Discuss:were Abhay-Krishna meant to be?

Hello Everyone!

Note: Before I go ahead, I need to confess I haven't watched Abhay in action at all…but reading quite a bit on him, I have fair idea and my discussion is based on that. If I have got my facts wrong, do feel free to correct me😊.

Were(are) Abhay-Krishna destined to be? I on purpose used past tense to refer to their relationshio... cause it is mostly their past in am discussing in this post. And keeping their track record adn seeing the progress of Yuvi-Krishna's relationship... it might well be their PAST, which might never have a future, a future it never had

The more I think of Abhay and Krishna, the more I feel that destiny never intended to have them together. Given a chance both of them would have fallen in love and lived happily ever after… which they did for a brief period of time. But destiny never allowed them that chance. I am just putting down the instances I feel so…

Abhay left the same day of his marriage having married her. I never understood if he entertained the thought of leaving home, why didn't he leave before the marriage😕? Why did he have to marry someone and abandon her? He could have been forced into it… but when he broke himself away from those clutches hours after marriage which would have been far tougher, why didn't he show the same courage and leave before marriage😕? Running away after marriage the same act of courage is termed as an act of cowardice. Fine he left because he never intended to commit to marriage, then why didn't he save Krishna the misery of years and send her a divorce much earlier😕? Why did he wait till the time he found the love of his life and wanted to marry her… that is when he remembered he had a wife and wanted to set HIMSELF free to commit to his love. He has committed mistakes and it is sad that he took years to realize it and correct. Nevertheless, he hit jackpot when he realized Natasha was Krishna, his estranged wife. Krishna had the right to make that choice, and she chose to forgive him and accept him. Their brief time together was more in the nature of courtship & romance than Marriage😕. But the sad truth will always be intentionally or not, he has always been the reason for Krishna to be at crossroads of her life.

When all was well, just when Abhay and Krishna were to begin their lives together as Husband and Wife under the same roof, fate played it game yet again…Abhay went into coma and his family presumed him dead!

Abhay's child was the only reminder of their relationship… But even that Kid wasn't given considered Abhay's kid by his very own family, Yuvi stepped in and accepted the Kid(for his selfish reasons) Today Yuvi proved that he isnt the father of that kid only for name sake. Krishna herself gave Yuvi the right to be the father of her child. But even that kid couldn't make it into the world😭. And more than the loss of Abhay's child, Krishna is feeling guilty for shattering Yuvi's dream😭!

Abhay is in the ICU in the same hospital his family literally lived for the past few days. Anyone could have tripped on him, Bua, Yash, Kabir, Yuvi or Krishna herself… but it was Arjun who tripped on him literally and whisked him away to a place where no one would ever have an idea. His Bad luck might not end there, may be the time he wakes up and makes his way back to Krishna, Krishna is happily settled down with Yuvi.

So what can one make out of all this? That Abhay-Krishna were never destined to be together? Or, that Abhay was plain unlucky? Or, that Abhay just paid the price for the entire ordeal he put Krishna through?

If u ask me, I feel they were never destined to be together. Then comes the question, why did they get married. I feel Abhay was merely a reason for Krishna to enter the Raichand family. Even when Krishna was married to him, the position she held in the Raichand family was as Vijaypath Raichand's daughter than Abhay's wife! And later on Abhay became a catalyst for Yuvi-Krishna relationship. It was his death and child that got Yuvi & Krishna married.

Lets make this an interactive post… hopefully all will pitch in their thoughts😛

1) Was Abhay abandoning his wife and returning years later when HE needed a divorce justified/forgivable? (Btw anyone knows how long Abhay disappeared for?)

2) Did Abhay really Love Krishna or was it the Natasha's face of Krishna he fell in love with?

3) Since Abhay accepted Krishna because she was Natasha, how similar were Natasha and Krishna? (I have no clue abt this… would love to hear from all… I have just seen Natasha in photos and she did look weird to me!I find Krishna far more dignified and sophisticated in a sari than Natasha looked!)

4) What do u think Abhay would have done if Natasha and Krishna were 2 different people and he had to make a choice who will it be?

