ides thumbnail
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hmmmm…..This is the first time that I am actually contributing my opinions instead of being a silent member, but first of all let me congratulate all for you for your splendid efforts in making this an interesting forums.

After reading Deadly's wonderful update for 22nd September episode and the varied reactions to Jassi/Purab's latest argument, personally I was looking forward to the next episode hoping that things would turn right. Lately there has been a lot of debate about Jassi treating Purab like dirt and forgiving Armaan any calous treatment of herself. Although, we might think these Purab-Jassi quarrels to be stupid, I think they go on to show Jassi's feelings for Purab. Look around yourself…..who are the people that we quarrel the most with…..our family and friends….generally we react more strongly to those we care deeply about because we are unconsciously aware that we are too vulnerable to them. We are more critical of those we love and more impatient with them, loving them yes, but at the same time taking out our frustrations on them because we know their unwavering support will see us through the rough times. Maybe this is why Jassi is so ready to take offence at anything Purab says while tolerating a lot of garbage from Armaan.

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*Anjali* thumbnail
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Posted: 20 years ago
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VERY true and VERY well said ides!!!!!! I never thought of it that way, but you're absolutely 100% right 👏👏👏 Jassi doesn't expect such behavior from Purab, so if he does anything that's out of line (according to her--even it's its hypersensitive on her part), she reacts b/c she just doesn't expect it out of him.

welcome to the forum ides 🤗

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi Ides, welcome to this forum. That is a good piece of analysis!
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Posted: 20 years ago
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sure ides!! btw, i really like your quote--it's really inspirational
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Posted: 20 years ago
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WOW, that was really great ides. you put that in a totally different light for me. maybe there's hope for purab and jassi after all. thanks for those great words of wisdom!
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Posted: 20 years ago
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wecome to the forum ides.well said👏
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Welcome Ides ! You are so right. I never looked at it that way.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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welcome ides...yup.....thnx for lending a completely new light to this issue.I had never viewed it in that sense.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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last quarrel seemed more of a lovers tiff than serious fight, but then it can blow out of propotion any time especially with armaan pushing jassi to her limits and jassi taking purab for granted

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Posted: 20 years ago
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For a first post, that was insightful and eloquent. Great that you stopped being a silent member, ides! 👏

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