in her bag, tucking her hair behind her ears n all😆 I mean no, this doesn't make him perfect man for her, but I just love the comfort n ease n understanding the two share❤️ and his presence in her house toh...he roams around like his own house...I am fan of kabir amber Jodi since forever😆

I feel Niya's Daddy duties r not gonna end even after finding a partner nd get him married. Just look at how again he is busy sending her voice notes despite knowing she has an imp presentation. Reminds me of WeNet crisis. I fail 2 understand Amber. Ok I get he is panicking bt he is a 50 yr old man rt8 nd this is his 2nd marriage so l won't assume he is so innocent 2 c tat he is not bringing just Guneet into his life bt her mom 2 nd being d social person G is shor sharaba, family get togethers will happen. At this pt l agree Pummy's fear tat Amber has only one relation in his life - Niya. I fear post marriage some major showdowns r bound 2 happen as Niya cannot go on taking her Dad's side 2 convince G 2 c Amber's luv not rudeness. In all this yes as a viewer still fail 2 connect wid RB nd l bet the tracks like sexual harassment, Naina won't b addressed nd focus will b on forcefully making a luv interest. Common CVs Niya is just 24 nd she has so much 2 achieve. Tbh the way Niya n Kajal made long talks while leaving WeNet l expected something different bt damm expecting something new 4m itv is hopeless. CVs can't think of anything beyond creating luv angles. Like seriously 🙄. How difficult is it 2 show tat a girl is keeping her career ahead. Nahi zabsrdasti ka pyaar ghusana mandatory hai. Would hv preferred 2 c RB as mentor rather than someone falling 4 mentee. Also l don't like how he leans nd comes 2 close to Nia while talking. Who does tat? Imagine any female mentor doing d same wid a male mentee. Character certificate mil jata usko. I don't get something which is unacceptable 4 a woman how it becomes cool behaviour 4 a man? This is just my perception so plz no fighting over this. I'm talking abt d character not d actor🙏

I agree with u re RB & Amber. Looks like Ambar has an anxiety problem, when he gets worked up & anxious he cannot thing straight or consider any one else’s convenience not even his most loved one’s. He will put his own daughter’s career at stake every time he gets this bout of anxiety. Now he is putting Guneet’s happiness also at stake each time. Because he gets so consumed by his anxiety he cannot think beyond his suffering & confusion. Niya & Hakim have done him a disservice by ignoring this & not getting him professional help.

I also agree with Stormfly who pointed out that Guneet has been behaving rather juvenile last few days. How much ever the dreams & excitement of a first time bride she is after all 40, has seen the world & encountered good & bad folks. She shd hv enuf sensitivity & judgement of how somebody is feeling. She is changing her lehanga choice according to Amber’s liking but that is a superficial thing. How can she not see his underlying discomfort with the pace & scale of things, with getting close to her, with giving her a proper place in his room & life & arms, with accepting her as a package deal with mom & relatives etc. But she is really in a lala land only thinking about lehangas & sangeet dance!

Also Hakim is a wise but silent spectator. He is like Niya, alive to Amber’s issues but sweeping them under the carpet. Not done by a true friend.

I don't believe that Guneet is at fault here. She had always been this vivacious person. Any person who has always dreamt of getting married will be excited. Amber has issues which he can't express to Guneet and still expects everything to be fine. He has made Niya the mediator between him and Guneet. He is a grow up man who clearly handle his life and the problems that comes with it. According to me a person who cannot adapt according to change is a weak person because they will always cling to what used to be and will never be in the present. Guneet deserves so much more than a man child who is always dependent on others whether be his first wife or his daughter.

Originally posted by: Bana

I agree with u re RB & Amber. Looks like Ambar has an anxiety problem, when he gets worked up & anxious he cannot thing straight or consider any one else’s convenience not even his most loved one’s. He will put his own daughter’s career at stake every time he gets this bout of anxiety. Now he is putting Guneet’s happiness also at stake each time. Because he gets so consumed by his anxiety he cannot think beyond his suffering & confusion. Niya & Hakim have done him a disservice by ignoring this & not getting him professional help.

I also agree with Stormfly who pointed out that Guneet has been behaving rather juvenile last few days. How much ever the dreams & excitement of a first time bride she is after all 40, has seen the world & encountered good & bad folks. She shd hv enuf sensitivity & judgement of how somebody is feeling. She is changing her lehanga choice according to Amber’s liking but that is a superficial thing. How can she not see his underlying discomfort with the pace & scale of things, with getting close to her, with giving her a proper place in his room & life & arms, with accepting her as a package deal with mom & relatives etc. But she is really in a lala land only thinking about lehangas & sangeet dance!

Also Hakim is a wise but silent spectator. He is like Niya, alive to Amber’s issues but sweeping them under the carpet. Not done by a true friend.

Because people are enabling her. Her wishes for wedding functions are getting fulfilled and prioritzed since day 1, from lehenga to the song that will play when she walks down the mandap 😝 even nia is seeing her happiness and not her dad losing shit over it. Everyone is like haye pehli shadi and how dulha should look younger and she don't care, but she should know how it's impacting amber.

And amber toh 😏 still being juvenile. Like how he destroyed nias usa opportunity previously he's doing the same today sending voice note after voice note and getting panic attack. If rishi was as khadoos as he was previously he would have yelled at nia at the disturbance and rightly so . They rushed into the marriage thing too soon. And I actually hope with shweta being in quarantine maybe Guneet runs away from wedding as she realised how unhappy amber is and amber have this whole growing up stuff. It will be dramatic but ah well😆

Ambar has been very annoying from last few days, can't stand his behavior, the way he talks to Kabir everytime insulting him, insulting Guneet at the Roka publicly and apologizing in private, he keeps making blunders and then act clueless, he is 50 not 5

Also Nia's character graph has improved a lot in last few days and Ambar is just going downhill, everytime Nia has an important presentation/project, Ambar comes up with some silly issue and makes a mountain of a molehill and starts calling Nia or barges into her office

he doesn't enjoy himself and doesn't let others do it too, always plays the spoilsport and ruins it for everyone

He is very thankless and clearly not ready to make space for Guneet in his world and Nia's

while Nia is being very understanding and cooperative Ambar is being very rigid and stubborn like his usual self

He better not marry Guneet because he is only going to give her a lot of grief and troubles