Discussion of the Week: Abhay's return

Hello dear KAKPians!
How are you all dong?
Well, starting from this week onwards, we are going to have a Discussion of the Week!
I really do hope all the members participate so we can make this section alive.
So, for our first DOTW, here is the scenario that we will ponder on:

Its been about three to four years since Abahy died and Krishna married Yuvi.
Yuvi still is the same person we know till now and his reasons for marrying Krishna remain the same. Eventually, he impregnates her and they have a child together.
Now the twist here is that Abhay is not dead and now, after three to four years, he returns.

The questionnaire for this scenario are as follows:

1. Who do you think has more right over Krishna? Abhay or Yuvi?
2. Now that Krishna has two spouses, which marriage is legitimate and lawful?
3. In your eyes, if Krishna were to make a decision, what should it be and why?
4. Krishna now has a child from Abahy and a child from Yuvi. How grave is the scenario and what consequences will it bring?
5. If Krishna decides to go to Abhay, will it be fair on hers and Yuvi's child? and vice versa.
6. If you were VP Raichand, what would you do to help the situation?


So lets start discussing this scene and add whatever input you want. A healthy debate is good! Lets keep this clean.

Cheers,
IF Dev, Team

A very interesting situation according to the television fraternity, as it keeps on occuring in every serial nowadays.😆

1. Who do you think has more right over Krishna? Abhay or Yuvi?
I don't think any man has a right on a woman, married or not. Both Abhay and Yuvi have in turns wronged her and then helped her. And so has Krishna. In Abhay's case, if he left her after their marriage she took the path of deception to come into his life. This is a serial and they were the onscreen couple so not many of us found a fault with her actions but in real life deception has to hurt. In Yuvi's case, he married her for the Raichand empire but whose to say Krishna agreed only because of VP and not her child. She knew when she agreed that Yuvi would have to forgo all chance of finding love for himself, also his lifestyle would change and yet she said yes.

So I would say neither has a right on her.


2. Now that Krishna has two spouses, which marriage is legitimate and lawful?
I think once Krishna took the decision to remarry, subconsciously she accepted that she will move on. It does not mean that she did not love Abhay or she still cannot. It is natural to have feelings for someone, but she now has made a commitment to Yuvi and as such their marriage is legitimate and lawful.


3. In your eyes, if Krishna were to make a decision, what should it be and why?
She should stay with Yuvi. She had to make sacrifices but then so did Yuvi. I know it is not Abhay's fault and it will hurt him in the beginning but knowing that a chapter is closed he can move on. People do so in reality.


4. Krishna has no child from Abhay and a child from Yuvi. How grave is the scenario and what consequences will it bring?
I am assuming that Yuvi and Krishna in course of time naturally accepted their marriage and did not go through the track of drunk bouts or violence related consummation. In this case it further re inforces that Yuvi and Krishna could have a satisfactory and content life together. Yuvi is money minded but he is much better than so many people with no principles and no remorse. I guess he must have some qualities which Krishna liked and some qualities of Krishna he came to appreciate. So the reapprance of Abhay will put a strain on them for a while but hopefully if they have a real marriage with undertanding and communication between them they should pull through this patch and not just because of the child.

The presence of this child will no doubt hurt Abhay to an extent but he should understand the gravity of having a small innocent being involved and step back from pursuing this relationship.


5. If Krishna decides to go to Abhay, will it be fair on hers and Yuvi's child? and vice versa.
Not at all, It will hurt her to be away from Abhay but if she goes back to Abhay on her own will or even if Yuvi steps back it will hurt that child and be unfair to him/her. I am assuming that with all the flaws present Yuvi, Krishna and their child still managed to make their family and if things were smooth otherwise, the call of love is a weak excuse to break it up. It is irrelevant how much acceptance and love Abhay will give this child if he became the stepdad, for the child there would be a big turmoil. Even if the situation were reversed and the child was Abhay's and the family unit was happy before Abhay's appearance, it would be unwise to deprive him of the normalcy of his life. With time they could have found a way to introduce Abhay as the biological father but if Yuvi gave his cent percent as a father to someone else's child then it would be cruel to both Yuvi and the child if they were to then be just uncle and nephew.


