Gunjan is such a selfish idiot DT Note Pg 3 - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic

I think first of all veera needs to.learn how to approach and treat people.. She public ally screams and shouts at everyone like a boss.. She does that to baldev too and so many times till now... She never gives d opp person to even speak their words.. If she threw the food there was a reason to it... Plus how would gunjan even know that ranveera planned to keep d food and eat.. Did they tell her.. No.. Added to it veera shouted over d top collecting all d ppl who had come there and even ranvi scolded gunju and veera did nothing.. She may be sad at d moment but its her regular habit..she even bosses and shouts at baldev..

Frankly gunjan has also known ratan since childhood and she was her mother in law.. So its unfair to say that only veera is sad and others are not..
And if there is something kept in gunju closet then y does veera wanna go there and bring it nd also touch other things..
And yeah manjeet bansuri r playing a big game here.. To bring fight between d girls.. Hope both understand sooner and tackle manjeet..


I know Veera has been wrong at times and I'm the first person who'll admit that. She isn't perfect but here Gunjan was clearly selfish and wrong. Ratan is Veera's mother and though Gunjan too has known Ratan all her life, Ratan was Veera's mother. Big difference. Gunjan already has a mother. Knowing someone and being raised by them is very different. Like Gunjan was Ratan's friend's child and she was her neighbour and her bahu for a year but Veera was her child and was raised by her. Ratan cared for Gunjan a lot but RanVeera were her children and they have the most rights which is something everyone else except selfish Gunjan and Bansuri and Manjeet understand.

Gunjan just like Baldev has the right to be sad but she doesn't have the right to try block Veera out and be selfish and be cruel and say that she has more right on Ratan's things than her. Ratan was Veera's mother and a child always has more right.

She merely just touched the dupatta because it was her Beeji's. Her mother's and she's grieving and she talked about her memories of Ratan and that dupatta. She wasn't going to steal it was she? It was her mother's scarf and if the positions were turned then Veera wouldn't have said all that to Gunjan or shouted at her for touching it. She would have shown compassion. Gunjan is selfish and rather than comfort Veera like any normal person would do she got jealous and petty over a scarf and basically told her that she doesn't have right to Ratan's things anymore and isn't welcome here. Though it's Veera who has the most right since she was the daughter and was raised by Ratan as her child. A mother and child's bond always come first.

Manjeet and Bansuri are playing a big game but it's Gunjan who's playing into it and being petty and selfish. Ratan was Veera's mother so how dare she try to block her out now? Veera is grieving for her mother and Gunjan is petty enough to get jealous and petty with her over a scarf. Such a selfish and insensitive girl. Say what you want about Veera but if Gunjan was grieving for her mother then Veera would never be this insensitive or cruel. Gunjan's so selfish for being jealous and petty at a time like this. She's honestly so childish.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki36



I do kind of get where u r coming from, gunjan didn't throw the food away due to bad intentions and veera does have a habit of just shouting. Gunjan just followed orders as she probably thought the elders were just telling about the customs without any ill intention.

However the nastiness over the chunni and saying veera not to touch anything without her permission was wrong.

I'm waiting for her to bring up ratan not being her real mother and really want it overheard by baldev or ranvi


I don't blame Gunjan for throwing the food away because she didn't do it intentionally and I know Veera isn't perfect. She has a habit of being a know it all and thinking she knows everything and has made so many stupid decisions and mistakes but what Gunjan did over the dupatta was honestly so horrible and petty. This girl is grieving for her mother and rather than show compassion she basically says to her how she doesn't have a right to her mother's things anymore? Say what you want about Veera but you know if Gunjan was grieving for her mother Veera would never in a million years have done this. Veera's big headed but she isn't this downright cruel and selfish. And I'm seriously starting to doubt whether Gunjan is actually Baldev's sister because how can Baldev who puts even his biggest grudges aside in a crisis and shows compassion and helps everyone be related to that?!

I actually want Gunjan to say it and their rivaly to cross that boundry that's it's been treading for a year. Gunjan is horrible and a psycho to Veera sometimes and it all gets forgiven and forgotten and no one finds or says anything but once she crosses that boundry maybe something will be done? And maybe people will actually see Gunjan's true colours and Veera will actually give it back to her. Baldev ki samne tho Veera ka bara muh kulta hai but Gunjan ki samne kya ho jata hai Veera ko? Even when Veera's wrong she fights with Baldev but with Gunjan when she's actually in the right and Gunjan's in the wrong and being unfair, she doesn't open her mouth? Veera please use that mouth of yours to fight with and defend yourself against other people other than your poor husband.


Edited by Maria_Shaukat_9 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic



I havent lost it dear.. It's just my POV..ur thinking may b diff ... I have d right to keep mine...if u disagree its fine

