Bed tea, W*H??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: fast trak

When will this male dominated society end?😔

LOL ...we need more dolly bindra's in order to accomplish that difficult mission 😆

Originally posted by: .Arjun

Aww ......people dont care much about my nonsense posts so get rid of any misconceptions 😆

Hey .. I love your posts Arjun😛 Very meaningful and witty as well👍🏼

Originally posted by: .Arjun

LOL ...we need more dolly bindra's in order to accomplish that difficult mission 😆

oh dear dont even mention her. she is a kalank to womanhood.😆

Originally posted by: .Arjun

Awww ....my favorite disciple Akash baby ...🤗 🤗 .

I can easily tell that you never participated in healthy debates right ? You won't get so personal otherwise in the first post 😳 Can I suggest anger management classes 😳 😆

In some cultures they also talk about spouse washing hubby's feet with water and drink it .....do you support that as well ? How do you know if women happily do it or not ? 😕 Just because women do not complain, it doesn't mean that they are happy doing it. Awareness would be key to bring the change. And look at some posts in this topic from female member, they clearly do not like this attitude where women are treated like main or servant. Please re-read all posts in this topic.

You changed my name from forum baba to moral baba ? LMAO 😆

Learn to take things lightly buddy. Its my personal opinion and I have every right to express it. If you disagree, do present your views.

By the way, do you enjoy your bed tea everyday ? 😉 😆

I do not know what culture u r from Mr. Name changing baba ..I wonder what u thought abt ur mother. when she pasisonately cooked your favourite dishes.. what you thought about your father when may be he rushed to the market to buy your favourite stuff.

@Akash: First of all, don't act diplomatically here. If the topic is a discussion about a husband and a wife relationship, don't bring kids and parents in the scenario.
Regarding bed tea and other household tasks like cleaning dishes, washing clothes, etc. ,recollect in your mind what words Sujit used when Zehra asked her to clean utensils: he said "ye sab auraton ke kaam hai, I will not do". Do you agree, its mandatory that only wife should do these chores. I certainly can never agree with this, because I am a wife too with a very supporting husband. I dont ask my husband to help me in every chore but yeah, we have shared responsibilities together so that life for both of us becomes easy. For instance, I make tea in the morning on weekdays and he makes it on weekends. In that way, we also get variety in taste and also in life.
About your grocery part, now a days mostly both the partners are working and nobody goes for grocery daily. Its usually a weekend chore and its not a rule that only husband goes out and wife gives him a list what to bring. Also kids love to see that both the parents take different kinds of responsiblities at home. Eg: Sujit's son was so happy to see him working at home and making something for kids.

About your words below:
"you are too young to understand and appreciate.. the depth of relationship and know that a wife / husband can do work for each other out of share love like parents do for their kids selflessy."

How can you know who is too young or old without knowing them personally. And FYI, youth is counted by the level of maturity in mind and years of experience. You cant prove your point by showing someone down. I believe a relationship becomes strong not just only by understanding problems but taking steps and acting on them.

If today Antima has low self esteem and low confidence, one of the reason is that Sujit hardly cares & respects for Antima's needs and expectations.

@ami_31

Thank you so much . I couldn't have explained this so well 👏

Originally posted by: akash08

Akaash,

I am seriously laughing at your post 😆 . Come on buddy 🤗 . Chillax,. Friends ? 😳


I do not know what culture u r from Mr. Name changing baba ..

Its funny that you asking me to grow up after making such childish statement. 😕 😆


I wonder what u thought abt ur mother. when she pasisonately cooked your favourite dishes.. what you thought about your father when may be he rushed to the market to buy your favourite stuff.

you are too young to understand and appreciate.. the depth of relationship and know that a wife / husband can do work for each other out of share love like parents do for their kids selflessy..

Err ..Seriously ..no offense, but this is the most thoughtless and nonsense anology I have come across in any debate. How can even you relate parent-child scenerio with this one ? I dont know why are you not appreciating effort put by women as well. Do accept that we are male dominated society. 😕

.. so please grow up and till then it would be better if you keep doing what u do best - praising the other half!!

Again, even if I try hard I can't act so arrogant and make such personal statements. 🤢

And YES ....I do love and praise other half ...I love everyone including other half. Remember other half also includes your mom/sis/granny . And I absolutely love all of them.

Whats wrong in praising them ? Have you not ever praised female members in your family for all the effort that they put in ? 😳

Chal buddy ...I am out unless you stick to topic rather than displaying your IQ over and over here I agree that my posts may be nonsense but no point in making personal attacks on me. I don't think i mentioned anything in my post that would have offended anyone here!

Ok guys, knock it off 😕😆

Originally posted by: anjali10

Ok guys, knock it off 😕😆

Dont fight now, all is well. 😃

Sure. I didn't mean to drag it but that reply was needed . Getting personal with someone is the last thing I can do 😳

All is well now. Thankx !!

Originally posted by: akash08

It is not difficult to know someone 's age in this virtual world specially of someone whose biodata is available to almost everyone ..

-- 🤔 Really ? 😆 Hey Arjun ... I don't have your biodata! Can I know the reason for treating me indifferently ?😛

Btw, It is VERY DIFFICULT to know someone's age in the virtual world! And esp. when "ppl who have just crossed their teen a couple of yrs ago" are making such sensible posts and are dealing with ppl so maturely 👍🏼 while some elder ones believe in making childish, personal remarks! 👎🏼

I am simply stating that somone who has just crossed his teen may be a couple of years ago, should refrain himself from commenting on marriage life and husband wife realtions.

-- We are all coming from different age groups and have different views and opinions. And THAT is what makes the discussions interesting and debetable! It's good to know what today's youth think about such concepts. I think Arjun's insights are always worth reading. 😃

At this age someone can only say crap on this topic ..

-- Huge generalization!

none can stop anyone from commenting on everyhting and anything.. but neither I can resist from pointing that out..

-- Do point out .. It's all well as long as you treat the other person with civility and acknowledge that everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Do read all your posts once and compare it with Arjun's. You had to make personal comments on him to prove your point ! 😕 Sorry but it only shows how mature you are! 😳

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