My POV about the Dadi's

i have read all your comments and here is my POV... i have yet to see the epis for this week ... i am just trying to understand situations and both the dadi's ...

when SD came to Ishu's house to ask Mahi's hand in marriage, SD was not aware that it was Ishu's house or Mahi was Ishu's elder sister/ cousin... and plus SD went to ask Mahi's hand in marriage for Sahil when she saw Sahil was all broken because of Ishu's behavior ... SD was not aware that Sahil and Ishu had patched up... as we have seen SD wants a good DIl... SD does not mind if the DIL has her own career... SD is ready to support the DIL's career ... SD does hates lies and which is right ... Ishu could have postponed the meeting with SD and not lied about it... first impressions take long to wipe off...

about Mahi and Ishu's dadi... we saw that when the proposal had come for Mahi, the boy liked Ishu... so therefore when SD came with the proposal, Mahi's dadi did want Ishu to go out there as she must have thought they will like Ishu... SD was very clear why she liked Mahi, still Mahi's Dadi was insecure which i felt was natural... Mahi's dadi loves both her granddaughters but she loves Mahi a little more and is worried for her...

Ishu has been hiding about her work from family as they will not approve of it and will stop her... DM is of no use as a mother... but probably it would have helped if dadi would have shown little understanding to Ishu... Ishu has to understand that life is not all about game... the path she has taken she will be hurting many and finally she may get hurt badly... there is no one there to guide Ishu...

cv's did create misunderstanding as we know they do it to create dramas... but when the truth is out like many of you i feel both Sahil and Ishu should have come out clean... as i mentioned i have yet to watch the epis and so cannot comment more on the reactions

beautiful analysis dii..

Ishu wud have been a better person if Mahi's mom was alive instead of that DM...
i think this may be a reason why dadi cares Mahi more.. Mahi had lost both her dad n mom.

me too want dadi to show more concern to Ishu just as Mahi... she need to understand and know her more.. this might bring Ishu to the right path.

'DM is of no use as a mother'...LOL this just cracked me up😆

nice analysis raj, agree with most of your points.

I still have one confusion though, maybe i missed as i couldn't watch the last two episodes completely, but is SD aware that the girl Sahil loves i.e. Ishu is the one who is Mahi's sister ??

Originally posted by: bellie

nice analysis raj, agree with most of your points.

I still have one confusion though, maybe i missed as i couldn't watch the last two episodes completely, but is SD aware that the girl Sahil loves i.e. Ishu is the one who is Mahi's sister ??

Raj...superb in-depth analysis...👏...i got to read after such a long time...

Originally posted by: Niv-RenBOND

No, dadi does not knw that ishu is mahi's sis n mahi also does not knw that sunny is sahil...

one thing that is troubling is CT's blunder😡...hw com ishu is holding mahi responsible ... she never told mahi that sunny is sahil only...she didnt even show his pic to mahi...

anyways... i m waiting for the coming epis to see hw this blame game comes to an end...

Thanks for letting me know😊

For the other thing though, i don't think it is CT's blunder, it is very much in the character of Ishu to behave like that.

@bellie .. i agree it is very much in the character of Ishu... i have not seen the epis when the girls were young... but what i have read Ishu loved Mahi till the time probably DM poisoned her mind... i have seen the week before the leap... i found that Ishu is a person who has a depth to her thinking... but over the years that is lost somewhere ... that Ishu needs to come out and that can be only with someone's help. ...

@KM thanks 😳

Raj,very nice post ...agree with you, looks like suspicion and playing every incident as Haar Jeet is inherent in Ishu's character..

very good analysis Raj..u r right DM is just for the name sake for Ishu as mother..she only has one work to poise Ishu against Mahi otherwise she dont care much about her daughter..Ishu not thinking that its not Mahi's fault..she should have talked to Mahi straight away..but she did not n this made the situation more worst ..

@ sammy ... agree dadi should have taken a little more care of Ishu... yes dadi does love both her grandaughters ... as Resh said dadi was more concerned for Mahi or loves Mahhi more as Mahi lost her parents... but dadi should have also taken a little more care of Ishu especially knowing how DM is... or thinking the other way the negativity that DM bore in Ishu's young mind were carried to the adult stage and this dadi was never able to judge of Ishu's mind ...

@Deepti... yes when it comes to Mahi... it is haar jeet game for Ishu ... hope she and Sahil dont do something worng