Originally posted by: pink_panther
nothing is wrong with her...the truth of the matter is that any wife, in reality would do that! don't leave any stone unturned...before walking out! there are so many women who go through worst hell but still they stick in and try...and only leave when they know they have tried everything possible! but please don't get me wrong...i don't agree its right or wrong...but that how women are!
but u know what the writer can still make the story very interesting by showing how shilender still care for her but is stuck...or how he is also suspicious of his GF and thinks that he should find out more about her BG! there can have more of aradhna and shilender scenes! we barely get to see shilender these days
Well I donno much abt married life as I am not married yet, still one thing I would definitely like to point out here.. May be Indian Wives would surely try to the limit to keep that relationship and not to break it, but once she's caught her husband with 4/5 women and gets to know what kind of casanova he is, she'd stop longing for him mentally.. That's an emotional process.. There's a limit of tolerance.. and once it's broken, that also from the most imp person in ur life, u cant get back to the prev. point emotionally.. She may live with him further and nibhaofy all her duties, but SOMETHING would be lacking.. It's hard to love that person in the same way like she used to.. And here comes the vital role of the husband.. If he is honest enough, and humane enough to respond to her try again, then that becomes easier for her.. But here this haathi doesnt seem to be repenting.. So what's the point..
As far as I know, middle-class Indian wives still tolerate their casanova husbands for the sake of their families, and most imp.ly their children.. Till date, Divorce is not much appreciated here, and people makes the wife only responsible for the divorce.. Which is why they HAVE to tolerate them.. But u cant say they LOVE their casanova hubbies just like that.. Every woman has a sense of self-dignity.. And once that's hurt, no woman can be as normal as before.. They can act beautifully, but something would be missing from their part..
I wanted to see ALL these subtle things in this show.. Like how she's slowly and gradually getting over him.. But still is with him for her family's sake.. But finally she'd come out of that.. But that never happened in the show, and how Aradhana's behaving here is absolutely sick and disgraceful to womanhood.. Audience is certainly not liking it, trp is the proof of it... 👍🏼
P.S -- For me, the ultimate thing in life is to be happy and maintaining one's self-respect.. I'd surely go with divorce if that were my case, as my family is supportive enough and I thank God for that..
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