Love- pyar, ishq, mohabbat - Page 3

Originally posted by: -TeriMalang-

This is such a beautiful view.

The book which Is open but left being unread .

There few ppl who claims to be book lover yet donot understand the beauty of being a reader. Malini.

Few pick the book judge the cover, read the context.strt to give up on the second page . AKT.

And than come the people who are in love.love with the reading ,be the most careful reader,understands and imagines the depth that everyword has and become the lover.ARU .

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I am looking for a word respect as well in this list. Could be trust as well.

Imlie to Aryan = Respect/Trust

Aryan to Imlie = Ibadat [he has put her in the highest pedestal]

Malini to AKT = Junoon

AKT to Malini = [no words in dictionary, hate to use the word friend]

AKT to Imlie = Conquer, might be love at some point.

Originally posted by: Tinni_diti

Imlie is a completely open book that anyone can read, but not everyone has the ability to understand.

Aditya was the first to get the chance to read the book, and he started reading it but could not read it because he started reading the book without understanding it.

Malini is the girl who just picked up the book. Neither did she ever read the book, nor did she love it.(

Aryan is the crazy book lover to whom the book "Imlie" ended up in a very dilapidated state.Aryan knows how much is written on each page of a book (anger, sadness, neglect, disgust) so he read the book with utmost care, one by one, and began to understand the book. In this way he fell in love with the book "Imlie" one day.

I don't know what I wrote .. I think I went beyond the topic and wrote these.😕

beautiful 👏👏👏

n the first book owner saw it in hand of the last n nw wants book bck cos hes thinking wht this guy is reading so much n like in the book it ws mine so i shld only read. loser

First of all, this topic is beautiful and I'm waiting to read as beautiful replies on this.

With my minimal understanding of things, this is what I feel.

Imlie's love for Aditya was "Ibadat".

Malini's love for Aditya was first "Ibadat" than turned to "Junoon".

Aditya's love for Malini was kabhi "Adat" toh kabhi "Akidat".( I know its not in option, but this is what it feels like)

Aditya's love for Imlie was "Dilkashi" and might turn to "junoon" in future.

Aryan and Imlie's love hasn't fully bloomed yet. Aryan is still tiptoeing around it and Imlie is,in better terms, otherwise occipied.

Their love will going to have it all. Uns, Dilkashi,Junoon, Akidat, Ibadat aur Ishq.❤

Note: These are personal views. Everyone is entitled to them.

Originally posted by: -TeriMalang-

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I'd hoped to give you forever

Nicholas Sparks

Ishq. Literally translated, it means love. But love has nothing on the intensity and madness and poetic depth of Ishq. Just say word out aloud, and you will hear the resonance in your heart. Ishq is love at its finest, both in terms of aesthetics and impact.

Since we have 4 main characters(Akt,Malini,imlie,Aru) in the show , they have their own way of showing love .

Here are the 7 stages of love

Dilkashi (attraction)

Uns (infatuation)

Ishq (love)

Akidat (trust/reverence)

Ibadat (worship)

Junoon (passion/madness)

Followed by Maut (death)

Wat according to you Is the love form of the characters.their shortcomings, their denials, their acceptance

Remember this is all about love

Open for all🤗

I have always felt that AKT feels Dilkashi (attraction) for Imlie; while for Imlie it was Uns (infatuation) for AKT, hence the toxic/self destructive behaviors.

Love elevates a person, does not degrade.

Aryan & Imlie are between Akidat (trust/reverence) & Ibadat (worship), neither of them have realized the love portion of their relationship and to some extent won't want to confront it unless it's staring at them in their faces.

So here I am with my analysis... Just wanted to give a little disclaimer that I haven't watched this show from start therefore some of my points may not be valid...

Considering the four characters of the show..

