i think that shailen is in gray zone in her eyes.........e.g when he yells at her and then treats her like a kid when he pats her cheek with his hands....in her eyes, she reasons it out as he is a nice husband because 70% of time, he apologizes on his own; we can see that as a tact but she does not...she sees it as a caring gesture.
Aradhana.............I think if we will give Aradhanga, the character, a personality test she will score really high on MAKING THINGS LOOK BETTER. she is a nice, caring person and she sees everything thru her eyes...e.g sanjana and Brinda taking over kitchen and kicking her out; she sees that as Sanjana being responsible and being helpful. Also keeing in mind, i m assuming that she got married in younga age, lived with her parents before she lived at Sareen house, so she really has not seen much of the outside world. she has not stepped outside of her CHAR DIWARI....i m hoping that creators make it more of a real situation, making her learn the ways of life as she steps out in the real world.
Aradhana..........i am assuming that Aradhana and Shailen are not intimate enough......does not she realizes that he must be getting some action outside......they both are young and beautiful, unless they have a medical problem, their bedroom should offer them more than bickering fights......
Aradhana in REAL world......Our average middle class woman learn different ways of survival as they fight with vendors, gossip with other woman in their colony, but in Aradhana's case, she is always home, naukars doing most of the shopping and exposing her very little to the outside world, she has been living a sheltered life. it also seems like that she has not travelled much. Remember the episode where they went for second honeymoon, after watching that episode i guessed that Shailen has been so busy they just dont travel much, so even in that sense she is not exposed to much world.
Shailien......i just wonder sometime, what made him the way he is....was he aware of his father's 2nd love... y is that he is the way he is....We all are the product of our circumstances, our journey in lives....so what happend in his life that made him not believe in marriage and not to be intimate with his wife but other women. How can he respect his mother but not his wife? y does he still believe in SAREEN FAMILY when he does not even care about anyone in the family. He is a businessman; llife is a deck of cards and u trade them if u dont have a good hand..so if he is not happy in his marriage, then y stay married. Overall, He is someone who does not believe in society norms (it was obvious after dad's death). my question - Y is he still in loveless marriage?
Akshay....... Aradhana treats him like a son...y would not he at least drop a hint to her that ur sweet innocent husband may have a mistress.....he does not have to say it in straight words as he has no proof in ahnds but he can warn her.......he also needs to return her money.......start mentioning it.....
Mammi ji........she seems like a smart woman who hold grudges...lol......... y cant she see it.....she sees that Aradhana is fearful talking to her husband but she cant see that they have no intimacy (he comes home late, leave early and any1 can always walk into their rooms as door is always open).........MAMMI JI pls open up ur eyes and pls once in a while go to office as it is ur business after ur husband's death....pls go and see wht is going on......or at least ask y Nikita was fired as she is a good PA or whatever she was....
Brinda Bhabhi................i actually feel sorry for this woman.........she is handicapped, husband does not do much, kids count on their aunt. imagine u being in her shoes, u will be upset to so her being angry and pushing Bharat ji is reasonable. she is just a frustrated woman who is on wheelchair, feels that her husband does not earn. Ofcourse, her bari bahu powers were taken away from her once Aradhana came in the pic...She is jealous and her being on wheelchair is not helping her....we need to send her to special olympics so that she can redirect her energy and do something more meaningful. or for GOD's sake, send her to physical therapy to exhaust her...
Sanjana..... very ordinary character that u always get to see in every family esp in joint family system... only child, used to have all the attention on her.....now that Aradhana is the middle of the attention...so she has to take control of the situation and make sure that all eyes r on her....very cunning woman (should have been married to Shailen.........man she would have kept that guy on his toes). she is street smart from the beginning....goin to aradhana and telling her about akshay's business in the beginning, seeing daddy ji in the hospital and taking control of situation with Akshay, manipulating Brinda bhabhi and telling her what she wants to hear and make her feel that she has the power but in reality she is the one who is pulling all the strings......and in the end......still being sweet..(poor Brinda...ziyada bol ke buri banti hai)............We see this everyday in our lives.......I just want her to question Shailen about business and money issues... i so want Shalein to put her to her place.........he is the one who can understand where she is coming from...............(but for that he needs to spend little more time at home).....
Aradhana.....back to her........learn something form Sanjana............when she kicked u our from the kitchen...u should have told her....LISTEN LADY...i m here to make food for my cheating husband and i WILL do it if i want to........same way u cook what u want to cook.............but be sweet...bhole se mooh he bolo.......take the blindfold off............u r smart, intelligent, multi takser, hard working....now that u will be dealing with more ppl u should get used to different ppl, and tunderstand heir ways and their opinions and their ways of getting things done.... and dont be so naive and believe in happily ever after.....
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