Is armaan Changing ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Minnie

jassi did try to bring up the topic of loving someone in her past in the resturant but Purab just wasn't ready to listen.He told her it was not imp etc.

I think he was trying to spare her feelings.....its hard to tell ur future husband abt ur past lovelife......and that is the opperative word PAST....she said she loved someone in the PAST.....frankly if it was over, how was it relavent to their future.....unless Jassi meant for Purab to compare notes with Armaan regarding "how jassi drives me nuts"😉

Ive never felt sad when Jealous. My friend has a brand new Porche and I want to smash her face in!! 😆

Originally posted by: lovely

😆 that's too funny. Jealousy will always cause rage or anger depending on the temperaments but never sadness.

hey glad to know it gave a great laugh but its true.....not everyone cry when they are sad....some get depressed, some quiet, some act out to deny their feelings.....same with anger, not all people turn self destructive.....some just close off and bottle it inside.....so u really cant generalise how people react in various emotions.....

Anger is different to jealousy! I dont think you get sad when you are Jealous, rather you become sad after the anger has faded and you have had time to reflect and by that time you are no longer jealous!

Originally posted by: Minnie

jassi did try to bring up the topic of loving someone in her past in the resturant but Purab just wasn't ready to listen.He told her it was not imp etc.Instead he could have told her he knew and could understand her feelings and work towards achieving her love ect.But he chose to beleive that in one month,Jassi got out of love,got into love again and her past did not concern him and only present mattered.He should have realised past is what shaped Jassi and no one could just shake it off and go forward.He did act a little foolish.

minnie Purab is not only optimist but over optimist.. he was pretty sure Jassi will start loving him in 1 mth completely ignoring what happened in her past.

I know Purab fans are not going to agree on this one. But when there is a past involved in a relationship it is very important to come clean with it before entering a relationship.

one of my friend suffered a lot in her marriage becoz of it. Just like Purab said to Jassi that her past is not important to him her husband said the same thing when she told him abt her past. We all were happy for her they got married and now there are problems all becoz of her past. And mind you the husband was Mr. Nice & Perfect Guy just like Purab very mature, understanding before marriage. The girls parents never got tired praising their damand to everyone who cared to listen but see what's happened now. That's why i had said earlier too guys like Purab don't exist.

Originally posted by: surnita

Anger is different to jealousy! I dont think you get sad when you are Jealous, rather you become sad after the anger has faded and you have had time to reflect and by that time you are no longer jealous!

true. agree totally.

Originally posted by: lovely

one of my friend suffered a lot in her marriage becoz of it. Just like Purab said to Jassi that her past is not important to him her husband said the same thing when she told him abt her past. We all were happy for her they got married and now there are problems all becoz of her past. And mind you the husband was Mr. Nice & Perfect Guy just like Purab very mature, understanding before marriage. The girls parents never got tired praising their damand to everyone who cared to listen but see what's happened now. That's why i had said earlier too guys like Purab don't exist.

sorry to hear about your friend....well jassi comes clean or not would not make much difference to purab since he already knows everything as long as jassi lets go of the past.

sorry to hear about your friend lovely.. but it is my opnion that we must not come to conclusions based on a one off case..

Originally posted by: ides

I think he was trying to spare her feelings.....its hard to tell ur future husband abt ur past lovelife......and that is the opperative word PAST....she said she loved someone in the PAST.....frankly if it was over, how was it relavent to their future.....unless Jassi meant for Purab to compare notes with Armaan regarding "how jassi drives me nuts"😉

I am going to disagree with you here. No matter if ur are over ur past love or still in love with him. If you are entering a relationship with someone else no matter how hard it is you have to come clean. It is always relavent to the future together. That's where trust plays a imp role. I will give another ex of my co-worker who came clean abt her past love to her to-be husband and today they have a very strong relationship.

Originally posted by: lovely

But when there is a past involved in a relationship it is very important to come clean with it before entering a relationship.

a. in this case purab already knew that.
b. he didnt want jassi to feel less in any way because she was coming with prior baggage.
c. I have a very close friend who told her husband to be that she once had feelings for a guy.....to date she has to hear sarcastic comments based on that.....even though that love dies long before the marriage
d. what RELATIONSHIP?????😕😕😕