Malini to AKT (As far as I understood) - It started from Dilkashi to Uns to Ishq where it didn't mattered what is the financial status of AKT and then it turned to Akidat for she was always the supporting gf/wife to AKT and that's where there has been a pause courtesy fuelling words of AC and of course the big revelation of Adilie's marriage... So instead of Akidat turning into Ibadat it straight away went to Junoon thus skipping the initial level where she wants nothing but AKT for whom she was ready to stoop so low that she can plan the assassination of Imlie multiple times, raped AKT and did all that she can in order to win Aditya back... She has literally ruined her career with her own hands.. such was the level of her self destruction... Though show is not focusing on Malini anymore hence I am not sure if she is going to follow the level after Junoon or she is going back to some of prior levels...

AKT to Malini (As Far as I understood) - For him it started with Dilkashi to Uns to the level which he thought was Ishq but it was not... Though during his marriage with Imlie he kept on saying that he is in love with Malini but for me he was somewhere between Uns and Ishq and sadly it never went past after that....

AKT to Imlie (As far as I understood) - For me his love started with Dilkashi where he was attracted with Imlie's selfless behavior and her different character from Malini.... But then skipping all the levels especially the level of Akidat it straight away went to Junoon... But this is a different kind of Junoon not the kind that Malini have.... He wanted Imlie but at his own terms and condition... Imlie has to prove herself in order to gain his Trust and if Malini PF wouldn't happened then he wouldn't have trusted anything... So According to me he haven't reached at the level of Love also properly for where there is Ishq there is Akidat.. And well he was not even at the stage of Junoon also properly.. He is somewhere lost in the world of delusion where he thinks he loves Imlie but actually he is not.. He is like a child who wants something because that thing is with other child but the moment he gets it he lost it's value...

Imlie to AKT (As far as I understood) - She was just an 18 year old girl when she got married to AKT... And at that age it is very hard to differentiate between any levels of Ishq.. Her love started with Dilkashi to Uns to the thing which she thought was Ishq but according to me it was again somewhere between Uns and Ishq but yet she do has the level of Akidat and some part of Ibadat and junoon for AKT for if it was not then she wouldn't have gone so crazy that she couldn't see anything past AKT not even her own self... So for me her Uns is too strong to see anything past her and I can completely relate with her over here.., Not justifying her actions but I know that feeling which is hard to describe....

Imlie to Aryan - This girl is still lost in her uns for AKT that she has not realized that she has already reached to the level of Akidat with Aryan... As of now her uns for AKT is weighing down her Akidat for Aryan and once that mist of uns will be cleared she will realize that she is already in the level of Ibadat with Aryan...

Aryan to Imlie - Well I don't even need to mention that this man's love is all about Dilkashi, Uns, Ishq, Akidat and Ibadat... He was always there for her to motivate her, to boost her confidence, to save her from the whole world.. Making her a part of his world... Though he is having traits of Junoon too but his junoon is neither self destructive nor destructive to the person he loves... He was ready to be bad in the eyes of the person he loves but he was not ready to let that person walk into the path of self destruction... His action seems wrong but his intentions were never.... And at the end of the day intention matters... Sometimes you have to go twisted way in order to save someone you love from destruction... So for me Aryan is a complete package of Love.. And very rare person is fortunate enough to get this package (And this is completely an unbiased review of him😳)

There are few sayings regarding Love that I came across:

“Love can either heal or destroy. Love is so powerful that it can sweep you up like a leaf in the wind. Up and down, twirling here and there. Hitting objects that stand in the way, making you stronger.

And sometimes a hand catches the fragile leaf and crushes it. Love is beautiful as well. That hand could

catch that leaf and hold it like a baby bird. Stroke it with care. Love is powerful. A lesson I will never ever forget.”

― Lindsay Paige, Whatever It Takes

AKT's love for Imlie is that hand which caught the fragile leaf and crushed it... But Aryan's love for Imlie is the hand that had held that leaf like a baby girl, stroking it with love...

"Love can destroy you

Love can erase you

Love can heal you

Love can reinvent you

And if you're lucky enough...

