destiny, religion and love

just watching the last few episodes i have been left disgusted, wanting to smack all the 3 prominent male characters that they have shown. and hating the thought that a man could ever think they more powerful then me or any other woman. but at the same time this show is so beautiful that i have been left thinking about the storyline and characters and how destiny, religion and love affects us and them.

Destiny

When I watch Sundar's scenes with the widow I don't know how to express myself properly here even though I know that his every breath and life is for Lajjo and that is his life and love. But there is something btw him and this woman a certain tenderness, trust, love and something untapped between them that goes beyond lajjo and his relationship with her and beyond freindship. He has forgotten everything, his mind and heart knows that he belongs to lajjo but still there is another part to him that may belong to this woman as well. Before Rohit came on I had never seen an episode of this show I don't know if Sunder had any feelings for her or not but there must have been something there coz they there is a connection between them that's very ebautiful and they look so beautiful as a couple.

We can be destined for greatness, evilness or goodness.

Sarfaraz and Jamaal are both very bad men Jamaal has been brought up to be heartless, to think since he is a man he can behave however he likes with a woman, he can take and take and take and coz he is a man he will have no consequences. He can kill, beat a woman up, degrade a woman and have no respect for a woman as a person, as a human being or her body. All that matters is that a man's ego and lust is satisfied.

And that slime dog Sarfaraz I just hate, hate, hate this character there is no chance of reform for this character. I like to think that the characteristic that is predominant in all of us is badness and not goodness. Some people are lucky in that they are innately good u can put them in the worst of situations and their goodness will always shine but there are some who have been cultivated to be good but know they are bad and are waiting for something to happen to trigger of the badness that are within them. And that is Sarfy I really hope Dulara and Lajjo cut his hands off and cut of his man hood and make him run naked in the mosque and he get stoned to death they can also set him on fire as well he deserves it 😆😉. He truly is the incarnation of everything evil and wrong in the world and what we all should watch out that we never become its better to kill of the dead then to keep them as snakes whilst living in fear for their next attack. He is the pit of darkness when I see his eyes I see nothing but emptiness in his eyes total demon.

The widow lady I don't know her name love might make an animal into a human being aka Jamaal but love can also make us selfish and insecure and wanting to keep it with us always. Love can liberate and suffocate. I wonder what the show has for this lady will she lose her dignity in love or will she control her feelings, her heart and not be pulled into a moment where she will be embarrassed as well as Sunder when he remembers his past. She is so close to the pit of self destruction her love for him is just controlling her.

Religion

With this wedding track I was highly amused that it was finally shown that the Noor Allah does know that there is someone above him. My word Jamaal the hottie does realize that there is a God, that religion is meant to be respected and that there is a limit to everything and to his power as a man. a good Muslim man would know that u don't hit a woman, force a woman and you are supposed to be kind, humane and respectful of a woman's body and their dignity. Some are extremely religion and some respect their religion, they have faith in it but don't follow what we should and Jamaal my noor allah is one of them. This backing off is what makes him different from Sarfaraz yes he used his religion to try and get Lajjo but even for him there was a limit to this usage whereas Sar-I-am-so -evil-fa-raz using his religion and disregards it to every extent.

Love

Compassion is an awakening of one's spirit, love, humaneness and what connects us to another person so that we can feel their pain and empathize with them. there is no love without compassion I think the next 30 days is going to be the awakening of Jamaal the man, the human being and his ultimate destiny to be a good man. He has everything in his disposal to be a good man he is intelligent there is a slight awareness in him that what he is doing is wrong but nothing has touched his stone heart to awaken the beast into a man and make him truly realize his mistakes and faults.

Got to mention 2 woman who I think have just captured my heart with their beautiful performance Dulari pretty doll with fire in her eyes and heart the character is probably waiting to die but I am happy even though she accepted her existence she will fight this time to the bitter. And then there is Noor I love this woman fire, intelligence and she is so in love with her Noor allah he is her god, her essence her life she has bowed down to him and is happy with whatever grain of emotion he gives her but still there is strength in her. Her love never weakens her from showing compassion and doing the right thing. Noor will happily die as his slave and will enjoy every minute of it. This should be weakness but somehow her love is not. I am sad that she couldn't win him over with her beauty, her grace, her mere presence should have gotten Jamaal to wash her feet every day of his life. but i will blame this all on stupidity and his male ego that has made him utterly stupid and blind. Bitter sweet that Lajwanti will bring out the human in him and not her. I hope they don't show her ever being evil towards Lajwanti she will definitely be jealous though and who could blame her her love is her craze.

This triangle was at 1^st very distasteful I have liked Jamaal and Lajwanti together I wanted him to be solely hers. I read that she will fall for him and his redemption is her love but it is going to be so interesting to see that connection between them which would be love but at the same time the writers showing the love between him and Noor. I really want him to love both woman equally and for Lajwanti to love him to.

The beauty of this show is that characters that have been written years ago the characterization is just as relevant as it was back then to now. In this day and age we have men who are monster like Jamaal but there is something there within them that can make them good. I don't use this word lightly and I laugh at people who call actors Sir but I am going to use it on Mr Rohit what a performance he is giving. The beauty of the character is its words but a true performer is one who turns the lifeless into something beautiful and he has so done that. I am not worried about the redemption of Jamaal they can continue showing him as a bad man I just want the transition to goodness to be realistic. But more than that I can't wait to see Sarfaraz killed he reminds me of those bas***ds, who rape woman, murder them and cut of all their limbs. Whoever is friends with the cvs tell them to give him the most horrendous death. And fabulous acting by the guy who plays Sarfaraz as well.