Destruction: my point of view

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi guys I don't watch this show too often since I am at work most of the time but off late I have been catching the repeats at night... From what I observed and understood is that it's neither Gunjans fault not is it geets... Let me explain why

Gunjans view

Gunjan has screwed up tremendously in the past from what I know off and she is a bit like her mother no doubt in that... But being possessiv about a spouse is a normal act infact if this was all real then any wife would be all ninja on her husband to hang around continuously another woman or her daughter especially if she can't conceive that's even worse.../ gunjan is annoyed with that and has every right to be ever wife in the world wants her husband to be this warm with her children and family seeing deepu only reminds her off how she can't have that and that's just sad... For anybody


Geeta view

Well for one she has a blood sucking scary mother in law even more freeky that bansudi so yeah I feel bad for that poor thing she is only trying to hold herself for her daughter deepu who is a child and is very young to understand.. Her father died and a young age and suddenly she sees ranvi as a father figure in her eyes she is not going to understand relationship dynamics even if she tried she is too small... that's probably how geet sees this whole thing it's complicated for a single mother

the one to be blamed in all this is ranvi and veera bother brother and sister and complicating situations for the whole family... Ranvi being the adult all he wants to do is care for deepu which is fine but what about gunjan he is aware of the whole thing can't he be a bit more sensitive towards her like some off the members in the forum suggested that why not adoption it's a good idea and it's actually the right thing to do since ranvi and veera bothe believe in doing the right thing always... Veera likes to complate matters as well like for instance she didn't need to fight with Valdez over talking to rahul over the marriage have a little faith in your husband and trust him

The falling down incident in yesterday's episode was a also too much gunjan was right when she said that deepu should get use to rahul agreed she got excited and fell sseing him it should have been ranvi going and getting the doctor and rahul staying with deepu in the room he should have not done what he wanted and thought for a second hey i have to be careful

Frankly from what I see it ranvi and veera like to only complicate matters ranvi wants to only care for deepu omitting the world around him unable to see gunjans misery only passifying her with short hugs and lame speeches snd things like that not able to implement on the real stuff and veera supporting him is what's making him do that and that's her downfall as well because she has no faith in baldev or his choices it waa him who said that I know my sister is over reacting but they need to work it out it was him who said Rahul seems like a nice guy and he is veera needs to let go off being the centre and actually give her brother a bit off a dose of reality and also give her husband about off more support without crying continuously


The brother an sister are the downfall off their own world

That's all I have to say... Sorry if no one agrees to me on this its only my pony of view i Wouk love to hear other people's take. Even if they are different from my view there cAn be several perspectives to one point each have their own interesting way off seeing it


Ps sorry for all the grammar and spelling errors this auto thing on my phone screws me up every time

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Posted: 9 years ago
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That is true. But Gunjan has to trust her husband. Ranvi never looked upon Geet in that way. More than Geet, it is Deepu who is coming between them.

She is such an annoying kid.
Edited by sharoon3210 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ya ya, Veera is to blame for everything, isn't it? so easy to blame her and not even analyzing Baldev's acitons a bit. He is ust so perfect and makes no mistakes, because is he is so handomse and has a sex appeal!
What nonse is this? (I have nothing against hte actor. Infact, I find him cute, but the character is what annoys me.)

He ven managed to threaten Ranvi that Veera can in Gunjan's position and the same thing can happen to her. I mean what kind of nouns is that? So, Vera should make him the centre of her attention but he can caste her away when he wishes? As much as he sympathizes withGunjan for her usffering and does whatever he can for her, he has not even managed to do half the things for Veera what Ranvi has quietly done for Gunjan. Did he forget the time when he tortured Veera? and she forgave him? What if Gunjan was in Veera's place and Ranvi has touted his wife? NOw give give whatever reasosn you have for that, but nobody even tried to understand Veera's perspective at that time. Ranvi did not migrate Veera's wedding issues into thier house even if Gunjan was supporting her brother. Why not blame Gunjan for that then?
So much hypocrisy!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The truth is that Ranvi is at same mental age as in pre-leap ... His brain wants and knows only one thing to do "Baby Sitting" ...

Rest of the things he do, he does according to other's instructions ...
He blindly does what others ask him to do ...

Geet asked him to take care of Gunjan -which he did , but his active brain cant stay away from Deepu ...

Manjeet asked him to come to Balwant house once , he did ...

etc etc etc
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Divyasn:

I agree! Ranvi is always acting like he is an immature child that needs to be guided constantly! His 4 Devi gang now only has 2, and even they are ineffective. It's like he can't make a decision on his own! He can't make his crazy wife get off his back, stop chasing random women to get married , and wrecking her brother's marriage! Just Control your wife Ranvi! He can't even do that!


Ranvi lives in his own alternative universe. He always did. Most of the time he fought Ratan for things to do with Veera even when it was not reasonable to do so! He is now obsessed with Deepu and just can't leave the kid alone and getting her and her mother more into strife. Yes Deepu seeks him out, but HE is the adult here. So he needs to understand where to draw the line. He can't be Deepu's Dad. Only the man who marries her Mother will be now. His own wife is pyscho over his closeness to this kid and he still keeps getting close to her? Ranvi and Gunjan should solve their own problems without wrecking other people's lives!
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Ya ya, Veera is to blame for everything, isn't it? so easy to blame her and not even analyzing Baldev's acitons a bit. He is ust so perfect and makes no mistakes, because is he is so handomse and has a sex appeal!
What nonse is this? (I have nothing against hte actor. Infact, I find him cute, but the character is what annoys me.)

