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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I agree with some points and disagree with some!


1. The legal-ability of the first marriage:

I don't know about your low or culture but in ours a force marriage is illegal! But I saw a lot of Hindi shows that forced marriage took a place and then it transform to love!

However! Since party one ( πŸ˜‚ Imlie) is Acknowledge this relation and sendor and mangal sotra is the ultimate truth in her culture ( mind and village) so it is her belive who took a place here , but she accepted to hide it and while she considers Aditya her husband she Acknowledge she don't have any rights on him and the rights only for Millani didi!

Party number 2(Aditya) refusing the marriage and state that it is illegal, so if he later fall in love with imlie and start to demand his husband rights from her behind Millani back, this will make him a double standard! Which is not in his character!


Maintaining a married relation with Imlie behind Millani back will be in no doubts cheating and EMA ! So it is not at all acceptable to do it ( having 2 relations at once, and one of them is a secret!) it is cheating!!!


2- Imlie Apologize to Millani: I see it in a deferent prospective, when Millani told Imlie about the korta and that Aditya start to like her, she said thanks with a cold tone, and when they start to talk about the father they got emotional, and Millani assure her that she is her sister and she share her dad with her , then the flashback come of Imlli wedding, then she apologize, to me I felt that Imlie didn't felt so exited about Aditya liking her because she believe that Aditya love only Millany and not her and this action is only due his responsibility to her, but it strike her mind after the father talk so she really appreciate her sisterhood with Millani and she never want to hurt her not back then, not now, and never in the future, but this fact when it will be revealed it will hurt Millani, even if Aditya never love her(Imlie) not back then, not at the future!


They still didn't developed any love vibes between them(Adili) so how can she apologize about something didn't happened, she don't believe it will ever happen! But the fact of them married (Adili) will definitely have an impact on the relation (Millani and Imlie) is building, any women will not accept this fact even if her husband doesn't love the other women, it just the idea is horrible to think of!



Well said.


2nd ladt paragraph...


Some of us have predicted in this forum that imli will distant herself from aditya. It has already started with the apology to malini today.


Aditya will be attracred towards imli more in future . Perhaps leading to falling in love but for the love and respect of malini imli will keep a distant.



The makers are taking baby steps towards a new love triangle.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

Did anyone notice the Adilie scene where IMli was telling him that she did not mind Anu’s harsh words? She said she knows it’s because Anu loves Mun sooo much and that she had seen ppl like that..people who cares but show it as anger. She says for example-nakli nani. Adi then asks her, β€˜ Aur mein?’ Imli did not answer thoughπŸ˜€

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kaede

Abhi wo sirf friendship phase mein hai , abhi se hi ema ki baatein mat karo.🀣 Trophy wo Malini ko he dikhaya, Imlie mil gaye hogi aur satyakam ki story ke.loye mila hoga isliye use bata diya. Relax.

Good logical analysis. But I have some doubts. We don't no till now whether Adini marriage is registered or not. The makers did not show any kind of official registration of the marriage. Coming to Adilie marriage, it was obviously not registered.

According to law if a forced marriage is consummated then it becomes valid..so the first marriage is till now not valid according to law.

But the main loophole is even the 2nd marriage is not consummated till now. So which one out of the two marriage is valid ? In the 2nd marriage both the parties had consent ..so it has some strong points. But just for a moment if we forget that Adini marriage happened, and we focus only at the first one. It was forced..no parties had consent..but after marriage one party considers it true and valid. Now that consideration automatically makes the 2nd marriage invalid according to Indian law as two marriages is illegal.

Even in divorce case..no case can be filed if one spouse disagrees . Here the 1st marriage might just be in the mind of Imlie..but she is one of the two parties and her opinion can't be ignored even in law. She might be a village girl and quite naive but she is a human being and can't be deprived of her fundamental rights. Now if Adi consummates with Malini first, then he has to give Imlie divorce ..as she deserves a closure.

If not , then he is having an EMA with Malini.

All these points only holds true because Imlie considers this marriage true

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Adi doesn't consider the first marriage valid, but Imlie considers it valid. The marriage doesn't become invalid untill the two parties agree.

