Episode Discussion Thread #1 - Page 7

Originally posted by: --Hope--

I don't think Adi is demonstrating his concern in an intrusive way

he is trying to support her in this decision to gain independence or her own identity (without him) but he does not believe her independence should come at a cost to her health or safety.

Is that so wrong? I cannot see that as being an overbearing attitidue? he seems to be sincere, thoughtful and caring. he holds no grudges and does not even seem to discourged by her desire to begrudge him his concern.

isn't this what anyone would expect of a wellwisher? husband or not

Again, is that so wrong of him? Not sure

Aditya is genuinely concerned about her and deeply loves her. He is worried about her seeing her in her present condition. She has just come out of hospital, had surgery and on top of all that she is emotionally drained. Aditya is there for her but she is not willing to listen.
If he can support her when she wanted to leave home, i'm sure he will be more than happy to support her when she decides she wants to be a lawyer.
He gave her the strength once before, he can do it again. Once Priya comes out of this turmoil, she will see Aditya is genuinely concerned and not lash out at him.

I dont think hes wrong in wanting to be there for her and i'm glad that he also said he is as ziddi as she is and will not back down. Maybe this will get her thinking.

Originally posted by: likarsh

Haven't watched or read the update yet. But I will just say that I don't think it's really the case that someone who is contemplating an abortion wouldn't love her child the way the child should be loved once the child is born, or even after the decision to keep the baby.

However, the questions that arise are completely natural and kids themselves are affected greatly many times if/when they find out that one parent had wanted an abortion.

I have heard others describe the feeling once the baby is put into your arms. Whether it be biologically theirs or not. That the feeling and love was something they had never expected. I'm sure that's also the case with some who've first considered abortion, but then decided to continue with the pregnancy.

Completely agree with that statement. I've heard the same thing, what you may think before the baby is born changes for a lot of women after the baby is actually born and they hold him/her for the first time.

That being said, how the baby will feel, how others will react to the baby, that all depends.

Copying what I replied to Ravina's post. I didn't express myself properly, but I don't know how to do it any better.

I definitely agree that Devyani is past caring about Brahma, but I don't know, I think a part of her will definitely be hurt (?) (I know that's not the right word, but I don't know how to describe it either) when she finds out that Uttara is pregnant with her ex-husband's child. That probably doens't make any sense, but I think it's just an instinctive feeling, not something that's conscientious on her part, but just like a spontaneous reaction. That being said, I definitely agree with the statement that other peoples feelings are not more important than the baby.

Naina...I hear you! Devyani will be shocked for sure upon hearing not so good news about UT..

In the precap for Monday, Aditya overhears Uttara and Vidya talking about the pregnancy.

Priya gets the job with SJ, but goes about it the proper way, she goes for an interview rather than approaching SJ directly to him. She wanted to restore her self confidence and she did. As she said in her interview she wants to finish her studies.
Looks like Priya is finally headed in the right direction after all the pain.

So...yet to watch today but I did want to say that Priya's situation being shown, like it was yesterday, is silly...for me. Priya is no longer the single girl with a rumored bad reputation like she was when she met Aditya. In fact, the news media was shown appreciating her guts when the truth came out in court...and being anti-Brahma. So why show people still being obnoxious to her? She can be portrayed as a bright young woman who is out to make something of herself without the other crap. This "woman-against-the-world" avatar the writers are showing is unnecessarily dramatic!

Originally posted by: BheegiBasanti

So why show people still being obnoxious to her? She can be portrayed as a bright young woman who is out to make something of herself without the other crap. This "woman-against-the-world" avatar the writers are showing is unnecessarily dramatic!

I agree with you Jaya ... i even mentioned it, if everyone knew about the case then how come they didint know Brahma was proved guilty. And all those women who were protesting against Brahma and wanting justice for Devyani and Priya wasnt that all in the news? 😕

just watched it.

The lady that interviewed Priya, wasnt she the same lady who was also at Gaurav Vidyas sindoor raat.
She was teasing Vidya.