Originally posted by: Nephy
Umm I don't consider this love..Sorry.
I always says he is husband material(sorry to use the word)
All these points make him responsible,caring,considerate human being firstly and than a very very good life partner as meetH always says anyone who would have got him would be lucky.
He is very good son,brother,brother-in-law and now husband.
And yeah in real life thats what all matters,he is the perefct example of whom you should choose as your life partner.
But no he doesn't love meetH,love is emotion which is very empowering,its rare to experience love in your life,we experience attatchments on day to day basis but love no its difficult to feel that strongly for someone.
He cares for meetH he is attached to him but she is not someone who can make him go mad, his logic his mind his heart everything is at right place even when she is mad at him,she is not able to make him go illogical becoz no emotion than love can make anyone do that,he was cool when she ignored him,her avoidance disturbs him but doesn't push his buttons.
Becoz harmones which releases when a person falls in love certainly make you do these illogical things which you marked as bookish or filmy.
Its not filmy dear its true,rare in real life but true.
Their story is realistic not love story.
Their story is same which goes in day to day life but not love story which we see in fiction becoz thats the reason love doesn't exist in its true form in real world it unfortunately only exists in stories,films
When logic get involved emotions takes back seat and its good if your relationship is logical rather than emotional I am very much in favor of this but to satisfy myself I label their practical marriage as love story nahi I don't feel so.
I know our views differ a lot but I always felt ki how quick his emotions for manushi hooda but he showed signs of love with her,she sent him in jiffy,she raised his heartbeats,she made him blush,she made him wait for her,its was too soon but that has signs of love.
With meetH everything is planned as it should be its not spontaneous it couldn't be,they would have to plan their marriage they have to make it work,they have to live as normal married couple.
And lastly when love combines with care,respect and attatchment than its something which is magical but thik hai jo hai..
Baki itni planning kar ke I hope ki finally kuch toh feel kare uske liye not ki she is my wife and I've duties towards her as his father sahaab taught him on first day of HM and since than he knows intiamcy is not off the table and whenever meetH will feel ready they would have to get intimate.
But at the end toxic love se toh yeh hi better hai..kam se kam your blood doesn't boil while reading.
I know you wouldnot be agree with me becoz you labelled his affecting with manushi as harrassment but I never thought that way becoz according to me he was disturbed becoz he was still getting affected becoz of her and he was guilty for feeling that way thts why he was disgusted with himself whenever she touched him her touch affected him and disgusted him with himself for feeling that way.
So we differ a lot.
I've no issues.
Kar diya
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