Katha Ankahee -- #4 daily episode DT - Page 115

Originally posted by: Chinmayi18

If I'm not wrong birdie A/c means Chidiya wale = twitter FD😆

seriously🤣

I didn't know this.😆

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

good question -- as someone who has watched dramas for years, I would first ask "why are you watching this drama?" I think it is totally cool to love a drama but obviously there needs to be a healthy balance. are you deflecting your stress or anxieties for example by watching this drama? so are you obsessing over a drama because you don't want to think about your real lfe problems? there are many who do that. basically they get too invested in fictional characters as they feel unhappy in their real lives. it is why some fans get a bit cuckoo -- they take it personally when people criticize a FL or ML because they have identified so strongly with that character that they feel like they are personally being attacked. they are not able to separate fact from fiction.

another reason for getting too invovled is projecting our romantic hopes and desires onto a drama. so when you are feeling low about your romantic/personal life, a great ML can make you feel good. maybe they might make you feel that there is definitely a guy out there like that who will one day sweep in and give you hugs and smiles or whatever else. 😉

that is one reason at times, people get too invested in OTPs -- we are projecting our own romantic hopes and desires on to that screen couple in a way. now, there is nothing bad about hope per se but it is when it crosses unhealthy levels; where people cannot distinguish the actors from the characters they are playing, it becomes problematic.

otherwise, shipping or fangirling in limited form can be healthy. it gives you an outlet for stress. it helps you to connect with other people and have fun. it can also teach you depending on the fandom. there are some where people are so insightful that you are able to learn about relationships and life as they share different aspects and give varied perspectives. so being part of a drama community can be a great learning experience.

ultimately, I would say humour is key to know when it is healthy and when to jump off the train. if I know I am getting a bit too snappy, I know it is time to stop watching the drama and watch something else. so thats why I watch a lot of dramas at the same time -- keep balance. I also watch a lot of documentaries on history, crime and news. basically keep your viewing experience varied and know what is driving you as you watch.

like columbia shared, it also helps to keep engagement to a minimum. basically find a non-toxic platform where you are able to share and giggle in a good way. it is one reason I still don't find the need to have a birdie account. you can't have conversations or discussion when people are yelling at each other. I prefer forums like IF -- they are old fashioned but they actually function the same way interest hobbies groups do as in real life. according to research, forums are actually a healthy way to interact and can lead to good friendships.

P.S -- have started a separate thread to share bts and upcoming clips

Mango you know what... Your writings works as a therapy for me most times... Are you a Psychologist?? 🤔🤔

Originally posted by: Viaanrocks

Let us demand a mod for our forum..

Kya ota fir kuch antar aaye rating pe🤣

It's quite surprising .

It's been more than a month now. Still we don't have a MOD.

Acha hei hamare liye.. maze ke din hei😆

Originally posted by: Ritzzee23

Mango you know what... Your writings works as a therapy for me most times... Are you a Psychologist?? 🤔🤔

hahahah... nah not a psychologist. but I am like why viaan where I need to know the answer to why something happened. 🤣

Originally posted by: Ritzzee23

Mango you know what... Your writings works as a therapy for me most times... Are you a Psychologist?? 🤔🤔

For me also.

She sounds like a Psychologist.😃

You hardly come to the forum these day. Busy? Look at me. I have 4 days chutti this week. Thurs-Sun.. aur mei abhi se kaam nahi kar rahi hoon.😆 Morning se time pass kar rahi hoon.

Originally posted by: Viaanrocks

Let us demand a mod for our forum..

Kya ota fir kuch antar aaye rating pe🤣

hahahah... nah; I think our forum is at times more entertaining because we are all chatting among ourselves. some of these debates have been fun. 😂

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

Superb analysis👏🥳

Even i liked Katha-Aarav-Dodo's scene at school. ❤️ Aarav represents aaj ka bacha fully energetic, enthusiastic, chatter box kiddo.😆Thanks to his super mom. It's not easy for the family members when you have a cancer patient at home.It's a continuous struggle and fight for both the patient and family members.

Makers are doing a great job in balancing all the characters. They all are required to tell a good story. So far not a single character has turned out an absolute evil. I can watch happy family scenes.😆

Ehsan and Viaan's scenes are always a treat to watch. I agree with Katha,these two actually look like married couples.🤣

I loved the episode.

@bold... See the chemistry of this couple.. I am changing ship.. No kaViaan.. Only EsViaan💖💗🤣🤣

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

hahahah... nah; I think our forum is at times more entertaining because we are all chatting among ourselves. some of these debates have been fun. 😂

Yo👍🏼

Yaah this forum is quite entertaining and most of the members are fun loving and chill out types. No maara maari .

I don't like rules and regulations.

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

For me also.

She sounds like a Psychologist.😃

You hardly come to the forum these day. Busy? Look at me. I have 4 days chutti this week. Thurs-Sun.. aur mei abhi se kaam nahi kar rahi hoon.😆 Morning se time pass kar rahi hoon.

Yaar ghar mein shaadi thi bhai ki... Phone ko touch karne ko bhi nehi mila.. Ab jaake phone haath mein aaya hai😂😂

Originally posted by: Ritzzee23

https://twitter.com/RasmalaizMegh/status/1617799898551947266?s=20&t=urlP667DyqdvJmBcU8bI5A

@bold... See the chemistry of this couple.. I am changing ship.. No kaViaan.. Only EsViaan💖💗🤣🤣

Arre yaar..

Ehsan ko maine apne liya rakha tha.

Haye re kismat. yeh dukh hei ki khatam hi nahi hoti😭😆