He ven managed to threaten Ranvi that Veera can in Gunjan's position and the same thing can happen to her. I mean what kind of nouns is that? So, Vera should make him the centre of her attention but he can caste her away when he wishes? As much as he sympathizes withGunjan for her usffering and does whatever he can for her, he has not even managed to do half the things for Veera what Ranvi has quietly done for Gunjan. Did he forget the time when he tortured Veera? and she forgave him? What if Gunjan was in Veera's place and Ranvi has touted his wife? NOw give give whatever reasosn you have for that, but nobody even tried to understand Veera's perspective at that time. Ranvi did not migrate Veera's wedding issues into thier house even if Gunjan was supporting her brother. Why not blame Gunjan for that then?
So much hypocrisy!

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Because it is not gunjans fault!!!

Well yes she has screwed up badly in the past they all have man all four of them at some stage because that's just called being human yes baldev does take over her over powers her tortured her made a mess off her and he was wrong for that because that was completely sick beyond level but veera as well left no stone believing in what she saw not having faith that led to this and eventually after a long wait they got over it... He admits he is wrong

Gunjan has been a screw up since the leap her child character was just so good because she was more down to Earth things changed after that I am not saying she didn't screw up she is to blame for sure she is to blame for it all but athe this stage in the show what track the cvs are showing makes no sense deepu is a child relationship dynamics are hard for her but what excuse does ranvi have why can't he see how hard it is for gunjan and what do u think only gunjan is the one who is like today U pick up veera and put her in gunjans place put baldev in tanvis place and then make a thing saying veera can't have kids if baldev were to get close to another child would that not prick veera and hurt her?? The only difference between veera and gunjan is that veera would solve her problem quietly gunjan likes to make a mess that's wrong... My point is not to defend gunjan or veera or ranvi and Baldev my point is that any woman in gunjans place would be annoyed crossed and angry with her husband it is ranvi who should be careful he gives a feeling as if he is desperate for the child gunjan who can't have kids will obviously feel bad it's normal for that and that's why she blames Geet

Ranvi is the adult and ts time he behaves like one and get things straight he can not run away from the situation and put it in the child he needs to realise that not only for himself but also for deepu for her to accept another man as a father means he needs to give that man some space... If rahul is the new father the he needs go have space to ease into Geets and deepu a life and that would restore Balence in bothe gunjan and geet
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This marriage issue and Gunjan 's behaviour is unacceptable.
To begin with Ranvi should keep away from Deepu and Geet. he was in Geet's bedroom with Geet and Deepu. He behaves as if he is Deepu's father.
Gunjan is way out of line to decide that Geet should get married to anyone. She has brainwashed everyone to agree to get Geet married.

Geet is a fool to noy love Rahul. If she had said that she love him then she would have married him and get away from the evil Manjeet and psycho Gunjan and Baldev.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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They are making this show even worse by putting in frenzy tracks that are just simply disgusting.An idiotic way to end the show.😭😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Gunjan being jealous or insecure isn't wrong since Ranvi is completely insensitive
in dealing with this but the way Gunjan has handled it all is so psychotic and abnormal. The way she's dealt with this clearly shows the kind of classless and cheap not to mention selfish woman she truly is and how she's exactly like her mother. Infact she's worse than Bansuri because at least Bansuri cares about some people but here Gunjan is willing to mow down anyone who gets in her way including her own brother and sister in law.

You can blame Veera and say she should trust her husband and let him handle the Rahul thing but clearly the way Baldev and Gunjan have handled all this all shows that maybe Veera is right and that Baldev isn't fit to handle big decisions like these. I mean he and Gunjan are both willing to rush into things and force both Geet and any guy they picked up off the street into a marriage together just because Gunjan is jealous and Baldev also has threatened Veera because of his psycho sister when actually Veera for once hasn't done anything and what's worse is he seems to be aware of this yet is still threatening his wife for no reason. Both brother and sister, Gunjan and Baldev seem psychotic and obsessed beyond limits right now. Say what you want about Veera and Ranvi (and believe me I'm not the biggest fan of them) but right now they're looking like the better two and GunDev look like an obsessed pair of losers who have lost it.

I've always been Team Baldev and hated Veera for what she'd do but right now I can't even blame Veera for not having enough faith in Baldev to think he'd be able to handle the Rahul situation alone because if I'm honest I wouldn't trust him with anything right now never mind making actual big decisions that affect people's lives. Quite frankly him and his sister shouldn't be allowed to do anything right now. For the first time ever, I'm actually finding myself questioning whether VeeBa would actually be better off having mahaan Veera handle all the big decisions and wear the trowsers in the relationship and do the thinking whilst Baldev sits back and does nothing because Baldev clearly has shown he isn't capable and whilst Veera can be annoying at times at least she has her own mind and tries to thinks things through and doesn't rush into things. She might not always make the right decision and does make mistakes but she wouldn't force people into things and ruin lives and be completely unfair and not care and go psycho if things don't go her way. She's stubborn and can have a big ego and her mahanta can be annoying but right now she does seem like the more mature and better option.
Edited by Maria_Shaukat_9 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamela01

This marriage issue and Gunjan 's behaviour is unacceptable.

To begin with Ranvi should keep away from Deepu and Geet. he was in Geet's bedroom with Geet and Deepu. He behaves as if he is Deepu's father.
Gunjan is way out of line to decide that Geet should get married to anyone. She has brainwashed everyone to agree to get Geet married.

Geet is a fool to noy love Rahul. If she had said that she love him then she would have married him and get away from the evil Manjeet and psycho Gunjan and Baldev.


@bold: That is true. Manjeet played a spoilsport by telling these to Rahul. Geet would have told that she loves him if Rahul had not given her Deepu's promise.


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