Is Shravan really as content as he portrays himself to be?

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Posted: 8 years ago

For someone who has achieved so much in life.. Become a successful lawyer.. Graduated from an elite school.. Is a heartthrob to many young girls? A smooth talker who can impress any woman at the drop of a hat? Its a bit unnatural for him to be this hung over a childhood instance? I mean when so many good things happening to you that one instance should fade in comparison?

In comparison, Suman who is living with a family who doesnt really love or value her besides her Nanu and little cousin. Is not as successful? Has an average job. Looks more content compared to him.

It draws upon another question.. Do we already know who the stronger character is of the two?

You would think that as you grow older childhood memories start to fade away. You start to accept that people did what they did because they were naive. If everyone start to hold on to every little negative instance that occurred in their life. It would make for a frustrated world.

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Samridhi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes, he achieved all that, but there's more to life than your professional achievements. Girls who throw themselves at Shravan are interested in what is superficial - his money, his status & his good looks. But his heart yearns for something more deep, for someone - that is Suman. Why Suman? Because he still is very much his teenage self. Suman was the centre of his universe & the kind of connection/bond they had was something he will always hold special. He stayed back in India only for her. And when he realised, that she doesn't need him, he left. Yes the betrayal by Suman was deep & that has stung him to the point that he wants to show Suman that he has moved on, but yet doesn't want to let her move on. There is the bad, but the good moments he spent with her are still very much alive in his memory. He's not had that kind of connection with anyone else. Somewhere I am sure he knows that she didn't do everything intentionally or else he would not be able to successfully play all these games. He knows he affects her, but this time he doesn't want to take the first step. He wants her to do it.

I do agree with you that we shouldn't hold on to teenage heartbreaks etc. But you are also forgetting that a person's core psyche is developed in those days. People who go on to have psychological issues often cite childhood/teenage incidents that affected them. Why? Because you are sensitive when you are young & you are developing so things you see affect you & stay with you. The same way his love for Suman, her betrayal, his heartbreak has stayed with him.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: prc_fan1

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Yes, he achieved all that, but there's more to life than your professional achievements. Girls who throw themselves at Shravan are interested in what is superficial - his money, his status & his good looks. But his heart yearns for something more deep, for someone - that is Suman. Why Suman? Because he still is very much his teenage self. Suman was the centre of his universe & the kind of connection/bond they had was something he will always hold special. He stayed back in India only for her. And when he realised, that she doesn't need him, he left. Yes the betrayal by Suman was deep & that has stung him to the point that he wants to show Suman that he has moved on, but yet doesn't want to let her move on. There is the bad, but the good moments he spent with her are still very much alive in his memory. He's not had that kind of connection with anyone else. Somewhere I am sure he knows that she didn't do everything intentionally or else he would not be able to successfully play all these games. He knows he affects her, but this time he doesn't want to take the first step. He wants her to do it.</font>

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I do agree with you that we shouldn't hold on to teenage heartbreaks etc. But you are also forgetting that a person's core psyche is developed in those days. People who go on to have psychological issues often cite childhood/teenage incidents that affected them. Why? Because you are sensitive when you are young & you are developing so things you see affect you & stay with you. The same way his love for Suman, her betrayal, his heartbreak has stayed with him.</font>

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think Shravan refuses to forget what happened years ago because it impacted him deeply (more than Sumo) it became the defining moment if his life..that one incident pushed him to change considerably..in anger..A lot of good has happened to him since then..but he links it to have happened because of that incident and hence holds on to the bad memories..

And for him to think that something that had such a huge impact on him doesn't affect Sumo much (so he believes) is what irks him and makes him want to seek revenge..wrong as it completely is

He thinks he will feel better..feel more content if he makes Sumo go through what he did..but that's not how it works..

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: prc_fan1

Yes, he achieved all that, but there's more to life than your professional achievements. Girls who throw themselves at Shravan are interested in what is superficial - his money, his status & his good looks. But his heart yearns for something more deep, for someone - that is Suman. Why Suman? Because he still is very much his teenage self. Suman was the centre of his universe & the kind of connection/bond they had was something he will always hold special. He stayed back in India only for her. And when he realised, that she doesn't need him, he left. Yes the betrayal by Suman was deep & that has stung him to the point that he wants to show Suman that he has moved on, but yet doesn't want to let her move on. There is the bad, but the good moments he spent with her are still very much alive in his memory. He's not had that kind of connection with anyone else. Somewhere I am sure he knows that she didn't do everything intentionally or else he would not be able to successfully play all these games. He knows he affects her, but this time he doesn't want to take the first step. He wants her to do it.

I do agree with you that we shouldn't hold on to teenage heartbreaks etc. But you are also forgetting that a person's core psyche is developed in those days. People who go on to have psychological issues often cite childhood/teenage incidents that affected them. Why? Because you are sensitive when you are young & you are developing so things you see affect you & stay with you. The same way his love for Suman, her betrayal, his heartbreak has stayed with him.

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Posted: 8 years ago

@prc-fan1
You think he wants Sumo to make the first move? I think he just wants pay back for now ?
P.S I remember you from the ETR2 forum. You have great analysis skills. 👍🏼

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: SoreThumb
I think Shravan refuses to forget what happened years ago because it impacted him deeply (more than Sumo) it became the defining moment if his life..that one incident pushed him to change considerably..in anger..A lot of good has happened to him since then..but he links it to have happened because of that incident and hence holds on to the bad memories..
And for him to think that something that had such a huge impact on him doesn't affect Sumo much (so he believes) is what irks him and makes him want to seek revenge..wrong as it completely is
He thinks he will feel better..feel more content if he makes Sumo go through what he did..but that's not how it works..

Yes I think it does bother him that he had to suffer alone for something while Sumo remains indifferent and content. He wants her to be in pain with him.

Truly,
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf
@prc-fan1
You think he wants Sumo to make the first move? I think he just wants pay back for now ?
P.S I remember you from the ETR2 forum. You have great analysis skills. 👍🏼

I only made one post on the ETR2 forum during the first week of the show talking about how the show is not doing justice to the whole 1940s feel & I remember everyone pouncing on me. Never really watched the show after that (it didn't quite interest me)& commented on that forum. So maybe you're mistaking me for someone else?

I think he wants her to feel the hurt he felt, no doubt about that. But I also think he still craves for her acceptance thats why he changed himself & became the antithesis of what he was as a teenager. He changed for her, & because of her. And it irks him that she remains the same & did not at all change in all these years. Note that he doesn't make the first moves anymore, he makes her run after him, just like how he took the gift away when she said she didn't want it. He wants her to come for the party, but on his own terms. He can't let her go, but he will also keep her at a distance. The problem, though, is that the moment she accepts him & maybe even tells her that she loves him, he will not believe it because she rejected him so many times when they were younger & Shravan is hung up on that. Not only that, he still seems to be have that self-esteem issue still. He just hides it very well under all that he's achieved.

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Posted: 8 years ago

^No I was talking about that post only. I remember you posted an article about how 1940s was really suppose to be like.

And your analysis skills I judged from your answer. It was very in depth and well written.

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Samridhi

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: grumpydwarf
^No I was talking about that post only. I remember you posted an article about how 1940s was really suppose to be like.

And your analysis skills I judged from your answer. It was very in depth and well written.

Aww thank you! That's very sweet of you.

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love your DP btw😆

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