Originally posted by: euphoric
This got to be one of the most balanced post on the forum... hi this is Sonia... would just like to add my bits to it.
They say there is no bigger teacher than experience.
He was a teenager when he misplaced his trust on a wrong man. The result was, a decade of loneliness and self-loathing. His wounded soul doesn't believe he is worthy of love. A man parched for love is bound to be territorial because it hasn't come easily to him. Result, raw emotions, sharp instincts and impulsive carnage. It was Mandar who was scared of Pallavi knowing about the challenge. But by hiding it from Pallavi, Raghav fell for Mandar's bait. Raghav confronts, doesn't hide. But he did this time. The player was played! He was skeptical of revealing the truth to her, yes... because he has fought all his battles alone. He is not accustomed to allies and thus didn't find his faith to include her in this fight? Can he be judged?? No! He acted in self preservation and we all flip in desperation.
Pallavi might have craved for a normal family all her life. She might have missed her parents. She was devoid of that warmth. Thus, when married at an early age, she would have sought the comfort of a family. I don't think she married Mandar, she actually married his family and committed herself to them. When she called her in laws Aai Baba, it was a promise to keep. No matter how dysfunctional the family be, it's not easy to shun them. Especially for a person like Pallavi. She is not judgmental or someone who holds grudges. Had that been the case, Raghvi would have been impossible. Pallavi for certain feels indebted to people who took her in as their own after the death of their son. She have never experienced the horrid color of deceit. She is naive and yet to realize that, all that glitters is not gold. Ofcourse girls do have instincts but unfortunately predators are master manipulators and at times the most trusted clan members. If Raghav can fall for Mandar's game than why can't Pallavi fall for his emotional drama? Can we judge her? No... she is trying to bring happiness to a place she has called her home. She is not dumb but for sure acting like a fool here. Do we not act stupid at times?
The situation has overwhelmed them both and both are acting according to their perspectives. Tbh duniyadaari dono ki samajh ke Bahar hai... they are both emotionally driven people. But the good thing is Raghav acknowledged his insecurity and was quick to mend the bridge. Pallavi tried standing up to doctor Ramya. It will only be a matter of time for the fizz to settle and things to be clear. They have chosen their priorities and it's a test of their faith. This track will eventually help both of them to evolve as people as well as a couple.
This was really nice analysis Sonia .
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