i dont think we shud b so frank as 2 say aanhal is proved 2 b a step mom ....i mean its clearly been shown that hr charecter lovs jayas kids if she has gone as far as 2 abort hr own child jus so sachin wudn think he wasn lovd n nw givin up hr own kid to try n bring the outher kids back in theire lives.n u hav 2 take in 2 account dat she is girl of a much younger age than sidharth who has given up hr dreams jus 2 b a mother 2 these kids.... there is no question of hr being labled wid da sauteli maa stigma that was the whole point of da show to change our perception of the sauteli maa stereotype !!!
.... as for sidharth not being a good father dats not entirely fair i think.
the guy did not want 2 remarry in da 1st place as he lovd his 1st wife so devotedly but it was 4 da kids sake dat he did ....da guy had responsibilities of not jus da kids but providing for the whole family he was left wid no choice but 2 remarry 2 giv da kids da lov n care they need as the women in his family wud never giv dat 2 his kids!!!
as 4 him leaving da kids behind again he had no choice his charecter being a man of principle he had made a commitment 2 aanchal 4 da sake of da kids maybe but there is noway he can leave hr after she has sacrifised hr whole life 4 his kids!!! he had 2 choices one was 2 let aanchal go n let hr liv wid da stigma dat hr husband had left hr or go wid aanchal n wait 4 da kids 2 com round n i think he made da right deision.
its not as if his 4goten his kids entirely the episodes wen it showed hw grief stricken his charecter was by da seperation frm his kids was more than enough 2 convince me of the pain he ws going threw as a father ....his belife as he said in an earliar epi dat they will com round 1day n he will hav his complete family n he has left them safe wid his family 4 nw da fact he givs his trust n lov 2 his family entirely includin his maa 2 look after da kids for him... it is unfortunate that not all his family members r deserving of dat trust n lov!!!
as 4 them havin a baby he had finally accepted aanchal as his wife bfore argument dat forced him 2 leave his house n kids behind... n why shud they end a new life jus because of kids who r too young 2 understand the level n depth of da sarifices made by the adults in their lives ...kids need time 2 com round n understand why he made da deisions he did but life cant stop till dat happens n as his chare cter says who cares if people r of the opinon dat he was wrong he knows wat he feels 4 his children n dats all dat matters
i think we as a society r too judgmental n too contious of how others percive us its good for shows like dis 2 show dat we shudn liv our lives n sacrifice our hapiness 2 please society as long as we know wats in our hearts dats all dat matters.
SORRY GUYS FOR THIS LONG POST BUT I REALLY WANTED 2 DEFFEND SANCHAL FRM DA JUDGMENTS MADE ABOUT THEIR CHARECTERS ....THE POINT I THINK OF THE SHOW IS 2 SHOW US THE AUDIANCE HW NOT 2 MAKE JUDGEMENTS AS WE HAV BEEN GIVEN AN INSIGHT INTO THE CHARECTERS REAL FEELINGS N THOUGHTS SO WE WUD SEE DAT NOT EVRY THING IS AS IT SEEMS!!! THE MORAL OF THE THE STORY AS I SEE IT IS -WE SHDN MAKE JUDGMENTS ON PEOPLE AS WE DONT KNOW WATS IN THEIR HEARTS!!!
Edited by jen1 - 15 years ago
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