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Posted: 3 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: MusicMuse

Getting someone married under any kind of force especially holding them at physical threat aka gun point is completely illegal in the eyes of the law of our country. Any court if they find out the circumstances of the Said marriage will immediately dissolve it and take strict actions against the perpetrators. It's not something that is open to discussion. Its a written law.

What you're talking about is arranged marriage and I just couldn't believe my eyes that you just confused or compared arranged marriage with gun point marriage. It is like comparing loveless marital sex with rape, in one consent is present no matter how happy or unhappy and in the other it is being done to a person forcefully . Both are completely different to such a degree that there is no comparison.

Arrange marriage happens will full consent of both parties, even when one or other of the parties is / are unhappy. If force is applied ,it's null and void.

In fact , that is why in IK , Archie had to marry Baha again with full rituals in front of the society even after divorce with Moon ,to give Baha the acknowledgement of his wife because their 1st marriage is completely illegal.


Also, in arranged marriages, if the bride or the groom is forced to give consent, how many of those marriages do you think get null and void? Very few! Again, sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't. It will become null and void, if both parties agree to it and decide not to continue with it.


Anyways, there is no point getting too deep into these discussions. Again, it's just a tv show. :)

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Posted: 3 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Anshman

Adi is in love with her already, his gestures, doings sabse ye baat clear hai. I'm happy with his concern towards her . But honestly I didn't like the trophy wala incident ☹️. Malini is his wife; not Imlie. He denied Imlie as his wife and married Malini. Trophy lekar pehle Malini ke pas hi jaana chahiye tha usko. It's her right; agar right nahi dena chahta tho shadi ku kiya? If he doesn't feel love or sincerity towards her just divorce. Kyu joker bana rahe ho Malini ko.

Don't know if makers will show Malini being ok with the trophy wala thing. This time bhi usko ultra sweet mahaan Devi dikhayenge ye log. Kuch tho jealousy or seriousness de ku nahi makers. Precap is πŸ’― KunDini. The way Adilie looked nervous on seeing Malini was KunDini pro. Why itni khabrahat aur pareshani, kuch unethical thing ya sin kar raha hai kya? Man living with 2 patnis. Fl consideres someone's pati as her own . Nayi soch πŸ˜†. Imlie is an inspiration to the young girls πŸ”₯ for running behind other's hubby and for tightly holding sindoor as her ultimate truth.

why Malini is his wife and not Imlie.. Just because in Delhi no one knows about it.. He has done rasam twice with Imlie.. If he would have not considered her his wife he would have not done it.. Only he does not accept it..
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Posted: 3 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: mayuri099


Also, in arranged marriages, if the bride or the groom is forced to give consent, how many of those marriages do you think get null and void? Very few! Again, sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't. It will become null and void, if both parties agree to it and decide not to continue with it.


Anyways, there is no point getting too deep into these discussions. Again, it's just a tv show. :)

Quite true. Just like many crimes remain unsolved even unreported . Doesn't mean they stop being crimes. :) Many such forced marriages are done I'm sure and they don't reach the fingertips of law and order system.


Also , yes it is a tv show only ,so we should take it like a tv show only na ?? What is the problem in calling it a EMA ?? EMA hai to bhi kya farq padta hai ?? Kaun sa police pakad ke le jayegi ? πŸ˜† Let's not try to validate what is invalid or try to justify the actions of leads by trying to put them on some moral high ground that they don't deserve and just focus on getting entertainment. No need to overthink. πŸ˜†

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Posted: 3 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

@Red - Imlie is his first wife then Malini came second in the position,just because Adi doesn't consider Imlie as his wife cannot alter the truth that marriage never took place in pagdandiya. Adi is in denial mode but truth is truth and Adi clearly knows that. About the rights, again it's imlie who has the first right over Adi not Malini.


Green- Aur rahi baat shadi ki then, Aditya revealed the truth to Malini but that fragile glass doll fainted due to shock. Adi ne Malini ki jaan bachane ke life shadi ki na ki haq dilwane ke liye.


Yellow- It's her own pati and she considers him as his husband. Not snatching away someone else's husband. Malini is the who considers Adi as her husband but jabki sach yeh hai woh uske choti behen ka pati hai.