6. If you were VP Raichand, what would you do to help the situation?
I respect that VP is the head of the family but this problem does not concern him at all, so he should not interfere. NOT AT ALL. All the people in this triangle are related to him but the problem is between a husband, wife and ex-husband. He should let them sort it out themselves, but be there to support all of them and give them the affection and support they need to overcome this phase.

I know I wrote too detailed answers. Sorry for that. Waiting for your comments.

oh my god... I just read your replies dear... you have contemplated about them quite a bit and very explanatory answers there... but I have a question Mikey... Krishna is right now pregnant... So disregarding that would not be correct. Now it is something of a Kumkum situation... where Yuvi comes to love Krishna-Abhay's son as his own son and when Abhay comes back, who would be called the baby's father???

and well to answer your questions:
1. Who do you think has more right over Krishna? Abhay or Yuvi?
Neither...

2. Now that Krishna has two spouses, which marriage is legitimate and lawful?
Actually in the eyes of Law, Abhay-Krishna's wedding would be Legal and legitimate in a scenario where Abhay is alive.

3. In your eyes, if Krishna were to make a decision, what should it be and why?
Gosh.... I do not know... I feel Krishna loves Abhay... but if during the course of her life with Yuvi, she might fall in love with Yuvi as well.. and if Krishna-Abhay's child does not exist and Yuvi-Krishna's child exists, she has to think of the baby as well.... (well... even if Krishna-Abhay's child existed, she has to think of her baby as well, since Yuvi would be the only father that the baby knew)

4. Krishna no has a child from Abahy and a child from Yuvi. How grave is the scenario and what consequences will it bring?
am not able to answer this question at all... it is such a tough choice to make.

5. If Krishna decides to go to Abhay, will it be fair on hers and Yuvi's child? and vice versa.
either decision she makes somebody is bound to be hurt.

6. If you were VP Raichand, what would you do to help the situation?
Shut my mouth and keep quite and not try to influence Krishna's decision either by fair or devious means.

Wow! c85rie, your answers were really well contemplated and thought on!! Loved it! It has a reality check too! great!
Abhita, loved your answers too! what you said would be in the mind of the characters if such a circumstance would arise!

Oh and sorry, I had a typo... Krishna NOW has a child from Abhay and a child from Yuvi... Its not NO.. hehe.. sorry for that!

Ill give in my two cents later when I get back from class!

i haven't been seeing much of kuch apne kuch paraye and i just started so i'm going to try and answer these questions without knowing much of the whole abhay-krishna love story so here goes nothing...
1. Who do you think has more right over Krishna? Abhay or Yuvi?
Well i don't think neither of them have a right over her but taking into consideration the fact that she is married to both of them...i come to thinking that they may have some sort of right on her. And considering that Yuvi is her later or more recent husband and abhay is or was pretty much dead to her, Yuvi has a higher or more of a right over Krishna.
2. Now that Krishna has two spouses, which marriage is legitimate and lawful?
I feel that the legitimate one would be hers and Yuvi's. She thinks that the other guy is dead so i think it's lawfully incorrect for anyone to hold her accountable for that marriage.
3. In your eyes, if Krishna were to make a decision, what should it be and why?
I feel that she should choose Yuvi. Eventhough he chose her merely for his own benefit i feel that he does kind of care about Krishna. I keep on thinking that they should fall in love. This may be because i haven't seen any of the previous episodes and am kind of unaware of there previous relationship of sister and brother-in-law.
4. Krishna now has a child from Abahy and a child from Yuvi. How grave is the scenario and what consequences will it bring?
I feel that the true father that both of the kids will know is Yuvi. I think that Yubi will be a great father considering he said that he wanted to make the child a great business man, it makes me kind of think that maybe he really cares about the kid. I REALLY think that she should choose Yuvi. But then again this may be because of my previous lack of knowledge of this serial and also because i haven't really seen the love of abhay and Krishna.
5. If Krishna decides to go to Abhay, will it be fair on hers and Yuvi's child? and vice versa.
No way she goes will be fair...but i think it's better for her to stay with Yuvi and send the kid over every weekend to abhay's house so that he/she can hang out with his/her dad.[I don't knwo if it's a guy or girl, was that previously established?]
6. If you were VP Raichand, what would you do to help the situation?
I don't know his character enough to assess him so yeah...

