Quite on the contrary, I find Kabir very warm and supportive. It is Suraj whom I find very cold and entitled.
I remember a few episodes back, him commenting to a servant that "sab apni 'jagah' bhool rahe hai." In yesterday's episode, he tore papers and threw on Kabir's friends face. He has often spoken about 'jagah' which I understand as a softer term for 'aukad' to Kabir. He seems to have a very classist mentality. He can warn people or even argue things out with them but he would rather humilate them. Even when he visited Kabir's house and his sisters were not willing to have water there, he had nothing to say to them. Sometimes, when Kesar says something, he does follow her lead to do some good actions but I think he's an adult and he should be having some standards of his own by now.
Suraj did support Kesar in a recent episode by offering his room to her. But earlier, when Kabir pointed out that he does not support her unconditionally, it was true. He used to support her only when she had proven enough that she was correct.
Whether Kabir would take a stand for Kesar in future if Shakuntala becomes her saas and if Kabir is really her son remains to be seen. But in recent episodes, Kabir has stood up for Kesar several times. Despite being cruelly taunted for being an outsider and being reminded of his 'jagah' to the extent of even being reciprocated for a respectful 'Jay Ambe' greeting with hostility, he spoke up for Kesar not once but many times. He stood against the entire family, after seeing that Suraj wasn't supporting Kesar and backed off respectfully when Ambika discouraged him.
Also, Kabir does scrutinize Suraj's actions. In fact he appreciated it when Suraj warned Kesar against Hetal. He also apologized to Kesar when he believed he'd spoken much against Suraj.
In the episodes of their initial meetings, Kabir was trying to be friendly with Suraj. It was Suraj who gave him clear signs to stay away, the reason for which was not clear, so I believe it's again the classist attitude. If I was in Kabir's place, I would also have suspicion about Suraj's general attitude after being at the receiving end of such behaviour from him.
These are my views.
Edited by anon91 - 1 years ago
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