Bold- In which basis you are comparing Adilie to kundini?? Is Imlie married to some other guy and romancing with Adi?? Unknown to the truth, Malini is the second woman in Adi's life and holding that sindoor as her first haq.

i to many extent agree to your point... And here it is all game of what perspective we see the relationship... Both are his wife.. Ek ke saath 2baar rasm kiya.. Ek ke saath ek baar that too after knowing he is married... Falling in love with Imlie can be right or wrong but it can not be EMA in any case.. They both have done rituals not once but twice.. Rituals bind people in invisible bond and that's why rituals are made so extensive.. Those rituals.. Faith of villagers on Adi for Imlie, Imlie getting shot.. All this are playing vital role in Ali's responsibility and hence bonding and hence falling for her.. The biggest mistake here is Malini which Adi did in that moment of ego and is now trying to justify his love for Malini.. Wrong has happened with Malini.. That is very bad and sad..
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Posted: 3 years ago
#45

Something worth to be mention I guess!

Yes Aditya is several time has refuse the marriage, and said it was illegal and that's why he fights it and get married to Millani!


However, Aditya has Acknowledge her as his wife twice!


Once, the time they first come to Delhi, when the villager tried to take her back by force!


Second time, when she got the bullet, he said to the police that they kept his wife with them!


So we can say that even he refuse it and went against it, but somehow deep inside of him believe that his wedding with Imlie is a fact!

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Posted: 3 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: MusicMuse

Quite true. Just like many crimes remain unsolved even unreported . Doesn't mean they stop being crimes. :) Many such forced marriages are done I'm sure and they don't reach the fingertips of law and order system.


Also , yes it is a tv show only ,so we should take it like a tv show only na ?? What is the problem in calling it a EMA ?? EMA hai to bhi kya farq padta hai ?? Kaun sa police pakad ke le jayegi ? πŸ˜† Let's not try to validate what is invalid or try to justify the actions of leads by trying to put them on some moral high ground that they don't deserve and just focus on getting entertainment. No need to overthink. πŸ˜†


Well, to you Adlilie is EMA, for me it's not. Let agree to disagree. πŸ˜›


Even if Malini was not in the picture, Aditiya was married to Imlie, be it at gun point. These rituals have their own weight, especially in a tribal area like Pagdandiya. Aditya walking away from it doesn't make it null and void, up until they both agree to it and decide not to continue with it.


What attracted me to the show is Pagdandiya and Imlie. I love tribal cutlures, they have their own authenticity, their own beliefs and rituals. In the eyes of the law, Satyakam is a bagi, to the ppl of Pagdandiya, he is their savior.


I am not putting anyone in high moral ground. Aditya is definitely flawed. Ideal situation would be he revealed the truth to Malini as soon as he came back, and they'll handle the situation together. But, that didn't happen as we all know.


To me, a marriage happened in Pagdandiya and Imlie is his first wife. Let's agree to disagree! πŸ˜›

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Posted: 3 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: mayuri099


Well, to you Adlilie is EMA, for me it's not. Let agree to disagree. πŸ˜›


Even if Malini was not in the picture, Aditiya was married to Imlie, be it at gun point. These rituals have their own weight, especially in a tribal area like Pagdandiya. Aditya walking away from it doesn't make it null and void, up until they both agree to it and decide not to continue with it.


What attracted me to the show is Pagdandiya and Imlie. I love tribal cutlures, they have their own authenticity, their own beliefs and rituals. In the eyes of the law, Satyakam is a bagi, to the ppl of Pagdandiya, he is their savior.


I am not putting anyone in high moral ground. Aditya is definitely flawed. Ideal situation would be he revealed the truth to Malini as soon as he came back, and they'll handle the situation together. But, that didn't happen as we all know.


To me, a marriage happened in Pagdandiya and Imlie is his first wife. Let's agree to disagree! πŸ˜›

@red I agree and disagree πŸ˜‚ see I agree with you , that Imlie is his first wife and believe in the ritual they did it twice at the village!