5) Here is the final Question… the Most important one… What is your take on Abhay-Krishna relationship? Were(are) they made for eachother? If they indeed are made for eachother... why is it that they have such rotten luck? Is it Luck, Destiny or Abhay's misdeeds(Karma) that is the reason?

Hope to see your answers. I know this is a Abhay centric post… hopefully next time around we can discuss destiny's role in Yuvi-Krishna's relationship😉.

Regards,

Amu.

Hi Amu.....I really appreciate all the hard work you put in updating for us. Thanks a lot. So here is where I stand on your questions....

1. Yes Abay was definetly abandoning Krishna all the years they had been married. If he were a true gentlemen then he would have disappeared before getting married to Krishna. I felt that he did not even give a second chance to Krishna or even tried to reason with her before leaving. A husband who does not even see his wife's face before leaving just says a lot about his character 😕 .

2. Abay did not love Krishna and I personally never understood why Krishna had to be a different person to show Abhay that she can be modest like other girls 😡 . I have been following this from the beginning and from what I remember he left the house because he always wanted to get married to a modest girl and Krishna did not fit that bill. 😡 Then what difference does it make if Krishna acts like Natasha or not...Also, even though Krishna showed him that she can be more upto par with the western culture he changed his opinion on her....I thought it was soo lame that Krishna had to change herself to Natasha to get Abay to fall in love with her 😡 😡 .

3. Natasha/Krishna were never similar. Krishna protraying as Natasha was her wearing more western dress and having carrying herself in western attire and looks. It was nothing like the Krishna that everyone knows who wears saris and not mini dresses and having curly tresses and bangs hanging. Anyhow, I don't see any similarity between Natasha and Krishna. Even though they were the same people but Krishna never even dresses that way in front of any of the other family members so one can't relate to Natasha at all.

4. If Natasha and Krishna were two different people he would have definetly gotten a divorce from Krishna.

5. I personally think that Krishna and Abhay were never meant to be together. When they were married they weren't together and I also think that it's Abhay's luck that they weren't destined to be. More then ever I think Krishna is meant to be with Yuvi!!! 👏 👏

I hope i didn't offend anyone. This is just my personal opinion. 😃

Originally posted by: parikru

Hi Amu.....I really appreciate all the hard work you put in updating for us. Thanks a lot. So here is where I stand on your questions....

1. Yes Abay was definetly abandoning Krishna all the years they had been married. If he were a true gentlemen then he would have disappeared before getting married to Krishna. I felt that he did not even give a second chance to Krishna or even tried to reason with her before leaving. A husband who does not even see his wife's face before leaving just says a lot about his character 😕 .

2. Abay did not love Krishna and I personally never understood why Krishna had to be a different person to show Abhay that she can be modest like other girls 😡 . I have been following this from the beginning and from what I remember he left the house because he always wanted to get married to a modest girl and Krishna did not fit that bill. 😡 Then what difference does it make if Krishna acts like Natasha or not...Also, even though Krishna showed him that she can be more upto par with the western culture he changed his opinion on her....I thought it was soo lame that Krishna had to change herself to Natasha to get Abay to fall in love with her 😡 😡 .

3. Natasha/Krishna were never similar. Krishna protraying as Natasha was her wearing more western dress and having carrying herself in western attire and looks. It was nothing like the Krishna that everyone knows who wears saris and not mini dresses and having curly tresses and bangs hanging. Anyhow, I don't see any similarity between Natasha and Krishna. Even though they were the same people but Krishna never even dresses that way in front of any of the other family members so one can't relate to Natasha at all.

4. If Natasha and Krishna were two different people he would have definetly gotten a divorce from Krishna.

5. I personally think that Krishna and Abhay were never meant to be together. When they were married they weren't together and I also think that it's Abhay's luck that they weren't destined to be. More then ever I think Krishna is meant to be with Yuvi!!! 👏 👏

I hope i didn't offend anyone. This is just my personal opinion. 😃

Hey i strongly agree wz u on point 1, 2 and 4 ...
I really liked yuvi ...though being a selfish person (in context to 50% shares)he accepted krishna the way she is and not by her dressing style and etc...

