Clarity - Anubhav reactions to divorce

Hello

Today when Golu said Anubhav to divorce RKC. He was shocked and looked like he never wanted to divorce her.

Many of you always said that Anubhav why he doesn't divorce RKC.

I believe we got the answer today.

He never intended to divorce her.

He said that. Gungun that he can't find a way to solve the problem.

My conclusion is that Anubhav wanted to keep both going at the same time because he never wanted to divorce RKC.

Today he said to Golu that because of him GG is always been insulted.

Same crappy dialogue that I don't care what people think about me and but never gave an inch of consideration to GG reputation and today all of a sudden he is showing concern. WHAT A SELF CENTRED TWO TIMING GIT .

He said that loves GG. Is what we call love - I must've looked up meaning of love in an alien dictionary!

What a mockery of "intelligence"

Who believes that Anubhav really loves GG, or is that crush/teenage hormonal lust that he missed out because he had his head buried in the books.

Yeah ,he was supposed to be the sorted guy than why are they showing him like this.Sometimes i feel atlast they should not show anugun together.Somewhere i read that yesha told in one interview that they are trying to show that u can't lead a double life so going according to that u should not show them together than only anubhav and audience will get the point that if u don't take a decision at the right moment u may loss the most precious thing of ur life .Another reason i feel they should seperate because it was her father's last wish and anu can't be more important than her father.All the anugun fans will be disheartened if they are not the endgame just because of the leads chemistry .

Thank you so much for your reply.

I thought people would be bashing me for my comments.

I agree their chemistry is good and a really treat on screen .

But what about morals?

I don't think he was ever a sorted guy. Admitted he was sorted in scientific world, but in normal day to day matter, he was merely a controlled puppet by his family.

Gungun is so mentally unstable regarding love, that any one dangle a carrot of love, she just forgets everything . I appreciated that you have been deprived of love and affection, but you are 21 , use your brain a bit. Her father's wish doesn't matter to her as long she does everything for delusional love.

I don't know what message they want to send out to the world from the skewered storyline.

"Love is blind"

I really Dnt understand his character

He is like chameleon changes colors too fast, his feelings changed according to the situation

Few days back during award ceremony he started hating her and yesterday knowing she is doing this under pressure started loving her, now there is a TC articles someone posted that Anubhav is going believe that GG is marrying RV he will Break again

So to understand if going by the article next week he will hate her and will go do something crazy with RKC and then when he comes to know it was to punish him for kidnapping Anu, he will love her again and tell RKC that he loves only her and you are my responsibility again

Originally posted by: Suhani2

I really Dnt understand his character

He is like chameleon changes colors too fast, his feelings changed according to the situation

Few days back during award ceremony he started hating her and yesterday knowing she is doing this under pressure started loving her, now there is a TC articles someone posted that Anubhav is going believe that GG is marrying RV he will Break again

So to understand if going by the article next week he will hate her and will go do something crazy with RKC and then when he comes to know it was to punish him for kidnapping Anu, he will love her again and tell RKC that he loves only her and you are my responsibility again

I love yesha and Manan . I love their chemistry onscreen and offscreen. So that's the reason I am watching the show so definitely it AnuGun is not the endgame then I ll be highly disappointed.

As for Anubhav characterization he is not correct nor any other character in the show . Everyone (95%) in the show has done something or other wrong including Gungun's character.

What I have understood about (STRICTLY MY POV) Anubhav is that from childhood he has been given some set of rules to follow that will make him successful and happy . He was always a bright and disciplined student and hence the expectations from him by his family and people around him increased (When he got scientist of the year award that time bp said tum un logo mein se ho jo pariwar ki hasiyat badalte hai .)

There was a lot of pressure on him by his family and himself to succeed. Due to this he never had a chance to explore himself or know what he wants yo do in his life. He never thought love can ever exist in his life (If you see in k house no couple looks like a madly in love or love birds until Ankit arrived).

When Gungun arrived in his life she was a rule breaker. She was totally opposite who doesn't follow any rule and still happy and content that shook Anu's belief that only his family rules can make you happy . Being with her he started to discover himself, doing things which make him happy ( late night ice cream date , shopping with gg , taking care of her by lying to family) but when pwp happened he started doubted his own sense of understanding and judgement. He was more angry on himself bcz he thought he failed. For the first time in his life he failed to recognise the person and that made him firm to go to back to his rule book and do whatever his family wanted that was marriage with 🦎.

