Me, We & TV - DT 017 - Page 93

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Anupama maine shuru shuru m continuous dekha tha for rupali nd vanraj ka behavior was tbh some realistic abuse. The gaslighting, the manipulation sab samajh aata tha to the limit ki mera khoon khaulta tha nd gussa bhi aata tha but uske baad jab revelation hua maine aur wo baar baar square one m aa jaa rahe the gol gol ghoom k fir maine chhod diya, also turning kavya fully negative pissed me off really bad

Anuj ka bolu to starting uske aane k baad achhi thi nd show became some bearable warna wahi square one p aa jaa rahe the par uske baad dheere dheere bakwas kar diya

Doli armaano ki ka was extreme, it was physical abuse but usne stand tabhi liya when he cheated on her. Anupama ka but if I think again 25 saal se she was enduring abuse nd there's something clear, if vanraj had not cheated on her, she would've never got her senses back as 25 saal ho gaye the, I think agar ye cheating ka angle exist hi nhi karta na nd Anupama khud k abuse ko hi apna last straw bana k bahar aati to would've been more appreciable

Haa i agree affair ke baad baar baar back to square one ho raha tha as vanraj baar baar positive to negative nd again negative to positive me swing ho ta tha toh cheeze repeatable lagri thi

Anuj ke entry ke baad mujhe bhi show thoda accha laga tha 1-2 weeks ke liye..... Anuj ki entry se pahle repetition ki wajah se maine bhi shiw dekhna chhod diya tha but anuj ke aane ke baad dekhna shuru kiya lekin woh anuj ka love confession hua uske baad again it become monotonous and boring

Ha agr cheating nhi hoti naa toh yeh continue hi rehta.... Yeh toh kuch bhi nhi maine kuch real life aise examples bhi dekhe hai ki evn cheating ke baad bhi aurate marriage continue karti hai woh mental/physical abuse sehne ke baad bhi

So for that particular group of woman anupamaa show is quite inspiring but again iss age me baad me anupamaa ka nibba lover wapas aana nd unki love story dikhana is quite unrealistic ..... Usse accha uske career ka kuch dikhate

Originally posted by: IamRaj96

@bold tbh u always says look change but here i disagree ..... For me whats more important is inner transformation woh bhi gradually not suddenly otherwise it becomes quite unrealistic

And yeh sab unhone dikhaya anupamaa me till anuj comes into her life..... Usko vanraj ke affair ke trauma se deal karne me tym lagaa then khud ke liye stand lene me aur tym laga .... 26yrs se woh aisi abla naari thi toh it was believable ki usko thoda tym lagaa inn cheezo me..... Then slowly woh apne career pe dhyaan deni lagi etc..... Yeh sab hone lagaa nd the anuj entry hui nd sabkuch kharab hua

Look ka kya hai jo jis clothes me comfortable ho wahi pahne..... Log kapdo se nhi apni soch se modern hote hai.... And anupamaa is lil bit modern (uski soch se) as she treats her DIL & daughter/sons equally, phir career pe dhyaan dene lagi etc

Haa woh bich bich me bhashan bhi deti hai but usko ignore karo

Anuj ki entry ke baad yeh sab cheeze back to square hogyi nd anupamaa ki life phir se bhashan dene aur anuj ki problems pe revolve hone lagi

Look change se mera matlab ye nahi hai ki vo saree chhodke mini skirt pehenna shuru karde. What i meant is ki there's nothing to new in her at all. Show will be completing 500 episodes and till now she has not even changed her hairstyle or even wearing a good saree. Tell me will you watch a Kdrama's businesswoman FL wearing night dress in her office. You will surely like to watch in stylish clothes that suits her rank and position right. Maine ye nahi kahaan that Anupama should turn 360° and go all glam like Ekta heroines post leap i am saying uske look mein kuch toh change karo after all 2 years hogaya hai and still now she is wearing those same type of sarees despite earning. I mean why dont they show her going to shopping and buying something for her own self.