Even Adi knows that. Subconsciously he also considers his first marriage true..😳

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Enjoyed reading your analysis @ANGELshweta πŸ‘πŸΌ and wow it was definitely an episode that packed alot of punch. There's so much to unpack. I just adore watching protective Adi. He truly cares about Imlie but it's fun watching him deny that at every turn. I hope they keep up this denial phase for a good while. Love seeing him squirm everytime Malini points out his changing equation with Imlie. πŸ˜†


I like how the writers always tie Adilie's progression to past scenes. Like when Adi validated Imlie's claim of knowing a famous reporter as he dealt with that awful store manager, I thought back to that market scene and how irritated he got when Imlie made that same claim. Now, he doesn't mind at all if she brandishes his name. The way he couldn't help but smile as he watched her antics with a sense of pride.


It seems they've found the best formula to keep Adilie fans from forwarding Adoon scenes. Their conversations even in the privacy of their bedroom revolve solely around Imlie and end with Malini slightly getting romantic and Adi eventually finding an excuse to move away. I can tolerate every one of their scenes if they keep this up. πŸ˜†


My favourite line from Malini was when she said Imlie "challenges" Adi to get out of his comfort zone which is something she hasn't been able to do in all the 7 years together. (lol are the writers reading our posts cos we've been saying that all along πŸ˜‰). Adi started getting defensive when Malini said he's given Imlie a place in his life but then he digressed into a emotionally charged rant against the way that stupid store manager treated Imlie. Haha he's not even able to hide his feelings properly. If this keeps up, I won't understand how Malini will keep having her head in the clouds. It's impossible for her saintly nature not to take a slightly darker turn especially with her mum's poisonous words (which will no doubt play on her mind).


Which brings me to the Imlie-Malini scene. I liked Imlie's reaction to hearing Malini say Adi has started to like her. Her dispassionate "thank you" was a clear indication of where her mind is at. She has no expectations whatsoever of Adi, so his gestures aren't really having a strong impact on her (yet). I hope she remains that way cos then nobody can accuse her of leading Adi on. If he wants to care for her and pile up the sweet gestures, that's on him entirely and he'd be doing that without any intentional influence from Imlie's side.


Noone can deny that Malini is a sweet and kindhearted person. Imlie should rightly feel guilty at this stage for sure especially when receiving such overflowing sisterly love from Malini. This burden of sisterhood already weighs heavy on Imlie's heart let alone when she actually finds out that Malini is her real sister. However, I don't agree with the view that she's feeling guilty because she was thinking of what could happen between her and Adi in the distant future. She was simply feeling guilty about keep the secret of their marriage from Malini and was worried that once that truth is revealed, Malini would never forgive her.


In a way it foreshadowed what Malini's reaction will be. This is why I think it would make total sense for the writers to give a different shade to Malini's character and make her get taken in by her mum's words. She can't just keep smiling away everything. She should get angry and feel betrayed and who knows...even do everything in her power to keep Adilie apart even though their own sense of guilt would be enough to do that. I don't mind if she makes their lives hell but then ofcourse eventually she should come back to herself and realise that she can't keep forcing herself to remain in a loveless marriage the way her mum did. I think this is the only way they won't taint Adilie is the eyes of the audience. Keeping Malini consistently selfless and sacrificing towards Adilie would just be unrealistic and annoying.


*sigh* But that's thinking very far into the future. Right now, I'll just enjoy the authentic beautiful way the writers are fleshing out Adilie. ❀️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Happysoul17

@Red - Imlie is his first wife then Malini came second in the position,just because Adi doesn't consider Imlie as his wife cannot alter the truth that marriage never took place in pagdandiya. Adi is in denial mode but truth is truth and Adi clearly knows that. About the rights, again it's imlie who has the first right over Adi not Malini.


Green- Aur rahi baat shadi ki then, Aditya revealed the truth to Malini but that fragile glass doll fainted due to shock. Adi ne Malini ki jaan bachane ke life shadi ki na ki haq dilwane ke liye.


Yellow- It's her own pati and she considers him as his husband. Not snatching away someone else's husband. Malini is the who considers Adi as her husband but jabki sach yeh hai woh uske choti behen ka pati hai.


Bold- In which basis you are comparing Adilie to kundini?? Is Imlie married to some other guy and romancing with Adi?? Unknown to the truth, Malini is the second woman in Adi's life and holding that sindoor as her first haq.


