She brought this upon herself - Page 3

Originally posted by: coolpixie

Yes, what Shravan did was overboard, but I guess in a vindictive way, it was justified! and maybe I say that because this is a drama and not real life. Again in real life, nobody would go to this extent, but for the sake of dramatics and that eye to eye resolution, I'm kind of onboard! LOL. I think I'm very blood thirsty today (or revenge thirsty, should I say?).

And Shravan was ignoring her at first, remember? He was acting completely indifferent to her, but then sumo got all mad at him and accused him of running away and blah blah blah 😆 and the guy's already bruised ego (when suman says, whatever happened was no big deal) got bruised even more and he created a whole elaborate scheme to do what she did to him years ago, albeit unintentionally whereas his is intentional. I honestly like that he is so sly and uses his charm on a sort of superficial level at times to get what he wants, that makes him more real and imperfect. I think perfection is bit overrated and not achievable in real world, so his imperfection is all fine with me and I like those gray shades. Though, more than anything this was to get his point across that he will NOT forgive her because she simply wrote him a sorry note, if you watch the precap he makes it clear in that quiet way that a simple sorry note will not earn her forgiveness as it won't earn him forgiveness from her either. Was this harsh? Absolutely! Cruel? Debatable, especially because this is was an eye for eye! And why disregard what happens to people in their teen years? Why disregard his pain?! Shravan seemed like a sensitive kid back then, and as a sensitive person myself, sensitive people take such embarrassments and hurt very seriously and to the heart, especially when done by people close to us.

I think to understand Shravan's action, disregarding the whole dramatic effect, you have to look deeper than the surface and put yourself in his shoes. and yes, nobody would do this in real life. But, then how would the drama even move forward? If they did not even out their playing field, there would be no base to their relationship, as Shravan would remain indifferent to her and ignore her. and Shravan seems like the kind of guy that doesn't like confrontations, so it's obvious to me why he didn't yell at Suman and why instead this scheme came about. Again, I'm not saying it's not wrong, but I also find it sort of justifiable in a way. Though, I can completely see why you would not, everybody takes in different situations differently.

Originally posted by: PC00

I get it from a drama standpoint. They had to have a conflict.

"I honestly like that he is so sly and uses his charm on a sort of superficial level at times to get what he wants, that makes him more real and imperfect." - I have hardly known very few folks in reality, who are sly, and use a charm to get what they want, and they usually turn out to be very, very untrustworthy. I prefer grey shades too, but such people only think about themselves and will go to any extent to get what they want. They are passive-aggressive, vindictive, masterful manipulators.

Well in public that was a confrontation. In fact he seemed to be enjoying it. I get that they wanted high drama, but I think the confrontation should have been private.

Originally posted by: ilovemyself98

but der is diffrence when any1 insult at age of 16 & at age of 26.16 is age of immature teenager when any1 get influenced.tenager can do lot of mistake at school under peer pressure & in order to get attention.also fight at school is not serious as fight at grown up age.but at age of 26 taking revenge over school incident is really immature & low.it has been better if shravan wld have confronted somu privately but publicly insulting her at party too much that also with planning & plotting.ppl can forgive & forget humiliation at school age but as grown up it will be hard to forgive.

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I do agree with you. Yes it's a tough one and its hard to watch a girl be put down. But as he was narrating the past and asking everyone if they knew that he and Suman had been friends, the answer was very clear. In her memories we could see that she knew he was right. She never publicly acknowledged him. He said she used him, made him do her homework and he was a nerd. But now what has changed is that he is a successful, rich and eligible bachelor. So of course now she wants to know him, just like so many girl from Dehli to London do.

It was a tough one, but I am afraid this had to happen for Suman to realize the gravity of the issue from Shravan's side. But what exactly went down 10 years ago, other than her generally callous behavior is the question. What was the story of the "response by letter" than Shravan was referring to? Now that will make everything more clear to us! But I tend to agree with what you said. Suman sort of got her comeuppance. But Shravan's method's were still wrong!