Originally posted by: anoushka_113
All this talk and rationalizing on the forum on whether Arudeep is a couple or not 😆 and how they reacted to this and that- that is all part of something only they will know and people at this end can only assume and read according to our own subjectivities.
However what I find extremely offensive is calling in their age difference as a valid reason for the impossibility of them being a couple implying that a difference of age is a legit point 😕 As someone who is married to a guy 8 years senior and having cousins who have married guys 10-11 years senior 😆, I find that assumption offending. My cousins and myself married quite young, were all ambitious to continue to study and have strong careers and families as well and were keen to build our careers and families with the absolute support and shrewd guidance of our husbands. I have found from experience that for women who are ambitious towards both early families and careers, a guy closer to age ‘can’ be a total headache 🤦🏻♀️, whereas an older guy carries the understanding, maturity and experience to guide.
So, for Arudeep, they can be anything they wish or not. But to refer to Pawan as cradle snatcher and worse expletives and implying Arunita will lose her career if they are a couple (these are comments on the web and not here) I find those people crass and far removed from the real psychology of human reality and relationships.[/QUOTE)
A difference in age is a huge positive (provided the guy is proportionally emotionally mature) in a relationship, especially where both parties are Indian.Absolutely true. 👍 If there is mental vibing, then age is just a number. One of my besties who is a successful playback singer down south was the first in our gang to marry. She married at 19 to a guy 11years her senior. And he used to be teased in the same manner ‘ cradle.snatcher’. ( I use the word ‘teased’ not ‘trolled’ coz those were the times without SM 🙏😊). As you rightly pointed out , he has stood like a rock behind her,giving her all the support , there was no looking back as far as her career was concerned. ( she even won the state award & many more).
It is so silly to bring in the age factor. If there is something brewing btwn Aru & PD which can turn into something long.lasting , then it is for them & their families to figure out.
Another annoying thing is when ppl split hairs reg PD’s age. Wiki says 1996 born, hence 25 now, whereas there are ppl who swear blue on their faces that he is 27! 🙄🙄. What diff does it matter, 25 or 27?? Let them go figure their lives. Ppl act as if PD is pushing 40 with both hands!’ 🙄😡
Remember Nehu-ruhu… he is many years younger than her. Another eg Milind Soman & Ankita. These couples seem to have a joyous marital life.
So high time that these age-obsessed ppl take a chill pill.
Absolutely like the comment u have quoted and completely agree with u..
Also..if a 27 yr old can be called Buddha what would I call myself😔
Anyways..what right do we have to comment on who should or should not marry whom? We don't live their lives..nor r we their guardians, parents or caretakers..not even mentors. Even otherwise mrg is n individual choice and at best even your parents and friends can just guide u to arrive at a decision.
We like them, tease them, some even troll..theek hai..what we do with our free time is our choice..but it's better if our comments as viewers r limited to the show not their personal choices
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