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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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😉Hey Gals,

Ok so , PB says to gulaal that if u become a widow at young age ur required or suppose to marry ur dewar .....forget gulaal for sometime ,

1. What if the dewar is already married ??

2. What if there is no dewar ??

can someone answer this for me please😳

thanks

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J

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_KAYNAAT_

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Posted: 13 years ago

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In both these circumstances as u say she will lead lyf of a widow and need not marry neone..marrying a devar is not a compulsion i guess...but yes dis sort of marriage will help the widow overcome her past and b in her matrimonial house as well and hav a nyc future...

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maaneet2010

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: JustJ
😉Hey Gals,

Ok so , PB says to gulaal that if u become a widow at young age ur required or suppose to marry ur dewar .....forget gulaal for sometime ,

1. What if the dewar is already married ??

2. What if there is no dewar ??

can someone answer this for me please😳

thanks

Love

J

Good Question 😛 .... thinking cap ON..............(scratching head 😆)

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Simi.Sweet

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Posted: 13 years ago

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thinking..............lol gr8 quest

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anu_jha

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: JustJ
😉Hey Gals,

Ok so , PB says to gulaal that if u become a widow at young age ur required or suppose to marry ur dewar .....forget gulaal for sometime ,

1. What if the dewar is already married ??

2. What if there is no dewar ??

can someone answer this for me please😳

thanks

Love

J

in these kind of villages people live in tolas, which means they r descendant of same person and thus shares the same gotra and hence they r all considered as brothers and sisters. so, i think, in this case, the girl can be married to the boy who is the closest cousin of the deceased.

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prncz

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Posted: 13 years ago

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the main reason .i think this tradition was a kind of social security .... for women

the widow would be taken for ride in the samaj.. if alone ---

so the family gets her married family name continues and she is not facing any difficulties @that time remember girls were not edu or wrking or were acquainted with outside world :)

cheers , hope i have not offended any one ...my thgts

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kajal

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Posted: 13 years ago

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well if there is not devar or he is already married then the woman would stay a widow. or maybe they would get her married to someone else. the reason they do it in the family because it is easy for everyone to adjust to the situtaion.

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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Hmm thanks for lovely answers gals 🤗

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