Originally posted by: Mysticaldivine
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Thx Labi dear 🤗 You're welcome🤗
OK all answers are in Blue (My all answers are in red)
this pink one is here
What you said in BOLD I said this in my 190-91 during forced marraige
and here is the link of my facebook post
https://www.facebook.com/notes/arhi-together-forever-%EF%B8%8F%EF%B8%8F/arshi-marriage-special-by-arshihamesha/740158576153261/
I could access this link only after quoting the post and copy pasting the link from there.
I am glad that you also think that he wouldn't have done the same thing if it wasn't Khushi.Beautiful analysis as usual.👏
Now why am I saying he sacrificed
Think out of the norm, not as a viewer,
As Arnav
put yourself in his shoes
Nafs ko maar ke kaam karna sab se mushkil kaam hai, I hope u heard it
He was a closed book, never opened up, even girls were around him yet he kept himself in his shell and suddenly he opened up to her
He saw her in his arms and at the top he heard she said chod dijiye Anjaliji ko
He never heard or saw anything else
(That's his problem.He always comes to conclusions without listening to the whole thing.)
His trust which broke when he was 14 and again he was standing at the doorway seeing another betrayal of his life
That moment he had no feelings of love
Chap gaya hai...that speaks itself
That I know.😭
Loved this edit.An amazing portrayal of his painful past and present.Look at his painful eyes.😭
Your all edits are superb.I forgot to say that earlier.😳
He killed his own ego, his pride
He put his name with her, not because of love, though his love over came yet his hate was fueling him and he attached his own name with her..that is why on the bridge he said main apni di ke liye kuch bhi kar sakta hoon aur main ne kiya...tum jaisi larki se shaadi
Why because she was a characterless for him
He sacrificed his pride and all for a characterless girl who he loves so much
That nafs he killed to marry her
That sacrifice I was mentioning here...
I can understand your views regarding Arnav's sacrifice.Afterall if we view it from a person's perspective, our perception might also change.
It's not that I never understood Arnav's insecurities, fears, pains or his sufferings.
Anger clouds his judgement and all the rational thoughts flow out of his mind.He very well knows from his heart that she is an innocent girl.Some unexpected words and some shocking scenes changed his trust instantly.He loved her.But love can never sustain without trust.
He might have sacrificed his pride by marrying her but would he have done the same if it was Lavanya or anyone else?Never.
He did the marriage because the girl in question was Khushi, who values this institution, whom he thought he could tame by this step.But he would never enter into a marriage if it was Lavanya.That says a lot.
That's where Na paas aa sake..na door ja sake happens.''nafrat paas anne na de..mohabbat door jane na de!''
About the bridge scene, as much expressive his eyes are, his words are always total opposite to what his heart says.So I don't believe most of his words.😆Most of his words are only to hurt Khushi and also to assure himself that he is right.As he once said, uska koi matlab nahi.😆😉
He won't marry anyone just for the sake of his sister.
If he is that adamant to do anything for his sister, then why he didn't bring Shyam back when she pleaded him after the miscarriage?No, he won't do anything for his sister.If he could marry a characterless girl for his Di as he thinks, then why couldn't he bring back a traitor like Shyam just to please his Di?That says it all.I know Arnav is right in the 2nd scenario, but I just said that to question what he always says.I am never doubting his loyalties to his Di.He is the brother anyone wishes to have.(But Anjali was never that sister..that's altogether a different topic).
But here he knows what is right and what is wrong or rather who is right and who is wrong.So he would never bend to his Di's unnecessary demands.
But Khushi would have done anything for her sister and also for his sister because she knows how much his Di meant to him.She was ready to leave him for his Di.She brought back Shyam because of his Di's deteriorating health.
Again, I am not a Khushi defender.I love both of them.I love them together.But flaws are flaws be it Khushi's or Arnav's and a human would never be flawless.
So even my perspective would have so many flaws.😉😳Look, I am defending myself.😆
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