Originally posted by: Neon9

Mukku completely ruined the show. Uski wajah se i had even stopped watching precaps. Har baat pe Mukku, har scene pe Mukku. I mean itna overdose bhi mat do ki audience dekhna chhodein. Vo toh iss waqt koi accha option hai hi nahi 10 pm pe issliye majboori mein log Anupama dekhte hai. Otherwise iss waqt agar Zee / Colors koi accha show le aata jisko fairly 1.9-2.1 milta toh aaj Anupama 4+ tak nahi laa pata. Ye Zee / Colors ko actually Anupama se compete karna hi nahi hai jis liye they are coming up with third class shows.

Mai toh bas uss mukku ki exit ka wait kar raha hu 😒😒

Aneri is known name jo lead roles karti hai so iam sure she is cameo only ..... Jab uska track over hoga tab woh wapas US chali jayegi nd uski exit hogi

Originally posted by: IamRaj96

Haa i agree affair ke baad baar baar back to square one ho raha tha as vanraj baar baar positive to negative nd again negative to positive me swing ho ta tha toh cheeze repeatable lagri thi

Anuj ke entry ke baad mujhe bhi show thoda accha laga tha 1-2 weeks ke liye..... Anuj ki entry se pahle repetition ki wajah se maine bhi shiw dekhna chhod diya tha but anuj ke aane ke baad dekhna shuru kiya lekin woh anuj ka love confession hua uske baad again it become monotonous and boring

Ha agr cheating nhi hoti naa toh yeh continue hi rehta.... Yeh toh kuch bhi nhi maine kuch real life aise examples bhi dekhe hai ki evn cheating ke baad bhi aurate marriage continue karti hai woh mental/physical abuse sehne ke baad bhi

So for that particular group of woman anupamaa show is quite inspiring but again iss age me baad me anupamaa ka nibba lover wapas aana nd unki love story dikhana is quite unrealistic ..... Usse accha uske career ka kuch dikhate

It's true that there are many many people jo abuse recognize kar hi nhi paati nd lifetime wahi reh Jaati h. I think anupama is a classic example of grooming and the impact it creates. Anupama was married at the tender age of 18 when she was a young tenager nd she was conditioned by her in laws to behave a certain way with her husband nd be nothing but a child bearer which is why she ended up taking the stand for the abuser multiple times throughout her life. Uske progressive thoughts jo the they got subconsciously embroided into her psyche which she tried immersing into samar atleast. Anuj k sath uska love story actually started in a realistic way(except that he was in love with her for 25 years) but ab 15 saal k nibba-nibbi ban gaye. I think it should've been a limited series of not more than 150 episodes jisme wo uski journey bina hame frustrate kare complete karte. But the saas bahu drama nd double standards(I mean they want anupama to be progressive but just on their own terms, kavya was ridiculed multiple times for wanting a maid to work nd parivar jod nhi paayi nd all, in short they are defining a woman on what is the limit of progressiveness in a woman)

Let me give you an example. My mom is a housewife and till one time she didnt use to like dressing or wearing makeup jewellery anything. But once we shifted to our first home now she always like to keep herself maintained and look good. Ye chize apne aap mein hi aane lagti hai. This is change i am talking about. Now Anupama is single woman so atleast wear good clothes and dress up well inspire other ladies of your age make them feel comfortable in wearing what they like so that they could say Anupama ye pehen sakti hai toh mai kyun nahi. Humesha dusro ki life mein ghusne taang aarane se accha khudpe dhyaan de.

Originally posted by: Neon9

Look change se mera matlab ye nahi hai ki vo saree chhodke mini skirt pehenna shuru karde. What i meant is ki there's nothing to new in her at all. Show will be completing 500 episodes and till now she has not even changed her hairstyle or even wearing a good saree. Tell me will you watch a Kdrama's businesswoman FL wearing night dress in her office. You will surely like to watch in stylish clothes that suits her rank and position right. Maine ye nahi kahaan that Anupama should turn 360° and go all glam like Ekta heroines post leap i am saying uske look mein kuch toh change karo after all 2 years hogaya hai and still now she is wearing those same type of sarees despite earning. I mean why dont they show her going to shopping and buying something for her own self.

