Originally posted by: Anjureads
I get what you are saying. And from your pov its correct.
But I still feel what he felt for Manushi was nothing more than a crush or infatuation which he built a dream on. Any crush or infatuation is like a drug... it also raises your heartbeats, can send you in a daze, make you do illogical things and then you dont get that drug then you have withdrawal symptoms which show as if you will die without that drug. So when his dream with Manushi broke it hurt. And he went through withdrawal symptoms. If he really was in love with Manushi he would have been shown thinking more of her even when she wasnt around. But then there were triggers which made him remember her. He also sought answers from her why she did what she did. He has never done that with Meety.
In the third angle track, whenever Manushi came up, it brought back them memories of the heartbreak he went through and he relived the pain of a fake relationship. I never felt he relived the good times with her.
And about doing things logically. He too has used logic in many places when courting Manushi. He also has kept his priorities in correct place even when in love with Manushi. Manushi did not supersede everything. As an example is the cricket match that he played with Meety. He found it more important to play the match with Meety than to be on time to meet Manushi. I dont know if I remember correctly, he didnt even inform that he would be late.
He didnt have that kind of trust on Manushi the type he has on Meety ever since he started knowing her properly and I will say had already started falling in love with her too.
When Masoom accused Manushi of hiding something after the engagement, he went to check even if it was just to prove Masoom wrong. When Masoom accused Meety of hiding Manushi he didnt bother. He just trusted that Meety does what is best. He didnt feel the need to even prove Masoom wrong.
Well for me, I dont want the only passionwala love if this trustwala love is available.
Having said this, I will say the makers have made their fair share of mistakes in showing things in the right perspective so that the whole fandom didnt have to keep discussing it again and again. The whole third angle thing that they introduced during HM track just messed it up.
Hmm I don't know yaar.
I think I am unable to accept it as love story and fiction is about connect and I have lost my connect somewhere so maybe I am not able to feel the way you all feel.
Its a simple mature story of 2 individuals according to me who meet each other understand each other,find about theirselves and grow old together.
You know what I maynot be able to watch it as a show in my life again but their story is really a very nice story to live in real life.
Its non toxic,progressive story.
Its very hard to find man like meetA who is non competitive,non jealous who doesn't exert his haq but rather gives her haq,for whom belongingness doesn't matter but her freedom matters.
Becoz you know I think we will find many women in this world who let go of their partners their husbands for their happiness but you will never find one man like this,becoz men takes this as challenge,they think woman as their property.
But this role reversal is good here meetH is like that while meetA is opposite,I already said yesterday ki its notion that boy will pursue a girl,propose her but its not necessary,a girl can also do this she also can convey her liking and pursue a boy if she find him worth the effect.
Toh fir kya fark padta hai ki initiate meet kare yah meet😆
Baki regards from my side to its viewers,I am happy you guys find something which you would like.👍🏼
I am little bit old fashioned mujhe ladka hi chahiye ki effort kare toh fir thoda difficult hai to enjoy this but I am not against this.
Edited by Nephy - 2 years ago
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