Thanks guys for your words of encouragment. I thought later on, that those were too detailed answers. I guess for the last few yrs this track has been shown so many times in different versions that it gave me way too much time to contemplate. 😆

Though Mikey and my viewpoint match on the legitimacy question, I think abhita you have raised a good question that it is Abhay's marriage which is legal. Is it that there are certain requirements to be fulfilled for a marriage to be null in these circumstances. Like a time period or so? Don't you think it is unfair?

And nunu welcome to this forum. Like you, I too started watching this show just a few days back and was hooked. It is good to know that they restarted it due to audience pressure. You can check out the archives for video and written updates. The updates are well written and will help you understand the show better.

By the ways do we have all character sketch for this show. Should we add it then?

Actually, as per my understanding, even if the first husband comes back from the dead or whatever, the first marriage would be considered legal and binding and not the second one... but in a case when the first spouse is mentally unfit, then the other partner in the marriage can get married again legally, without a divorce from the first spouse. else a divorce is a must.

Also, I've never heard of an annulment in Indian marriages at all... ever...

I have a question. i thought yuvi hated krishna. so how did he get her pregnant. so she has 2 kids. how did the years pass so quick
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1. Who do you think has more right over Krishna? Abhay or Yuvi?
Hmmm... i would say yuvi... i mean he did take care of krishna and their child for those many years! but yea i think the descision should go to krishna ...but yuvi has more of a right over her (even tho he did manipulate her to marry him...)
2. Now that Krishna has two spouses, which marriage is legitimate and lawful?
I would say that the Yuvi-Krishna marriagfe is legit!...abhay is declared dead by the indian government... this means that krishna is a widow... so her second marriage would be considered legal.... wat they do if they made a mistake about declaring abhary dead... i have NO idea:S that would be a messed up situation but considering the situation ... but despite all that confusion...her second marriage would remain legal since at the time of her marriage, she was considered a "widow"
3. In your eyes, if Krishna were to make a decision, what should it be and why?
Krishna would probably stay with Yuvi... she wouldn't just use him for that many years and then when she has no need for him just throw him away... thats more of a Yuvi thing to do!... plus both the children would consider Yuvi their father, she cant just break that relationship to be with abhay.
4. Krishna now has a child from Abahy and a child from Yuvi. How grave is the scenario and what consequences will it bring?
lol... thats quite the weird situation... the two children would probably suffer the most... they would be soo confused!... i really cant answer this question any more ...NEXT.
5. If Krishna decides to go to Abhay, will it be fair on hers and Yuvi's child? and vice versa.
It wouldn't be fair to 2 children and Yuvi if krishna picks abhay over yuvi... the child that is abhays and called yuvi dad since it was born... or to yuvi's unborn child who would be confused about why his mom/dad aren't together... and it would be uynfiar for yuvi who helped krishna out for so long...but he deserves to get hurt...considering the reason he married her. but if krishna goes to yuvi... only 1 person would get hurt and that would be abhay... both ways are unfair... u have to chose the lesser of the two evils!
6. If you were VP Raichand, what would you do to help the situation?
Considering VP NEVER thinks yuvi is capable of anything (example: the mdship)... im pretty sure he'll push/order yuvi out of the picture and put abhay back into it!😆😆😆

Originally posted by: hajira123

I have a question. i thought yuvi hated krishna. so how did he get her pregnant. so she has 2 kids. how did the years pass so quick
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Nah this is just hypothetical. Just for the sake of discussion and debate!
Its a self made scene!😳