Ishu is lying but for a reason

simran728

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Hi guys,

since last few weeks we have seen Ishu lying (many times) to save herself from others.

Like to her sister Mahi and Sahil and his Dadi too.

The reason in her mind is that she needs to have a career and others are not going to like her choice.

but question is how far will she go to get her career. Is it fair to corner her and not understand her?

I think Sahil does not mind her career but she is not trusting him hence did not tell him about a shoot when she has to meet Dadi.

So, I want to know your thoughts. Should Ishu still lie about career? Should she take Sahil's help? or should she quit her career??

Let's have fun since many people today have the same issue at home.

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vids08

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Good post Sims. Much needed one.

Ishu should say the truth. Let others adjust to her needs rather than she moulding herself to make others happy. By doing so she only ends up lying and hurting herself and her beloved.

I want to see trust between Sahil and Ishu. We know they love each other. If Ishu did not love Sahil, she would not have gone to meet Dadi in the first place or did today's stunt. She wants him to be a part of her life. But in this relastionship she needs space for her career as well. Its fair.

Sahil and Ishu should trash this career path completely before thinking about marraige.

Please CVS no Aina and no Uttaran. We do not want negativity, we want this very real issue to be addressed properly.

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simran728

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Posted: 12 years ago

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hi vids. very well said. i think Ishu should trust Sahil too.

I feel she is lonely and feels she is alone to fight it out. but that is not true.

in true love u do take each others support and i hope these 2 learn soon. otherwise world will come in between. and u know SD's Dadi is just waiting for a chance.

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vids08

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: simran728
hi vids. very well said. i think Ishu should trust Sahil too.

I feel she is lonely and feels she is alone to fight it out. but that is not true.

in true love u do take each others support and i hope these 2 learn soon. otherwise world will come in between. and u know SD's Dadi is just waiting for a chance.

So true. SD dadi had a perfect bahu in her mind much before she saw Ishu. The more murky Ishu- Sahil relation becomes, the more chances that she will fix the alliance.

trust and support. is the essence in all relationships. hope they see this through.

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gmann2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Good points Simi and Vids. I will share my POV little later, really getting frustrated with all people around Ishu, so quick to pass a judgement.

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Ginisha

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Great post Simi! Ishu should come clean with Sahil. As Vids said, Ishu obviously loves him, she should trust him and I believe, he wouldnt let her down!

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himabindu05

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Ishu is a very complex character...She has a steady moral compass..She knows the difference Between right and Wrong...Like most of us...But She is also a person with a Focus...Her Focus and Her Morals are at constant dispute..Thts why she doesnt really enjoy Lying to her Loved ones,,But she feels she is doin it becoz she doesnt have a choice...

Really a woman with her own mind... does feel that way Coz always she has to compromise..always she has to kill her dreams so that others can build theirs ...This is UNFAIR...

I can totally relate to Ishu...Coz sometimes i have to do certain things which i feel is right for me even when the whole world feels it is not..I would very much like to learn from my owm mistakes...

What I mean is U are Right...Ishu is lying for a reason Becoz Sahil.Dadi..Her mom everybody expects her to fulfill their dreams...She has almost forgotten What her dream is...She is still finding out who she is...I dont blame her One Bit...This Sahil is Suffocating her with his love😕Give her Some Space... Let her Breathe..Flex her wings...Once she strats her flight..make sure that U are her destination...Not before...

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vids08

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: himabindu05
Ishu is a very complex character...She has a steady moral compass..She knows the difference Between right and Wrong...Like most of us...But She is also a person with a Focus...Her Focus and Her Morals are at constant dispute..Thts why she doesnt really enjoy Lying to her Loved ones,,But she feels she is doin it becoz she doesnt have a choice...

Really a woman with her own mind... does feel that way Coz always she has to compromise..always she has to kill her dreams so that others can build theirs ...This is UNFAIR...

I can totally relate to Ishu...Coz sometimes i have to do certain things which i feel is right for me even when the whole world feels it is not..I would very much like to learn from my owm mistakes...

What I mean is U are Right...Ishu is lying for a reason Becoz Sahil.Dadi..Her mom everybody expects her to fulfill their dreams...She has almost forgotten What her dream is...She is still finding out who she is...I dont blame her One Bit...This Sahil is Suffocating her with his love😕Give her Some Space... Let her Breathe..Flex her wings...Once she strats her flight..make sure that U are her destination...Not before...

Brilliant post 👏👏👏

Totally agree with you. Ishu is lying to "Fit in". thats why I said, say the truth, let others adjust their lives around Ishu. Ishu will then know who is truly her partner. She has to trust her own judgement and give a damn if others are offended. I agree she has to walk alone, fall and pick herself. I think the story is going that way.😊

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sammy_2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: himabindu05
Ishu is a very complex character...She has a steady moral compass..She knows the difference Between right and Wrong...Like most of us...But She is also a person with a Focus...Her Focus and Her Morals are at constant dispute..Thts why she doesnt really enjoy Lying to her Loved ones,,But she feels she is doin it becoz she doesnt have a choice...

Really a woman with her own mind... does feel that way Coz always she has to compromise..always she has to kill her dreams so that others can build theirs ...This is UNFAIR...

I can totally relate to Ishu...Coz sometimes i have to do certain things which i feel is right for me even when the whole world feels it is not..I would very much like to learn from my owm mistakes...

What I mean is U are Right...Ishu is lying for a reason Becoz Sahil.Dadi..Her mom everybody expects her to fulfill their dreams...She has almost forgotten What her dream is...She is still finding out who she is...I dont blame her One Bit...This Sahil is Suffocating her with his love😕Give her Some Space... Let her Breathe..Flex her wings...Once she strats her flight..make sure that U are her destination...Not before...

himabindu. very beautiful analysis of Ishu's character.👏

rightly said, she needs space and time .. she needs freedom to achieve what she wants in her life... and she needs someone to understand her.. Hope that person is Sahil..

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Namita

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@Himabindu, brilliant character analysis of Ishu! Rightly said she has the need to fit in and she thinks people will only love when she is successful. What to expect of a girl who was made to work like an adult all her childhood and not allowed to be a child.
But lying at any cost is never healthy! To protect just 1 lie you have to tell many more. Ishu should trust Sahil, she does love him, hence the antics!!!

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