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Originally posted by: bawaswift
Had there been no trust. no love,, no mutual understanding between Ashu n Nidhi... their marriage was never a success.. !
Trust can be blindly or with sum issues.. but yeah without trust no one can move on in any kinda relation.. !As for Ashni... their age gap was mere a reality.. n was never to do anything to make their marriage success or not.. cos they had the same probs coming to them .. as any other couple face..Mallika n CV nth times told them that their age gap can be a hurdle for them.. but it never happened.. !Whatever happened that was an issue for them was due to mallika,, n her conspiracies..Trust,, n then communication... ! its a must to make each other compatible more n more all their life... !Dealing with the probs.. this can always be a matter.. cos one can deal some way n the other in another way.. so making it possible to assure n listen to each other is always an important fact .. !Then comes the ppl around.. ! Handling this situation is very very crucial for a couple.. !Those ppl can be family,, friends,, n others.. !Any spouse deals with the family in a healthy way.. but its the attitude of the family in turn that makes a difference.. ! No matter what,,, the other spouse must listen n be kind to both the sides n then make their own point.. ! No relation can meet the success with different point of views.. This way only compromises are left.. !Listening,, with communication happening n understanding each other with their trust intact.. this makes a relation healthy n successful.. !In every case.. both the partners have to be equally credited or accuse.. cos they both are responsible to make their relation healthy..Even in Ashni's case... Both had to make their points n views clear..Not cos Nidhi was young n cud have been given the benefit.. or vice versa.. Ashu cud never be called mature n wud be expected to behave like one.. he was whenever at mistake.. he was behaving like a hubby ..So,, in my views.. its the mutual understanding with many facets taken care of,, makes a relation prosper ,, !😳
Thanks for such a detailed and a clarifying comment... as with all others here, you too feel that the relationship can prosper as any other couple provided they are trusting each other... also the problem comes from the others...and they may create hurdles for both of them...but that too can be resolved with understanding and maturity😊
So basically it all depends on your personal understandings and how you cope up with the stress and hurdles that matters...age actually has not that important a role😳
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