But at the same time if Adili had a love/married relation behind Milani back It will be cheating! It will be seen and consider to be EMA since he declare Millani as his wife in front of his society


@green Aditya wants to come clean in-front of Millani, he told her before the wedding but she didn't handle the truth, and get fainted, and the doctors said that her health can't take any stress, so somehow he had to hide this from her for the sake of her health


@blue πŸ’― agree, this is only a show, having different pov is normal, healthy and positive 🌹

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Posted: 3 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Something worth to be mention I guess!

Yes Aditya is several time has refuse the marriage, and said it was illegal and that's why he fights it and get married to Millani!


However, Aditya has Acknowledge her as his wife twice!


Once, the time they first come to Delhi, when the villager tried to take her back by force!


Second time, when she got the bullet, he said to the police that they kept his wife with them!


So we can say that even he refuse it and went against it, but somehow deep inside of him believe that his wedding with Imlie is a fact!


Completely agree πŸ‘


There's no doubt especially after the recent pagdandiya track that Adi has accepted that Imlie is his wife. If he didn't, then there wouldn't be any need for him to fulfil his "zimidaari". So Adi does think their marriage is valid but he is just picking which parts of it his heart is ready to act on. For now, he has accepted the "zimidaari" part of the marriage but not the "rishta/pyar" part that's needed.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

@red I agree and disagree πŸ˜‚ see I agree with you , that Imlie is his first wife and believe in the ritual they did it twice at the village!

But at the same time if Adili had a love/married relation behind Milani back It will be cheating! It will be seen and consider to be EMA since he declare Millani as his wife in front of his society


@green Aditya wants to come clean in-front of Millani, he told her before the wedding but she didn't handle the truth, and get fainted, and the doctors said that her health can't take any stress, so somehow he had to hide this from her for the sake of her health


@blue πŸ’― agree, this is only a show, having different pov is normal, healthy and positive 🌹


Imlie will never have married/physical relationship with Aditya behind Malini's back. Neither of them will.


It's just that they both (Imlie and Aditya) can't deny the the fact that they are married to each other and that they share this invisible bond. They will slowly be falling for each other (emotionally) and it will reach a point where it can't be kept hidden anymore, especially from Aditya's side. That's when the truth will have to come out in the open. That's my guess! πŸ˜›


green - I know he tried, but maybe he could have tried a little harder. πŸ˜›

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicMuse

And what makes you think I'm talking about the precap ?? Did I even mention any part of it in any of replies . πŸ˜† πŸ˜† You and your tendency for assumptions based on nothing. πŸ˜†

What trophy?? Did I mention any trophy anywhere?? πŸ˜†

I'm talking about the line Imlie spoke in today's episode that if she makes some mistake in future.. etc. Just after Malini mentioning Aditya has started liking her. It made me uncomfortable how sweetly naive she's about all these. How oblivious of the lurking danger to her happiness and marriage sitting just in front of her in the form of her little sister. Even though Imlie immediately caught the subconscious vibe of that information and promptly changed the subject to Dev.

I don't really blame Imlie either. Not yet. She has not made any direct attempt to steal Malini's husband. Yet. Except for that inexcusable and cringeworthy, you're only my husband line , which she shouldn't have said. Psychology pe khel gayi πŸ˜† now Aditya looks at her and treats her as his hidden wife.

Also , I'm yet to know how would she react and what her actions will be if Aditya falls in love with her and approaches her with out making it clear with Malini . So clean score board for her for now. Because I don't want to judge her based on assumptions of her future actions. I'll do so only based on what she's already done in the show.

But Aditya remains problematic as ever. He's slowly getting pulled towards Imlie , as if by some invisible cord and it'd have been okay ( after all it's the theme of the show ) if not for Malini's ultra sweetness and goodness and purity of heart. When her heart will break , it'll be extremely difficult to watch and almost will make me guilty for rooting for Adilie.


Lol exactly my feelings these days

I’m die hard Adilie fan, but we just can’t ignore the fact that malini would surely get hurt from all this, Adilie is a tragic couple, where they’ll suffer and people around them would also suffer.

Call me sadist or something but i wanna see Adilie fighting against their feelings first n then eventually fighting the world for those feelings, i wanna see their breaking n making journey where they’ll break when they can’t be together and then eventually make fighting all the hurdles for their love, you know some intense kinda love story which’ll feel wrong but will be so right.😳

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