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braveheartdoc

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Yeah thats why i chose this... because its really interesting to discuss how it is with such relationships outside fiction world😊

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Swati Kapoor

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Posted: 6 years ago

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You have a point Manisha.

But like every relationship, it needs to have the most important facet. And that is understanding and having trust. Without these, no relationship can ever stand.

I really find them the most understanding and trusting couple, but at times even their relationship had a dark cloud. They had to deal with the same ups and downs that every other couple do face when it comes to not able to understand anymore, OR not able to trust during the most terrible times.

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braveheartdoc

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Swatishubh
You have a point Manisha.
But like every relationship, it needs to have the most important facet. And that is understanding and having trust. Without these, no relationship can ever stand.
I really find them the most understanding and trusting couple, but at times even their relationship had a dark cloud. They had to deal with the same ups and downs that every other couple do face when it comes to not able to understand anymore, OR not able to trust during the most terrible times.

Yeah i agree... misunderstandings may creep up between any couple...but here in such marriages... chances are more...bcoz the society doesn't accept them easily... so may be possible... that even a mole turns into a mountain😳

But what saves them is the trust on each other... thats what is the most important😃

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nishi05

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Nice discussion thread Manisha...😊

I know few couples with huge age gap...some are arranged and some love marriage and all are very happy with their families.

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Anjani9

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Posted: 6 years ago

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First of all I don't believe age difference makes an impact either negative or positive...

It is how two people adjust to each other is key...either couple or friends...

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nishi05

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Anjani9
First of all I don't believe age difference makes an impact either negative or positive...
It is how two people adjust to each other is key...either couple or friends...

Fully agree with you Anjani...I too think the same way...

Every couple face differences at some points with age gap or no age gap...it depends on two persons and understanding between them & their willingness to adjust..

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Bhavit Kapoor

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Had there been no trust. no love,, no mutual understanding between Ashu n Nidhi... their marriage was never a success.. !

Trust can be blindly or with sum issues.. but yeah without trust no one can move on in any kinda relation.. !

As for Ashni... their age gap was mere a reality.. n was never to do anything to make their marriage success or not.. cos they had the same probs coming to them .. as any other couple face..

Mallika n CV nth times told them that their age gap can be a hurdle for them.. but it never happened.. !

Whatever happened that was an issue for them was due to mallika,, n her conspiracies..

Trust,, n then communication... ! its a must to make each other compatible more n more all their life... !

Dealing with the probs.. this can always be a matter.. cos one can deal some way n the other in another way.. so making it possible to assure n listen to each other is always an important fact .. !

Then comes the ppl around.. ! Handling this situation is very very crucial for a couple.. !

Those ppl can be family,, friends,, n others.. !

Any spouse deals with the family in a healthy way.. but its the attitude of the family in turn that makes a difference.. ! No matter what,,, the other spouse must listen n be kind to both the sides n then make their own point.. ! No relation can meet the success with different point of views.. This way only compromises are left.. !

Listening,, with communication happening n understanding each other with their trust intact.. this makes a relation healthy n successful.. !

In every case.. both the partners have to be equally credited or accuse.. cos they both are responsible to make their relation healthy..

Even in Ashni's case... Both had to make their points n views clear..

Not cos Nidhi was young n cud have been given the benefit.. or vice versa.. Ashu cud never be called mature n wud be expected to behave like one.. he was whenever at mistake.. he was behaving like a hubby ..

So,, in my views.. its the mutual understanding with many facets taken care of,, makes a relation prosper ,, !

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braveheartdoc

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: nishi05
Nice discussion thread Manisha...😊
I know few couples with huge age gap...some are arranged and some love marriage and all are very happy with their families.

Thanks for sharing your experience Di🤗

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braveheartdoc

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Anjani9
First of all I don't believe age difference makes an impact either negative or positive...
It is how two people adjust to each other is key...either couple or friends...

You are right Anjani...but the society is not open to such relationships so easily...but yes...if there is trust between two people...age gap hardly matters😊

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braveheartdoc

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: nishi05

Fully agree with you Anjani...I too think the same way...
Every couple face differences at some points with age gap or no age gap...it depends on two persons and understanding between them & their willingness to adjust..

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Agreed...but if we have two couples...for eg...one with wide age gap and the other one who are similar in their ages...the one with a wide age gap would have to face many hurdles from society ...thats a common thing😳

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