Love can make you whole again”

― Mia Asher

I think this saying covers all the four characters of this show.. Love has destroyed Malini, has erased AKT... It's on his way of healing Imlie and Aryan's love is reinventing Imlie in order to make her whole again...

Once again I am not sure how many of you will agree with me on this or whether it all makes any sense also or not, but I wrote what I felt regarding all these characters.. Rest is up to all of you to judge 😳

Dilkashi (attraction)

Uns (infatuation)

Ishq (love)

Akidat (trust/reverence)

Ibadat (worship)

Junoon (passion/madness)

Followed by Maut (death)

imlie’s love for AKT - uns to ibadat/akidat/ishq. She went through all of that but now maut is where that live is because he killed it with his own hands.

Imlies love for ASR - akidat - trust (might be shaken a bit still solid where it matters) and understanding and companionship. But the word I am looking for isn’t here it’s when you go through a hell together with someone you form a bond a kinship where you understand each others pains,dreams,triggers and hearts breaks. That’s the kind of bond they have. Hope it becomes junooni soon
ASRs love for Imlie - it started with curiosity and attarsction so dilkashi. Right now he is so in awe of her and wants to save her so akidat but heading soon to the junooni phase
AKTs love for Imlie - self love is the word. Love that centers around self. Selfish and self important.
malini ‘s love for AKT - so steadfast in love ishq akidat ibadat turned into junooni.

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

beautiful 👏👏👏

n the first book owner saw it in hand of the last n nw wants book bck cos hes thinking wht this guy is reading so much n like in the book it ws mine so i shld only read. loser

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My firangiii ass trying to decipher the hinglish lmao.

This is such a lovely post by the way!!!

I think love is never stationary. It changes, it evolves. Our emotions change in life, our surroundings and circumstances change us. Anyone of these stages of love can splinter off into something else, whether its another one of these stages or something completely off the line of succession.

I'll come back and do others when I have time, but I'll start my psychoanalysis of Aditya first lmao.

Aditya:

For Malani-

I cannot say for sure since I have a horrible memory of their initial interactions but I think it was a mixture of dilkashi and akidat: they clearly had a friendship and Malani is obviously a beautiful and was kind soul. That lead to love as well. I do think Adi loved Malani as much as he says he didn't...there are different types of love though.

For Imlie:

I think for Imlie again it was also Akidat: he loved how she made him feel, putting him first that also bloomed into love.

Aditya's love language is acts of service: not for others, but that's how *HE* likes to be appreciated or loved: people giving him their time, attention and devotion and BOTH sisters have done that. Both sisters also have tendencies to SHOW their LOVE/ AFFECTION through Acts of service so that makes perfect sense. Imlie can do it through cooking, singing, saving your life and Malani does it similarly but also has the money to buy things and gift things.

I think he responds with words of affirmation he's able to speak well and articulate his love and commitment to either sister when he's "with" them... I say responsive because he does not do acts of service for others, he is the recipient.

Because of these acts of service, Aditya gets attracted to Malani and eventually Imlie and that's what he sees as love. I don't think he's ever worshipped either and I don't see his love for either of them as passionate. I do think he will transition into Uns/ Junoon soon for Imlie.

This is so beautiful

Malini- No doubt, between Junoon and Maut

Aryan- Ibadat

Imlie to Aryan- Akidat. I think she will stay there in her heart of hearts, even though she will keep denying. When he says, mein rishton ka maan rakh raha hun, just like papa did to maa❤️. If I am not mistaken, he is talking about himself respecting Imlie. She melted, but told herself not to and that is Aryan's FF line of winning😒

Imlie to Adi guy- Infatuation with marriage, one marriage, one love and other nonsense. I don't even think she is infatuated by the guy himself☢️

Adi guy- has nothing for anyone. Self love, junoon wala😡When the great Adi guy beckons, why should Imlie or Malini object wala....