Creative heads and writers, it's high time for you all to shake it off and stop fooling people. What started off as a lovely connection between and mother and child, is now a spiteful drama with everyone against little kulfi.
This show shows how low people can stoop down to while telling themselves that they are doing the right thing.
Sikandar: A spineless guy
- Sikandar marries Nimrat, goes to the city, and marries Lovely. Reasons purely for his growth in the music industry.
- He marries Lovely, but never had any love and affection for her---did not satisfy any duties of a husband.
- When he was not aware that Amarya was not his daughter, he never displayed his fatherly love and affection for Amarya.
- Instead he openly displayed his love, affection, and concern for Kulfi. Which naturally created a jealous feeling in Amarya.
- He kept telling Amayra that she should be a good girl and not do anything wrong.
- Now, when he knows that Kulfi is his daughter, he wants to support Amarya's demand.
- As a parent, he should tell Amayra that what she is demanding for is wrong. Then, he should show his support for her in all the matters.
- He is not doing justice to both the girls. Nor is he displaying the values in life he talks about.
Sikandar has not been a good lover, husband, or a father. He has probably been a good son and a brother. I would never trust a father like Sikandar. It's the character of Sikander that I despise the most! Lovely is close behind.
Lovely: Let's not discuss this character.
- She kills Nimrat and does not repent the act.
- Lies to Sikandar all the time
- Teaches Amarya all the negative things in life
- Wants her daughter to have a career at the age of 8 (seriously)?
- Threatens Mahinder that she will kill herself and Amyra if he reveals the truth about Kulfi's parentage to Sikander.
- Misleads Tevar into believing that Kulfi is their child and Nimrat had adopted her.
- Poison's Amayra for selfish reasons.
- Threatens kulfi time and again
- Convinces Sikander to send Kulfi to the boarding school for the sake of Amayra's life.
- Instead sends her to a remand home.
She has done everything that a woman would not do. But she is still in Sikandar's life. I would never want a mother like Lovely, who is ready to poison her only child for selfish reasons.
Dadi and Tayaji: Brainless and spineless
- They sway like a pendulum. Sometimes here and sometimes there.
- Total spineless people.
- They just cannot make a good decision on their own.
Amayra: An insecure child
She is shown as a negative child with so much hate in her. The hate is because of the fear and insecurity that she will lose her dad; the fear that her dad will choose Kulfi over her. Can we blame her for this feeling? I would blame her parents for this mess called Amayra!
- With a mother like lovely and father like Sikander, it is difficult for this child to have a normal childhood.
- The mother has fed her with all the negative thoughts.
- Lovely has never taught the child what is right and what is wrong. She is taught to snatch things from the others and do the wrong things.
- So Amarya believes that everything belongs to her, what she does is right, she will get what she wants, and she can do what she pleases.
- She grew with a father who loves her but is also indifferent at times.
- The father openly displays his love, concern, and affection for another child (kulfi)---something which he has never done for Amayra. Any normal child would also feel upset and jealous about it.
- So the child Amayra is basically insecure in her life.
- Now that she knows the kulfi is Sikander's daughter she is worried sick that Sikander will surely leave her for Kulfi.
- Even now, neither Lovely nor Sikander are telling Amarya that she is asking is wrong. Instead, they are sending Kulfi away! Seriously? This is not the way to bring up children---give them all that they ask for.
Amayra is a product of people like Sikandar, lovely, and lovely's parents. If she had got the right values in life, was told about right and wrong, was scolded for doing the wrong things, she would have probably been a better child. We have seen glimpses of goodness in her and concern for Kulfi---that is when she herself was in a safe space in life. If she has been brought up with the right values, scolded when she did wrong things, supported when she did right, she could have been more confident about her feelings and probably not been so negative.
Creative heads and writers, shake it off guys! Seriously!
Edited by sajitha_jp - 5 years ago
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