Yes iknw tum miniskirt nd all ki baat nhi kar rahe but dresses ki baat kar rahe ho

Agr koi 20-30's ki heroine hoti toh i agree for look change but 45's ki kaafi saari middle class women saree hi pehnti hai .... Plus she is not evn that big business women jo corporate look le le.... India me office jaane wali aurate bhi saree pehnti hai

Kdramas korea me hote hai.... Korea ki lifestyle alag hai udhar sab offices me waise hi kapde pehnte hai but india alag hai.... Haa india me bhi office me kaafi women modern kapde pahnte hai but kaafi saari middle class aurate aisi bhi hoti hai jo sarees me hi office ko jaati hai

Right now mujhe anupamaa me uske look se problem nhi hai..... Mujhe agr usse kuch problem hai toh woh 3 cheezo se

1. Faltu me bhashanbaazi

2. Har ek ke maamle me taang adana

3. Her nibba nibbi type love story

Agr sirf yeh 3 cheeze woh kam kar de naa toh show kafi hadh tak bearable ho ho jayega

Originally posted by: aastha12345

It's true that there are many many people jo abuse recognize kar hi nhi paati nd lifetime wahi reh Jaati h. I think anupama is a classic example of grooming and the impact it creates. Anupama was married at the tender age of 18 when she was a young tenager nd she was conditioned by her in laws to behave a certain way with her husband nd be nothing but a child bearer which is why she ended up taking the stand for the abuser multiple times throughout her life. Uske progressive thoughts jo the they got subconsciously embroided into her psyche which she tried immersing into samar atleast. Anuj k sath uska love story actually started in a realistic way(except that he was in love with her for 25 years) but ab 15 saal k nibba-nibbi ban gaye. I think it should've been a limited series of not more than 150 episodes jisme wo uski journey bina hame frustrate kare complete karte. But the saas bahu drama nd double standards(I mean they want anupama to be progressive but just on their own terms, kavya was ridiculed multiple times for wanting a maid to work nd parivar jod nhi paayi nd all)

@bold yahi hona chahiye tha..... Yeh drag karne ki wajah se unko unka core concept baar baar rpt karna padd raha hai ..... As otherwise dikhane ke liye kuch bachta hi nhi unke paas

Originally posted by: Neon9

Let me give you an example. My mom is a housewife and till one time she didnt use to like dressing or wearing makeup jewellery anything. But once we shifted to our first home now she always like to keep herself maintained and look good. Ye chize apne aap mein hi aane lagti hai. This is change i am talking about. Now Anupama is single woman so atleast wear good clothes and dress up well inspire other ladies of your age make them feel comfortable in wearing what they like so that they could say Anupama ye pehen sakti hai toh mai kyun nahi. Humesha dusro ki life mein ghusne taang aarane se accha khudpe dhyaan de.

Tbh mujhe jo mid aged protagoinists hote hai unke look se kuch problem nhi rehta.... Its upto them ki kya pehen na hai & kya nhi as they are from old generation so unki thought process nd sabkuch alag rehta hai humse

But agr 20-30's ke protagoinist aise unke generation se alag old generation ka look le toh mujhe problem hoti hai like how bengali makers shows their Rural side FL always wears gawaaro jesi saree and do chotiyaan 🤢🤢

Styling & look change ki baat kare toh anupamaa se jada tv ki all other heroines needs makeover (i think except gungun & fanaa ki pakhi🙄🙄)

Anupamaa still middle aged lady hai toh woh homemaker jesi dikhti hai (bhale hi abhi job karti ho)

Originally posted by: IamRaj96

Styling & look change ki baat kare toh anupamaa se jada tv ki all other heroines needs makeover (i think except gungun & fanaa ki pakhi🙄🙄)

Add Kamya and Akshara too in Gungun Pakhi list.