Where as to get abhay's love she had to change her identity from krish to natasha....
Abhay would have definitely divorced krish if natasha and krish were two seperate identies....

1. yes, i think that Abhay was abandoning krishna. if he really didn't want to marry a girl that his father choose so he left the house the day he got married but he can leave the day before his wedding. after marrying krishna, he didnt accept the truth and just left his wife without telling anything or trying any relations. when he found a girl like his type, he send divorse paper to krishna after four years. he didn't think about krishna that if he send divorse papers eariler to her, she can move into her life with other man. i dont think that it is forgivable because all these years what he thought about is his self.

2. When he discovered that natasha is krishna. he was feeling guilty so he accept her as a wife but the truth is that he always saw natasha in krishna. his love was for natasha not for krishna.

3. natasha and krishna are totally different than each other. natasha is a kind of a girl who like to go to disco at late night and believe in modern thoughts. krishna is girl like every parents want her as a daughter in law and she belived in family relations and truth. she could leave the house after her husband left her but she respected all other relations to her family mambers.

4. if abhay has to make a choice between krishna and natasha, he will choose natasha because that is the girl that he always dreamed about.

5. abhay and krishna never made for each other because when they come close to eachother, the destiny seperates them. when they loved each other after four years, abhay died. when krishna got pregnant, yuvi married to her. when she lost her child, abhay found out as a alive. i think now abhay and krishna dont have any connection between them. the only thing that connected them was a child and now they just lost it. yuvi loves her so much and i think krishna needs to open her eyes to see the truth. abhay left her while he wanted to have someone he like in his life.abahy accept her when she changed herself. yuvi accept her when she needed most and yuvi accept her as she is. i know that yuvi didn't do the right thing. he married her for the business but after leaving with her he changed. one thing krishna needs to understand is that yuvi told her that he is going to be a father of her child. so how come krishna thought that he is doing all these for the business. after getting buisness he is not going to leave her. he sacrified his life for her and her child. i thing if krishna wants to justice to her, she should be with yuvi.

i just love yuvi and krishna as a couple. they have the best chemistry between eachother. i wish to see more from them.

Originally posted by: goodkashish

1. yes, i think that Abhay was abandoning krishna. if he really didn't want to marry a girl that his father choose so he left the house the day he got married but he can leave the day before his wedding. after marrying krishna, he didnt accept the truth and just left his wife without telling anything or trying any relations. when he found a girl like his type, he send divorse paper to krishna after four years. he didn't think about krishna that if he send divorse papers eariler to her, she can move into her life with other man. i dont think that it is forgivable because all these years what he thought about is his self.

2. When he discovered that natasha is krishna. he was feeling guilty so he accept her as a wife but the truth is that he always saw natasha in krishna. his love was for natasha not for krishna.

3. natasha and krishna are totally different than each other. natasha is a kind of a girl who like to go to disco at late night and believe in modern thoughts. krishna is girl like every parents want her as a daughter in law and she belived in family relations and truth. she could leave the house after her husband left her but she respected all other relations to her family mambers.

4. if abhay has to make a choice between krishna and natasha, he will choose natasha because that is the girl that he always dreamed about.

5. abhay and krishna never made for each other because when they come close to eachother, the destiny seperates them. when they loved each other after four years, abhay died. when krishna got pregnant, yuvi married to her. when she lost her child, abhay found out as a alive. i think now abhay and krishna dont have any connection between them. the only thing that connected them was a child and now they just lost it. yuvi loves her so much and i think krishna needs to open her eyes to see the truth. abhay left her while he wanted to have someone he like in his life.abahy accept her when she changed herself. yuvi accept her when she needed most and yuvi accept her as she is. i know that yuvi didn't do the right thing. he married her for the business but after leaving with her he changed. one thing krishna needs to understand is that yuvi told her that he is going to be a father of her child. so how come krishna thought that he is doing all these for the business. after getting buisness he is not going to leave her. he sacrified his life for her and her child. i thing if krishna wants to justice to her, she should be with yuvi.

i just love yuvi and krishna as a couple. they have the best chemistry between eachother. i wish to see more from them.

yes i totally agree with u,

yuvi& krishna r made for eachother😉 they rocktogether