Is Aditya's behavious JUSTIFIED? and why

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Is Aditya's behavious JUSTIFIED?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is Aditya's behavious JUSTIFIED?and why?


Is Aditya right to be so sad? he's lost his first love
BUT at the same time he should show this sadness to his wife? Its not Rajshri's fault...he should cheer up?😳

Even during the whole wedding he had pulled a face because of Mallika😕....wasn't this wrong of him as he should have thought of Rajshri?


is he wrong or right?😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think wat he did yesterday was right...its good that he has made it clear to her that he cant act like this....i dont say dat mallika is her first love..

the thing is he needs to get time...yesterays epi was better...he atleast speaks some words to her now...

n all the other ppl in the house r bllind or wat.....he is clearly showing all the sadness on his face n ppl r still teasing him with her...how dumb?

but seriosly i am just wating for their something to start....i badly wanna watch thier chem.....dunno when vil it be possible
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Posted: 15 years ago
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This is strictly my opinion:

Adi is wrong in the way he is behaving with Rajshri. He is being too nice to her already. He should have filed a divorce as soon as possible.

Adi should be angry with Rajshri. Where is it written that marry a dumped guy on his wedding day to make him come out of depression? I find Rajshri and all of the family members mentality to be very low. Adi got dumped by the the girl he likes. He went to shock, he became numb coz of this. In his this medically unfit stage Rajshri and his mom thought of their own desires and did this with him. Rajshri claims to love Adi and so married him knowing he likes another girl and doesn't even think of her in anyway. Which girl does that? And then she imagines Adi talking all romantically on their wedding night and blushes about honeymoon and this nightgown! How shallow can a person be? And how shallow does she think Adi is? Unlike her, Adi has real emotions and he needs time to get over Mallika. I don't see what wrong Adi is doing in not behaving with her romantically? Rajshri married him coz of her selfish love for him. Adi didn't ask her to marry him and then ignore her like that!

His mom and his family really makes me feel sorry for him. All Adi needed was time, but no, his mom cares about Rajshri's love more than Adi's. Not only that, she expects Adi to give Rajshri wifely treatment. And so does all the family members. Again, how shallow can a person be?

Adi should behave worse with Rajshri and his mom, family. He is being really polite as of now. I had hopes that someday the family and Rajshri would apologise to Adi for doing such a wrong thing with him, but I don't see that coming. So, I have even stopped watching the show now. The creatives are bent on justifying all these wrongdoings coz Rajshri is the bhartiya nari lead. How can anyone justify something like this if they were in place of Adi's?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with Melissa

Adi was in shock so he was not aware of what was happening when he married her so it's not his fault he's not being all lovey-dovey he just got dumped on his wedding day by the girl he loved and we expect him to get over that within a week. If that happened to anyone, it would take many months to get over, let alone think about another marriage. I would have been so angry with my family if i was Adi.
Rajshiri was aware Adi was in love with some1 else and in shock when the marriage took place so she shouldn't expect him to be romantic
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think he needs time...but now that it has happened,....he ought to be nice to her...after all she is soo sweet.....:)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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NO= He should think abt his wife Rajshri and stop being mean
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Posted: 15 years ago
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he is wrong in evey way ok i agree on wedding he was sad on 1 night he was sad but this is the limit up there i agree with him but y now too he is doing all this crap he is not reasecting his wife he should think a rajshree type girl leaving her shyness talkking to him trying to make him cheer the girl who havent talked to him so nicely without is talking to him only to make him happy now u all were thinking that rajshree loves him that's y she is doing all this i agree that rajshree loves him but she is a shy girl any girl needs time to mingle up with there husband that to if he starts the convo etc. but here our rajshree everything. manything i want to tell but its long enough what u guys say?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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he defo needs time.. but its good hes not behavin rudely wid her coz i think he undertands that wateva happened isnt rajshris fault.. so there is no reason to blame her
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think both of them should cheer each other up
rajshree is doing her best, adi should at least giver her chance
he should start relationship with her. take baby step, you get to know
each other and become friends.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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agree with Melissa.

Loved what you wrote...I mean, you just got 'left at the altar'...and instead of being given time and space to get over it, he got pushed into marriage with someone he couldn't even remember her name?

And yeh, he's being very polite. He told her not to expect anything, he never yelled at her, laid down everything in front of her. It is her fault for imagining all the lovey dovey stuff.

Girly...calm down. And the family members too man! I mean, esp after the wedding night, Anu is like "you didn't sleep on the same bed?"....like come on!!

Adi is not being rude, it is the family members, including Rajshree, who are being immature and very naive.
Give him time to get over it.

I know most of us just want to see their chemistry...and even i cannot wait for that, but it needs to look realistic.
Can't just be like "oh we're married now, so lets all pretend it's all ok"...

and they had to end up together...because well, whole point of serial. and i also understand Anu's p.o.v that once he's given responsibility, he's going to have to come out of his depression, and she knows Rajshree will honestly take care of Adi and love him. Because Adi needs love.
BUT...he needs space right now.
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