Originally posted by: akrishna111
The family doesn’t even know about what Khushi did. Blaming the entire family and purvi for one person is backwards thinking in my opinion. If they knew yes that’s bad but they didn’t. If monisha does something to hurt RV by mistake, will they divorce deepika? I don’t think so
This is tv. We can connect real life to this to a point but that it’s better to keep real life situations and tv separate. There is no laws to be followed on tv. yes men get falsely accused and they have right to seek compensation in courts but beyond that they don’t have right to marry into the same family for revenge. In real life you accept that someone did you wrong and then move on. Trying to get revenge is also harassment. In most cases the accusations are true at least in US. In India I can definitely see men trying to hit on women. Whenever I go for a visit, I will wear conservative clothes and I still get men staring non-stop. There are billions of people in this world. Our experiences and stories don’t represent the entire population.
I also am against RV marrying Purvi to revenge Kushi - thats not how you get justice
But indian courts are not US courts where a man or woman can get justice for sexual harassment or false cases in courts
Till today i doubt one man has been convicted for misbehaving with a woman in office in india although in Me too many were accused
See sexual abuse in office does not take place in front of others it happens behind closed doors where its very tough to prove for both a woman or man whether it really happened. There is no proof till man accepts hes done it to a woman. Or till a woman accepts she put false case like in RV case. There is no proof.
I have seen that in US police or judge usually are unbiased no matter how powerful man allegation comes against they will take case. But in india neither indian company nor authority will side with victims. Whoever is richer and powerful gets the support. So why would any woman in india dare put acase or coplaint even in company when she will only lose job or never get a job again in life. All these big bashan indian company give of integrity treating woman as equal is all PR they will side with abuser or powerful person only.
So RV i doubt will ever get justice in Kushi false allegation case in this life by any courts only Kushi must confess in front of courts for RV to be proved innocent. That shall never happen in TV or real life. No woman will accept she put false sexual harassment case on a man in this life.
I have seen some sexual harrment complaints in companies and not every time a man is at fault after investigation, sometimes the woman is putting false allegation too because her advances were not reciprocated by that man. Or a woman wanted promotion man refuses to give so they may file false complaints. I have seen such cases too in companies. too both in india and USA. Just because india is a patriarchal country do not assume only woman are victims i have seen women putting false allegations on men for varous reasons in india too. If 90% cases are genuine 10% are where woman are harassing men sexually and this is in india. In USA many more woman harrasing men in office cases come than india. Employees are not told or informed anything and have no clue of such cases. All cases are handled in top management level only entire company has no idea such cases are come or allegation come until its not high profile cases. Its all done in high secrecy actually.
In real life you accept that someone did you wrong and then move on. - Really if someone sends you in jail on false case and gets you beaten by police and your life destroyed you never get job in india etc you just move on? Even in USA no one will move on they will seek how to expose the lies and wrong allegation. What are you saying? Than no one should file any case in court for anything just move on in life? Why waste time seeking justice? I have seen india people put case and fight 25 years because conductor did not return 2 rs change. And against RV such big false allegation happened he should move on. Most victims will not accept what you say to move on because world will think they are criminals all life. Society and their relatives, neighbbours, friends will cast apersions on RV all life if hes not proved himself innocent for molestation accusation.
In india yes if you wear western clothes men stare or even touch. Thats not only in roads even in companies if you dress modern you are harassed. Thanks to movies and serials they show all vamps and bad woman in movies and serials in modern western dresses. Indian men think modern dressing woman are cheap and available and they can do anything with them. Same with woman who are out on roads after 9pm or 8pm they think those woman have bad character. India is still very conservative thinking not like USA/europe that women can wear western or short dresses and men will not attack or stare or touch. I agree with you on this.
Also in real life most things in ITV never happens. A man falsely accused of molestation and gone to jail will never marry that family girl at all in real life. Indeed as per psychology he will hate not only girl but her family too. Its human psychology to not only hate human who harmed you but also their family etc because you think they have given bad upbringing to the person/son/daughter so she destroyed your life by putting false case. Humans do not think rationally in revenge and anger. They will hate everyone associated with his enemy as bad. If thats not case palestine and israel and ireland and england etc would not be fighting for centuries over past.
I would say in real life if RV kind of issue happens and Rv becames a very rich human he would destroy armaan business make kushi and armaan pauper and may be destroy kumkum bhagya business to as its kushi moms. He will than marry monisha and lead happy life. But this is ITV they have to make even revenge story as love story that too love triangles. So RV will marry Purvi for revenge he wants to take on Kushi than he will fall in love with her. By than Monisha will go wild and attempt to harm Purvi and RV will be saving her again and again. Than Kushi will see Armaan is not as rich as RV and not so handsome etc she wants her ex RV back and will fall behind him to love her. RV obivously will reject her so she will target Purvi and his family. So on and so forth
You have no idea to lengths ppl go for revenge if they are wronged and grudge goes on for generations in familys over silly issue. Like my house son ran off with your house daughter 50 years back so i will hate that full family etc 3 generations down the line too. Or my unkle was killed by your father so now i will kill you after 30 years etc. Real crimes are filled with stories like this only.
But RV here is a soft hearted person hes not really a hard hearted man. So him going for such revenge is not possible. I think in end he will forgive Kushi because shes his wife Purvi sister and KK and Prachi daughter. He would not want to make his wife or kushi parents feel bad and cry because of Kushi going to jail. I am sure RV will forgive Kushi in end because he loves Purvi and do not want her to feel sad or daag on KK family.
Edited by myviewprem - 7 months ago
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