I didn't get you... Gunjan might have done it unintentionally but here what the point is she didn't even regret after knowing the truth. That's unforgivable. Veera is not wrong in scolding her as it's the last food made by her mother and it's the last connection she had with her. So, any person will lose their control in that situation. Before saying something about V you just put yourself in her shoes. In the past, if V did anything wrong means it was just with Baldev and her behaviour was picture perfect with everyone else. Okay!!
And coming to that dupatta, I'm telling you even a worst enemy can't behave like this.. A daughter will have the first right on her mother's things not DIL. A daughter will have many memories associated with her mother's things. If G wants the authority of the house she should've waited for sometime nobody will take it away from her. The way she behaved with V is unbearable.You might be a fan of G but don't be so blinded. And don't forget that V has done a lot to save G's marriage in the past. No friend or SIL can do much more than that. Improve your mindset!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What reeti riwaz are you talking about, lady? Emotions and Feelings are the utmost and highest things in life. and no bakwas reeti riwaz comes even close to them..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@NV-ranjanholic: off late your posts have been thoughtful and unbiased. You may be putting your point of view forward, but today you are speaking like a true RanJan fan. Can you please tell me what more Veera has to do to prove that she is not an enemy of Gunjan? when the hell will she understand? she is a selfish girl who has no morale and ethics. You may argue for the sake of arguing, but back of your mind you too know she is completely wrong.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Veera screaming at Gunjan was not intentional. It was just a spontaneous reaction from her side. I'm sure each n everyone wud react the same way if u put yourself in Veera's place. Losing ur parent suddenly in a bomb blast and that too in front of ur eyes.. the shock itself can shake one's mental balance. No one could think straight in such a condition. I'm appalled to see ppl expecting Veera to talk softly in this situation. Gunjan has always been this self obsessed insecure woman whom Manjeet easily manipulated. She was acting like a prick in that whole chunni scene. She needs a soild blasting from someone very soon... and its high time now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dheeksha

What reeti riwaz are you talking about, lady? Emotions and Feelings are the utmost and highest things in life. and no bakwas reeti riwaz comes even close to them..

Exactly.. n then there was a time when gunjan herself had blasted Bansuri n Manjeet for following some old fashioned rituals.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: feck

@NV-ranjanholic: off late your posts have been thoughtful and unbiased. You may be putting your point of view forward, but today you are speaking like a true RanJan fan. Can you please tell me what more Veera has to do to prove that she is not an enemy of Gunjan? when the hell will she understand? she is a selfish girl who has no morale and ethics. You may argue for the sake of arguing, but back of your mind you too know she is completely wrong.


This is the problem with this forum.. No wonder I have stopped posting and commenting and many more ppl as well.. U need to understand everyone feels things differently.. Nothing is wrong or right in that... But yeah its wrong to be rg fan in this forum which is taken.. Ppl here talk as baldev fan and blame writers and rant which is absolutely OK.. Basically anything anyone talks which is not in favour of the majority of this forum is not accepted here...
BTW I never ever said gunjan is great.. She is crazy girl.. But I was trying to say what veera did was very wrong by screaming and shouting without thinking.. She may be sad but gunju is her bhabhi and older to her.. She should have thought once.. Anyways..I think its just better for this forum to stay deserted then coming here to say ur mind and get moral policed for values and ethics for a TV fictional show.. Thank u very much indeed
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic


This is the problem with this forum.. No wonder I have stopped posting and commenting and many more ppl as well.. U need to understand everyone feels things differently.. Nothing is wrong or right in that... But yeah its wrong to be rg fan in this forum which is taken.. Ppl here talk as baldev fan and blame writers and rant which is absolutely OK.. Basically anything anyone talks which is not in favour of the majority of this forum is not accepted here...
BTW I never ever said gunjan is great.. She is crazy girl.. But I was trying to say what veera did was very wrong by screaming and shouting without thinking.. She may be sad but gunju is her bhabhi and older to her.. She should have thought once.. Anyways..I think its just better for this forum to stay deserted then coming here to say ur mind and get moral policed for values and ethics for a TV fictional show.. Thank u very much indeed


You are right, the problem with this forum is people hardly understand the difference between having a difference of opinion and having a rivalry. No one is your rival here and no one ever criticized you for being a RanJan fan. You have a different point of view than me, it's fine. If you fell I have attacked you or criticised you then you are mistaken and if you admit Gunjan is a crazy girl, then for me that's it, because you also feel the same as I do. Given the mental status Veera was in, it might have been too much to expect a much polished behaviour from her. If I am not mistaken then Veera is the most bashed, criticised and hated character in this forum at least the posts of the members say so. You may feel offended, you may stop visiting the forum, you may do what ever you wish, but please read the last line of my post again, it's a request, you may go on and on and on, but I'll again say at the back of your mind, you too know, Gunjan was completely wrong.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Veera shouted at Gunjan. I accept that was not nice. But then she just saw her Mother get blown up in front of her, and she and her brother found ONE thing that gave them comfort. Their Mother's food. At a time like that, one is very emotional. So when she saw Gunjan throwing the food, Veera lost it and yelled. I probably would have done the same! Not saying Veera should yell, but Balwant was right. Neither Veera nor Ranvi is in the frame of mind where they are thinking of giving Gunjan her "Due respect". Stop being so precious Gunjan! Those people just lost their Mother! Can that pain be compared to anything else in life? They have literally been left orphaned. So they are in pain, and when the last thing left by their Mother was thrown by Gunjan, they both lost it. ALL for so called "rituals". Since when does Gunjan care so much for rituals?

Now Gunjan goes to the length of telling Veera not to "touch" anything in the house without HER permission? What is Veera, a servant? She is Ranvi's sister and Ratan's daughter! Ratan was her Mother! A daughter has rights to her Mother's things! No "Johnny come lately" Bhabi can tell her not to touch her Mother's things! Who does she think she is? I understand Gunjan lost her Mother in law and she loved her. I get that! I also love my Mother in law. If she died, I would grieve and be devastated. I also have a younger sister in law, who is now married. But I would understand that she is grieving her Mum, and wont be insensitive to her grief! (We all live in different houses, so we don't have the issues of "taking over the house"). Gunjan was again putting herself and HER feelings before that of Ranvi and Veera's loss. She seriously needs to grown up and stop being so selfish! Ranvi needs to deal to her, and so does Baldev! This is too much now!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago
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