Originally posted by: PC00
Maybe she wanted to apologize in person and he never showed up in 10 years. Why can't he give her the benefit of doubt?
I don't agree at all on how she brought this upon herself. What Shravan did today was extremely vindictive. Yes, you can be hurt, and react in anger in that instant, but his revenge is after 10 years. Almost like he was waiting for the moment to take revenge.
Whatever he wanted to say could have been said to her in private. You do that when you respect someone. Instead in private he was fake with her, and in public he was "honest". He is immature, egoistical, vindictive and extremely selfish. She was a immature kid. He is an adult. He needs to grow up. I'm a believer in tit for tat, but this was ridiculous.
Yes, what Shravan did was overboard, but I guess in a vindictive way, it was justified! and maybe I say that because this is a drama and not real life. Again in real life, nobody would go to this extent, but for the sake of dramatics and that eye to eye resolution, I'm kind of onboard! LOL. I think I'm very blood thirsty today (or revenge thirsty, should I say?).
And Shravan was ignoring her at first, remember? He was acting completely indifferent to her, but then sumo got all mad at him and accused him of running away and blah blah blah 😆 and the guy's already bruised ego (when suman says, whatever happened was no big deal) got bruised even more and he created a whole elaborate scheme to do what she did to him years ago, albeit unintentionally whereas his is intentional. I honestly like that he is so sly and uses his charm on a sort of superficial level at times to get what he wants, that makes him more real and imperfect. I think perfection is bit overrated and not achievable in real world, so his imperfection is all fine with me and I like those gray shades. Though, more than anything this was to get his point across that he will NOT forgive her because she simply wrote him a sorry note, if you watch the precap he makes it clear in that quiet way that a simple sorry note will not earn her forgiveness as it won't earn him forgiveness from her either. Was this harsh? Absolutely! Cruel? Debatable, especially because this is was an eye for eye! And why disregard what happens to people in their teen years? Why disregard his pain?! Shravan seemed like a sensitive kid back then, and as a sensitive person myself, sensitive people take such embarrassments and hurt very seriously and to the heart, especially when done by people close to us.
I think to understand Shravan's action, disregarding the whole dramatic effect, you have to look deeper than the surface and put yourself in his shoes. and yes, nobody would do this in real life. But, then how would the drama even move forward? If they did not even out their playing field, there would be no base to their relationship, as Shravan would remain indifferent to her and ignore her. and Shravan seems like the kind of guy that doesn't like confrontations, so it's obvious to me why he didn't yell at Suman and why instead this scheme came about. Again, I'm not saying it's not wrong, but I also find it sort of justifiable in a way. Though, I can completely see why you would not, everybody takes in different situations differently.
Edited by coolpixie - 8 years ago
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