Completely agree!! πŸ‘πŸΌ Couldn't have said it better!! πŸ˜›

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kaede


Usne shaadi bas ego satisfy karne ke liye, jab aql khuli to Imlie peeche hat gaye. Adi is not her husband till he accepts that he married her. Ek fan ne legal analysis kiya tha is plot ka Facebook pe. Adilie marriage is not legal till both parties accept this. Imlie accept this but adi doesn't. Till he says from heart she is my wife they are not legally married. Musicmuse is not totally wrong.


I don't think that is correct at all!! There are so many marriages, especially in our culture, where ppl get married because their parents want them to, are forced into it or because of special circumstances. Does that mean they are not really married? Of course they are! Just because someone doesn't accept someone from the heart at the time of the marriage or when the marriage rituals are being done, doesn't make the marriage invalid. They are definitley married.


In many cases (again especially in our culture) the husband or the wife or both fall in love after the marriage.


Just to give an example, in "hum dil de chuke sanam" then Aishwariya wasn't married to Ajay Devgan! πŸ˜› Well, they definitely were married!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Happysoul17

According to itv land....

Forced marriage= Legal marriage.

Shehra ke peech chup ke shadi= Legal marriage

Ghoongat ke peeche adla badli= Legal marriage

ML threaten to marry FL= Legal marriage



All kinds of marriages are legal when it comes to ML and FL of the show. Supporting character's "legally wedded wife" status is invalid and not applicable for ITV shows. So, according to that logic and theory, imlie is the legally wedded wife of Adi.


You are so right!! πŸ˜†

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayuri099


I don't think that is correct at all!! There are so many marriages, especially in our culture, where ppl get married because their parents want them to, are forced into it or because of special circumstances. Does that mean they are not really married? Of course they are! Just because someone doesn't accept someone from the heart at the time of the marriage or when the marriage rituals are being done, doesn't make the marriage invalid. They are definitley married.


In many cases (again especially in our culture) the husband or the wife or both fall in love after the marriage.


Just to give an example, in "hum dil de chuke sanam" then Aishwariya wasn't married to Ajay Devgan! πŸ˜› Well, they definitely were married!

Getting someone married under any kind of force especially holding them at physical threat aka gun point is completely illegal in the eyes of the law of our country. Any court if they find out the circumstances of the Said marriage will immediately dissolve it and take strict actions against the perpetrators. It's not something that is open to discussion. Its a written law.

What you're talking about is arranged marriage and I just couldn't believe my eyes that you just confused or compared arranged marriage with gun point marriage. It is like comparing loveless marital sex with rape, in one consent is present no matter how happy or unhappy and in the other it is being done to a person forcefully . Both are completely different to such a degree that there is no comparison.

Arrange marriage happens will full consent of both parties, even when one or other of the parties is / are unhappy. If force is applied ,it's null and void.

In fact , that is why in IK , Archie had to marry Baha again with full rituals in front of the society even after divorce with Moon ,to give Baha the acknowledgement of his wife because their 1st marriage is completely illegal.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicMuse

Getting someone married under any kind of force especially holding them at physical threat aka gun point is completely illegal in the eyes of the law of our country. Any court if they find out the circumstances of the Saif marriage will immediately dissolve it and take strict actions against the perpetrators. It's not something that is open to discussion. Its a written law.

What you're talking about is arranged marriage and I just couldn't believe my eyes that you just confused or compared arranged marriage with gun point marriage. It is like comparing loveless marital sex with rape, in one consent is present no matter how happy or unhappy and in the other it is being done to a person forcefully . Both are completely different to such a degree that there is no comparison.

Arrange marriage happens will full consent of both parties, even when one or other of the parties is / are unhappy. If force is applied ,it's null and void.

In fact , that is why in IK , Archie had to marry Baha again with full rituals in front of the society even after divorce with Moon ,to give Baha the acknowledgement of his wife because their 1st marriage is completely illegal.


What is a Saif marriage?


Haven't watched IK, so can't compare.


I was just saying sometimes ppl get married in extreme circumstances, then sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. Aditya didn't accept it's legal initially, at the same time, I don't think he could completely ignore it either. It does bother him, it did start to matter to him after the second pagdandiya visit with Imlie. He did say in the ambulance, you are my responsibility.


Anyway, let's not over analyze. It's a tv show at the end of the day. It's pointless to compare it to real life. I think we all know in real life also all sorts of things happen.


Let's keep it light! Again, it's just a tv show. πŸ˜›

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