He didn't realised that he is not the same person anymore he tried to lie not to others but to himself that he has no feelings for Gungun . But whenever Gungun is in pain his heart overpower his mind and he goes running to her forgetting everything and all consequences.

As for the marriage he accepted the marriage the moment gg entered the marriage hall with sindoor. He said that in hospital and mandir . He never accepted rkc as his wife but he can't run away from the fact that he married her . For Divorce thing I think Anu was shocked because he never thought that could be an option. In k family nobody ever utter that word let alone taking it . The rules and things he was taught from childhood were pulling him back and his love for gg is pushing him .

For trust I think both don't trust eo . Rkc told gg that we slept and gg believed it and same happened with Anu . For building trust one need to go through rough patch together but here they were always against each other no matter what they have never been together that much to trust each other blindly and whenever they start taking baby steps towards trust something happens and all their trust break ( pwp , anu and rkc wedding, gg and ronnie wedding then again gg talking to rv at night about marriage).

For their intimacy I think they were living to the moment life ( Anu said the same thing to dean) they were happy that time and they did it. Them being together give them happiness, peace, strength and solace which both needed to fight. Anu was ready to tell the truth to k family when bp and rkc came search him at Bhatnagar house. In mumbai Anu knew that after going back to Lucknow it's gonna be a tough fight and all he wanted was to enjoy those 2 days with gg that's the reason he switched off the phone so he didn't get any information. All he wanted was to live truly live and not just follow orders.

Sorry for such a long post 🙈🙈🙈

Wow , thank you for taking your time to write such lovely response.

I agree with you that Anubhav is not the same person that We saw in the earlier days.

I remember he was very upset and rude to Gungun that her mom insulted her family .

But look today's episode, 1st time he has spoken about his so called "ideal" family.

His family pushed him to marry RKC because of their EGO. Finally he has accepted that he doesn't love his family like he used to. His beloved BP is no longer on that almighty pedestal.

I never analysed it your way, that when GG appeared with the vermillion during wedding reception, he realised that he got married to GG too.

I do remember he was a little upset when RKC was trying to remove GG vermilion in the hall.

Still I don't get why he had teary eyes when Golu told him to divorce RKC?

Originally posted by: Yeshna77

Wow , thank you for taking your time to write such lovely response.

I agree with you that Anubhav is not the same person that We saw in the earlier days.

I remember he was very upset and rude to Gungun that her mom insulted her family .

But look today's episode, 1st time he has spoken about his so called "ideal" family.

His family pushed him to marry RKC because of their EGO. Finally he has accepted that he doesn't love his family like he used to. His beloved BP is no longer on that almighty pedestal.

I never analysed it your way, that when GG appeared with the vermillion during wedding reception, he realised that he got married to GG too.

I do remember he was a little upset when RKC was trying to remove GG vermilion in the hall.

Still I don't get why he had teary eyes when Golu told him to divorce RKC?

I don't think he was teary rather shocked. He comes from a conservative middle class family where divorce is never an option. He couldn't believe that someone from his family would ask him to get a divorce!

Originally posted by: smriti25

I don't think he was teary rather shocked. He comes from a conservative middle class family where divorce is never an option. He couldn't believe that someone from his family would ask him to get a divorce!

you can say that we all as human being always have two sides

one-we show others and other- we show ourselves

Side 1: the one we show others: Anubhav came from a background where he was pampered along with some sets of rules which he cant break because he was taught to live with them. He grew up with silence and gave important to studies more then anything. his world was only home to work and vice versa. he is not good at reading the signs of other people

when Akriti every time she would humiliates GG, before he would stand numb and say its their family matter, he should not interfere.

side 2: taking the same instance : the side he showed himself is in monologue of his, when he says what kind of girl is she, when she consoles bua and his reaction changes every time she cries or is hurt His facial expression changes but he doesn't show that to any of his family members.

instances two: when GG got sick, he told Akriti that he wont go to meet her, and next day when Akriti said that you wen to meet her when you said no, he explains her softly not picking up any indication that why is that her concern

side 2: when he saw her struggling and in pain he melted his anger away and helped her.

same yesterday in cafe, he was getting so emotional seeing her cry that he melted right away and went into protective mode but before that when Bua was talking to him he showed his side 1 out

i dnt know if i am making any sense but i dnt think he is completely wrong but he is not completely right either. now he is going rebellious because that built up bout his tolerance is breaking away. everyone has a breaking point and slowly he is reaching there so i dnt blame him to be delusional but he needs to calm down and think practically and clearly but he is unable to do it in his house.