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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjani9

<font color="#6600cc" size="3">Ashu is relieved to see Nidhi take out all her stress out by crying...😊</font>

Of course, it is but natural to worry and be sad to see your baby in distress... She had been bottling up too much...
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<font color="#6600cc" size="3">Hello Aazeen...😊</font>

hello di
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Thank you for all responses...😊
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Originally posted by: Aazeen02

Work has made me a lazy writer... What to do... I am usually tired... πŸ˜†


When we spend our mental energy on our passions, we will get new energy...am not asking you to write...just the story lines can be ready and you can write in future when you are settled in your job...
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When we spend our mental energy on our passions, we will get new energy...am not asking you to write...just the story lines can be ready and you can write in future when you are settled in your job...

Thank you for suggesting, I will keep that in mind.
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Will come to your OS soon Aazeen, thanks for the story πŸ‘πŸ‘
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Very emotional story Aazu, thanks for coming and posting it dear πŸ‘
I find an Ashu, who ignored Nidhi's confidant doubts, though he cud have tried his hand in diagnose it earlier, but he took his daughter's issue very lightly and thought if Nidhi's motherly fears and, assured her of nothing serious.
I am amazed to see a different Ashu here. I mean, he was not giving any heed ot Nidhi's, an eligible doc's belief.
What attracted more is Nidhi being so strong here in this story. She had to make Ashu stronger and to believe in himself while operating his daughter. I can understand that a father's worries on treating his own kid can be a toughest most job, but Nidhi is more evaluated and strong than him ⭐️
The little Anshi, examined and treated by her parents, what a bless she has and she is fine now, which is a relief to one and all.
It was really emotional to see a parents' dilemma to see their kid in that condition, and when they are unknown to the fact that anything can...
can't express myself more, hope you understand.
Thanks for the beautiful OS dear, it enhanced the beauty of parent's delight on seeing their daughter in a healthy condition, and at the same time for the parents to see each other hearting out while crying and coming back to normal.
Intense and heartfelt. Thanks for showing the turmoil of AshNi together, and together they coming out of it.
Luv ya ❀️ πŸ€—
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Originally posted by: babita..

Will come to your OS soon Aazeen, thanks for the storyπŸ‘πŸ‘

No problem Babita...
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Originally posted by: Anjani9

<font color="#6600cc" size="3">Hi Aazeen...😊</font>

Hello di...
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Originally posted by: Swatishubh

Very emotional story Aazu, thanks for coming and posting it dearπŸ‘

I find an Ashu, who ignored Nidhi's confidant doubts, though he cud have tried his hand in diagnose it earlier, but he took his daughter's issue very lightly and thought if Nidhi's motherly fears and, assured her of nothing serious.
I am amazed to see a different Ashu here. I mean, he was not giving any heed ot Nidhi's, an eligible doc's belief.
What attracted more is Nidhi being so strong here in this story. She had to make Ashu stronger and to believe in himself while operating his daughter. I can understand that a father's worries on treating his own kid can be a toughest most job, but Nidhi is more evaluated and strong than him⭐️
The little Anshi, examined and treated by her parents, what a bless she has and she is fine now, which is a relief to one and all.
It was really emotional to see a parents' dilemma to see their kid in that condition, and when they are unknown to the fact that anything can...
can't express myself more, hope you understand.
Thanks for the beautiful OS dear, it enhanced the beauty of parent's delight on seeing their daughter in a healthy condition, and at the same time for the parents to see each other hearting out while crying and coming back to normal.
Intense and heartfelt. Thanks for showing the turmoil of AshNi together, and together they coming out of it.
Luv yaβ€οΈπŸ€—

Off late I had been watching a South Korean show as in a Medical room drama, which revolved around the lives of two neurosurgeons. I found the male lead so much closer to Ashutosh that at times I was imagining SK there. Plus the fact that it was an age gap story...
Just a few contradictions were that when his father faced a neurological crisis, he just couldn't muster to operate on him, and eventually as the story demanded he was operated by someone else but lost his father post operation...
So this thought has been crossing my head again and again that, what if he lands again in a similar situation, and the patient in question is his own child, how is he even going to face the situation head on... Will he again refuse to operate and meanwhile lose another loved one?
So I planned writing this on Ashni.
As for a negligent Ashutosh, Doctors sometimes while studying start feeling every other syndrome to be from what they or their loved ones are suffering... it is a paranoid kinda feeling. So they eventually have to have this habit of letting it go on small small things... which usually happens also... But in case of rarity, things strike like a thunderbolt... They didn't intend to be negligent, but more kind of letting go the fleeting doubts...

As for Ashutosh not catching on what Nidhi was showing, the tumors that do not surface all the time are the hardest to catch, until they undergo scans. And it is very uncommon to catch a certain unsurfaced tumor, in time without scans, even by Doctors... I can give the reference as well... My mother survived breast cancer, tumor of which was a non-surface one... My mom who examined herself regularly caught that in time... The doctors whom she later met applauded her for her caution stating that even we doctors don't usually catch non surfaced tumour on our own body (that doctor was herself a cancer survivor, met in a rehab center)
So, what Nidhi could catch, Ashutosh couldn't, because it didn't surface before him... And which father in their wildest dreams would go for their few days old baby for a scan for a tumor he himself can't locate...?
So, that was more like a gut feeling kind of things...

ofcourse nidhi was very strong to go through this alone, helping her husband to stand firm as well... But the mother was bottling up everything inside herself until she knew she can fall apart and her husband can handle the rest...

I hope I could put forth a sensible pov...

Thank you for your lovely review... it means a lot to me...
I won't give alibis for the previous times, coz no matter what I am at fault. All I will say is, I never intended to ignore. I am very sorry for all the times you guys felt so... I am so sorry...
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