Let's discuss Parchayee - Page 4

Originally posted by: amivp

oh, I missed that.. Sorry, that is main after marriage...I strongly feel that it is "nice to have" kid(s) and not "must have".

Originally posted by: ~DaZZ|ing~

Ami, I haven't watched episode 5 yet. Still hooked to Aisi Hai Tanhai and it's gripping story! 😳 What I think he meant is that he doesn't want someone who can't give him his undivided attention or that he can't share his wife with anyone else.

Originally posted by: ~DaZZ|ing~

Men are as likely to be infertile as women. I don't understand why the blame's almost automatically always on the woman. When will we outgrow this patriarchal mentality? 😕 I'm glad to hear that things are slowly improving there, Ami. It's about time! 😊 I've always felt that daughters do their part much better than sons when it comes to taking on responsibilities and caring for their parents. Many women support their parents even after marriage, so this notion that only sons can only perceived as capable is absurd to me. 😳

Originally posted by: amivp

Now educated people are knowing that the issue could be with the men. Some strong women will force their husband to get the fertility tests done and will eventually end up going with surrogacy.

Regarding taking care of elderly parents, I love this in States, if you see, girls they take care of their parents. In India it is altogether different and that pisses me off big time.

Children have to take care of their parents irrespective of sex. What happens to parents that have only daughter(s), they are on their own in their older age. You know this is the mentality amongst Indians in USA as well. There might be exceptions but very few. I am hoping that it will change.

Originally posted by: ~DaZZ|ing~

That's what I don't understand, Ami. The desi mentality is more or less the same in Canada and the States. There should no bias when it comes to caring for your parents. The expectation is on the sons, but it's the daughters that actually step up to the responsibility most of the time. I can't imagine anything sadder than a child leaving her parents on their own because she's "married" and can't fulfill that responsibility. 😭 I think a lot of parents are slowly realizing this difference in both genders and are becoming less partial to their sons. 😊

Originally posted by: AvaniVrinda

Good discussion here. Agree with all 😊
But as Ami said i am seeing more and more parents supporting girls achieve their dreams 😳
That's a good sign 😊

I have yet to watch this series:) Ami you should try watching "Aisi hai Tanhai 😊

Originally posted by: amivp

Yes, Avani, I am going to start watching 'Aisi hai Tanhai'. Infact, I already watched 15 minutes of first episode. Seems that it is very interesting, the other thread is growing big time and I need to catch up soon. I guess based on the teaser, I will have to be emotionally very strong..

Originally posted by: ~DaZZ|ing~

Ami, you'll need a strong heart to watch this drama.🥺 I plan to watch episode 5 of Parchayee tomorrow. I'll be able to continue the discussion on this thread hopefully then. Both shows are very interesting, but Aisi Hai Tanhai is in a league of its own in terms of concept.

Originally posted by: ~DaZZ|ing~

Ami, you'll need a strong heart to watch this drama. 🥺 I plan to watch episode 5 of Parchayee tomorrow. I'll be able to continue the discussion on this thread hopefully then. Both shows are very interesting, but Aisi Hai Tanhai is in a league of its own in terms of concept.