Jai ke Fans ki 'Jai' ho! - Page 6

Originally posted by: dmgmjht4ever

This reminds me of an issue a CC had before. However, the circumstances were different and the issue was resolved. It did break friendships, though.

It was about how a person was kicked out of a CC and that person eventually went through about five to ten pages of conversations about her, and they were, well, bashing and mocking her. There were two conflicts, both breaking the COC. One was for stalking, and the other was for bashing a member. Yet, they dealt with the issue, apologized to each other, and life continued. Of course, they were not initially ready to forgive as fast as apologizing. But in the end, they stay in their respective places and hang out with their groups.

Like I said, the circumstances were different, and I altered the story slightly in order to not reveal any more than necessary. So do you understand, Ankit?

Originally posted by: ankit_nyc

I don't understand why this person specifically picked on me though...I don't respond to her posts all that much or have had any sort of interaction with her to that degree...so why is she singeling me out? she even says how I've been doing the same thing in DID 2, DID LM, and this forum...I've never seen her in DID 2 forum or DID LM forum...If this person has such a big problem with me, why doesn't she just tell me instead of bashing me by calling me psychotic, crazy, loser etc? What really got me upset was that this person a few days ago gave this really long lecture about how DID 2 fans are bashers because all they do is cricize, and then what does she do? so you see the double standards I talke about earlier...😛

Originally posted by: Cutiepie Rani

wow seriously?

exactly why i made my initial statement. you all are allowed to respect, love, and look up to dharmesh, but we are not allowed to respect, love,a nd look up to our favorite (Jai in this case). what logic.

i have no problems with dharmesh or his fans, but yes they do tend to take it too far at times. tell me one thing...will it matter to dharmesh? will it matter to jai? they are not going to change because of what a few people think or say. they will stay the same and both are great at what they do. fans take it overboard. those fans that did make direct attacks towards dharmesh and his fans are wrong. hopefully they realize that they are wrong. had i seen those posts i would have said something. but does my saying even matter? it won't change the bashing or the hate someone has for a contestant.

why is the issue being stretched? raj has clearly stated that if anything of this sort happens again a WL will be given to the individuals. i'm sure everyone has read his message. therefore no point going back and pointing out individuals. no point creating a whole thread on it. you can simply pm Raj and see that he gets to dealing with the members you find offensive. your definition of posts being offensive is different than what the forum COC is. a WL cannot be issued unless the matter is serious. bashing of a contestant may increase a warning level. stating an opinion will not. once again your definition of bashing and stating an opinion may be different than Raj's or for that matter any GM's definition. using terms like "psychotic losers" or "stinky" or "mental issues" referencing a contestant or member is considered wrong and against the COC. and a WL may be issued for that particular member. sometimes what you term as offensive isn't offensive at all. and please don't over exaggerate posts. that's just ridiculous when you read too much into posts.

i'm not the one that referenced to "mental issues" nor did I call anyone "psychotic losers" or "stinky." so i'm not quite sure as to why i'm being attacked. also i have found a lot of your posts & ankit's posts offensive towards me. yet i haven't done anything. i just wish you all would understand that everyone has a different point of opinion and i just wish you'd learn to respect those opinions. no one is against you but neither does anyone have to be with you.

i personally am not taking credit away from dharmesh because he truly is a great dancer. but that doesn't mean i cannot like jai. doesn't mean that i can't defend him if i believe nothing was wrong with his actions. you just cannot expect me to do that.

i have done nothing wrong and neither have i made any statement that goes against IF's rule. so i have no reason to be scared.

usually at the end of my posts i do apologize for any actions that may have hurt your or anyone else's sentiments. but i will refrain from doing that because i clearly haven't done anything wrong. i respect dharmesh and i respect his fans as well. i just think some tend to go overboard by defending him to such extents. that is all.

EDIT to add: if you think i'm annoying then please ignore my posts. but don't expect me to stop posting here. because just as much as you have the right, i do too. calling me annoying is also against IF COC. will i report you? no because i'm not someone who presses the "report" button for every small issue. this is a PUBLIC forum and views are allowed to be expressed as long as they are expressed in the appropriate manner.

Originally posted by: Cutiepie Rani

Mihir I was going through anti-Jai topics because I am a fan of Jai. You know that. Why would I go through anti-Dharmesh topics if I'm not even interesting in reading about Dharmesh? I really didn't see any of the threads. If I had, I would have said something. But if you had a problem with the anti-Dharmesh threads you could have done the lecturing too.

Anyways let's not drag the issue further. You're right. Let's celebrate Osama's death! :-)

Originally posted by: dmgmjht4ever

In the I-F Code of Conduct, you are not allowed to go into people's chat clubs and stalk them in order to prove a point. I take note that this member did call Ankit these things, but you are not doing anything better by posting it on here, unintentionally admitting that you looked into this person's post and check what she had said about your favorite contestant.

Now getting to the bits and pieces. In her first post, she is simply talking about Dharmesh's performance and she enjoyed it. Because I watch this show and saw Dharmesh in DID 2, I know that he has that unique style that no one else on the show "really" has. Everyone is unique, which is why this show, Dance India Dance in general, was created, to show regular individuals' talents on a platform.

In the second part, she talks about Ankit. Now, I remember which topic this one was about, so I decided to look at it once more. [Link: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/lux-dance-ke-superstars/1668065/vrushali-siddesh-much-respect] She was clearly expressing her view on Vrushali and Siddesh's performance. However, Ankit did make a post about how he believes the DID 1 contestants are arrogant and hates the way members are supporting it. Last time I checked, I thought this was a dance show, not a personality show. Agree, the other members were talking about the forum and how it is becoming "anti-season-1." But sadly, people are still fighting about this, and no one can deny this. However it does not excuse the way she expressed this. But you should be able to realize that she was most likely a little disappointed in the fact that the thread she created was altered into a fighting thread due to Ankit.

I have clearly posted my thoughts. If you wish to oppose them, then kindly and in a peaceful manner do so.