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I am not liking the attitude of Ananya as shown in the last few episodes. Consider her behaviour with Dr. Dhruv. Whenever Dhruv gets angry with her, she acts as if Dhruv is at fault. She keeps on calling Dhruv as rude, arrogant, egoistic etc. It is true that Dhruv has lots of ego. But, we have to see whether Ananya has any right to criticize him. Just because we do not like somebody's attitude, we do not have right to tell him whatever we feel like. To give an example, suppose I come to know about the personal life of some of you (members of this forum). I feel that what you are doing is not right. Without you asking for my opinion I just go to you and start pointing fingers at you. Obviously you will not like it. After all I do not have authority to blame you. But if your parents say that you are wrong, then you may feel that they have right because they are your parents.
If Dhruv's mother blames Dhruv, then she has right. But who is Ananya to say anything? She has no relation with Dhruv.
Without any permission from Dhruv, Ananya entered the hospital and tried to interview Nikhil (though of course she did not know it was Nikhil). She even secretly got some information from Nikhil's computer. Isn't it wrong on her part? No matter how much ego Dhruv has, when he does not want the interview, then Ananya has no right to force the interview. How will any of you feel if somebody secretly enters your house even if you have told him not to? Obviously you will get angry. Likewise, Dhruv also had right to be angry. We also need to keep in mind that Dhruv treats those cases, which other doctors call as hopeless. To treat such complex cases, it is necessary to take utmost precautions. Strict rules have to be laid and those rules have to be followed. Therefore, Dr. Dhruv has framed some rules for his clinic, which he wants all to follow including his patients.
I have come across some people who have lots of ego when they learn just a few things extra. But Dr. Dhruv has ego when he really is one of the best doctors in the world. It does not justify ego. Nothing justifies ego. But having ego on something which we possess is far better than having ego on something which we do not have but claim to have.
Now, consider Ananya's behaviour with Nikhil. I am not blaming her for disliking Nikhil. Nikhil himself created that situation. He wanted Ananya to feel that he did not love Ananya. So we cannot blame Ananya for having the misunderstanding. But what I do blame Ananya for is that she does not want any ties with Nikhil but she does want Nikhil's money. She threw away mangalsutra. She does not even want to see Nikhil's face. But she has no hesitation in accepting property worth five billion rupees from him.
When Nikhil met Anuskha, then Ananya forcibly threw him out of the house. She insulted Nikhil. Ananya has no right to roam around Dr. Dhruv's hospital. When Dhruv asked her to get out, then she pointed fingers at him. Nikhil is Anushka's father. Dhruv has every authority to decide if he will allow Ananya to interview his patients or not. Even then if he is arrogant, then isn't it even more arrogance for Ananya to prevent Nikhil from meeting his own daughter? If Dhruv was wrong to ask Ananya to get out of the hospital, isn't Ananya even worse to hold Nikhil roughly and drag him out of the house when he just wanted to meet his daughter?
If Dhruv's mother blames Dhruv, then she has right. But who is Ananya to say anything? She has no relation with Dhruv.
Without any permission from Dhruv, Ananya entered the hospital and tried to interview Nikhil (though of course she did not know it was Nikhil). She even secretly got some information from Nikhil's computer. Isn't it wrong on her part? No matter how much ego Dhruv has, when he does not want the interview, then Ananya has no right to force the interview. How will any of you feel if somebody secretly enters your house even if you have told him not to? Obviously you will get angry. Likewise, Dhruv also had right to be angry. We also need to keep in mind that Dhruv treats those cases, which other doctors call as hopeless. To treat such complex cases, it is necessary to take utmost precautions. Strict rules have to be laid and those rules have to be followed. Therefore, Dr. Dhruv has framed some rules for his clinic, which he wants all to follow including his patients.
I have come across some people who have lots of ego when they learn just a few things extra. But Dr. Dhruv has ego when he really is one of the best doctors in the world. It does not justify ego. Nothing justifies ego. But having ego on something which we possess is far better than having ego on something which we do not have but claim to have.
Now, consider Ananya's behaviour with Nikhil. I am not blaming her for disliking Nikhil. Nikhil himself created that situation. He wanted Ananya to feel that he did not love Ananya. So we cannot blame Ananya for having the misunderstanding. But what I do blame Ananya for is that she does not want any ties with Nikhil but she does want Nikhil's money. She threw away mangalsutra. She does not even want to see Nikhil's face. But she has no hesitation in accepting property worth five billion rupees from him.
When Nikhil met Anuskha, then Ananya forcibly threw him out of the house. She insulted Nikhil. Ananya has no right to roam around Dr. Dhruv's hospital. When Dhruv asked her to get out, then she pointed fingers at him. Nikhil is Anushka's father. Dhruv has every authority to decide if he will allow Ananya to interview his patients or not. Even then if he is arrogant, then isn't it even more arrogance for Ananya to prevent Nikhil from meeting his own daughter? If Dhruv was wrong to ask Ananya to get out of the hospital, isn't Ananya even worse to hold Nikhil roughly and drag him out of the house when he just wanted to meet his daughter?
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