Originally posted by: Yuvika_15
I am probably the only one here that does NOT understand suman's promise to kalawati. there is an answer to every point kalawati has pointed out to suman.
it is not entirely suman's fault that kalawati didn't teach her daughters anything. sanjana was never interested in household chores, but antara claims to have always felt bad for suman so why not do something about it? learn the household chores and do them with suman so you can help her out.
with regards to kalawati allowing suman to study and work, its obvious, there was no other way for them to survive financially after ravi's sudden demise. Kalawati would never work, her daughters were of no use either and veer was far too small...so the only way they could feed themselves was for suman to work - hence the parlour and then further studies was to increase the financial status so the daughters could marry into wealthy families. so whatever kalawati did was for her own benefit.
what suman is doing is near to impossible... she has no life its all responsibilities, duties...whether that is as a mother, a daughter in law or as a wife... like girl chill out and learn to give yourself some "me" time just like your sister in laws do. I honestly don't see why kalawati can't bring up veer - she's not that old that she can't raise a kid. if she'd spend less time day dreaming and more time focussing on her household chores I'm sure she'll find she can manage it all. but she just wants the easy way out.
When I said I understand the promise to Kalawati, I didn't mean I agree with it but I understood it as in the way Suman has been written so far. Too mahaan and submissive with Kalawati and that family (thats why I used to love Suman-Ranveer interactions or her interactions with people in college...we saw a fire within her and her speaking up for herself).
Thinking about those other useless two girls makes my blood boil tbh, never lifted 1 finger to help Suman in their own houses in a poorer situation much less now and honestly its Sumans fault for letting them walk all over her, on this I dont feel sorry for her (altho Antara is trying now atleast). They don't even seem to care about their own mother now they moved out.
Back to the Kalawati-Suman thing...you're right that all that stuff Kalawati 'allowed' Suman to do was for Kalawatis own benefit but Kalawati has always made it seem to Suman like she was doing her an ehsaan so Suman feels indebted to Kalawati for her 'freedom' even though Suman has done far too much for that family that she paid off any debt 10 lifetimes ago bit thats the problem of being a widow in a regressive society...I guess Suman is just thankful that she wasnt sent to a widow shelter or kicked out so she will always mostly bow down to Kalawatis illogical promises.
Also I wish they would reduce Kalawati complaining about her 'situation' and dreaming about Mittal Mansion screentime (its repetitive and adds nothing to the episodes apart from making me quit)...ur rite about Kalawati being able to take care of Veer but thats if she wanted to but she clearly doesnt want to. It makes Sumans life easier and thats clearly something Kalawati doesnt actively want to happen... such an ungrateful woman (i really hate her). Also she wants and loves Veer as long as she doesn't have to put effort into his upbringing...let Suman do all the hard work.
Even the 'positive' characters annoy me...they're all actively making Sumans life harder whether its accidentally or thru inaction (antara her whole life has barely lifted a finger to help Suman).
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