Why r ppl supporting Sumo? - Page 2

Nowhere has it been shown that Suman was using him. She hid her friendship with him which is understandable because teenagers have a lot of issues. I am not supporting it and it is clear she probably said something mean to him the day they separated.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Most of us do not support that childhood Sumo!

But then, she was just a teenager, and immature. She had her own reasons to maintain image. Suman has been girl under pressure who might have probably been taunted constantly about being burden to mami and all, she had to stand strong.. and at such age, standing strong would mean having a reputation.

Suman was surely wrong with the way she treated Shravan..., and guilty as she has been shown in some instances including the one where she was waiting for Shravan and felt bad recalling how Shravan waited for her in sun from 11.30 to 4.30 and remembered how he had said, she too would wait for someone someday... and she was all set to say sorry to Shravan, till shravan himself ignitiated fire with his words of not knowing any Suman. If Suman was wrong, then Wrong Plus Wrong do not make it right. What Shravan is doing after being matured enough, would indeed be foolish, specially since he knows that Suman has softened towards him and has achieved certain level of maturity, is wrong as well!
So.. Well, yes we do oppose younger Suman, then we equally do not like the idea of Shravan taking revenge... Either he can clearly ignore Suman... if he has that thing of moving on, or he just sits down with her and talk his heart out... rather then again going in the way to plot against her.😛

Bang on 👏
Agree with you

To err is a child & forgive is God. Teens cant be accepted to be matured and sensible enough to understand those deep emotion. Whatever happened in the past should be buried but our hero 😉 hurts runs so deep that he is still left with pain, hurt , wound, anger and anguish to accept with 10 year passage of time. Shravan never really had open about his emotion. Childhood wounds are little deep and can be dangerous and scary to the opponent. I hope during party he doesn't cross his limit because whatever she did was unintentional, unknowingly and being childish but on his case it will be purposeful and shrewd game. I can understand she at times might be little selfish, self absorbed but all girls in the world love attention na.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Honestly this time, Shravan's behaviour is pushing her to behave that way...
Yes, she is full of herself, like any normal girl... but I guess things could have been sorted out, maybe even 10 years back... We still do not know past story, to know should sorry be serious wala.. or was it some MU or reason behind their sourness... As I said, Suman isn't right.. then even Shravan isn't completely right... Suman had actually gone to party to meet him and probably sort out differences.. But the thing she has is too much of "Self-Respect" issue, where she feels.. she has to be respected as a person... and as a human... She is looking for it outside her home boundry, for she isn't getting it in walls of her house, where she might be constantly taunted about being burden. C'mon, we have to think of from every view for now...

You can see her softer side for Shravan.. as she stood up for him in front of stranger who scolded Shravan for no reason.. (When he gave her name of "Sumo"). Let's wait for whole story to unfold and say, who is right and who is at fault.. 😛

I agree she did lots of mistakes in her childhood but shra never stops her its his mistake also..
But now she is willing to say sorry but shra not giving her chance...she is waiting badly for him but he says I don't know any suman from that point she turns again like childhood sumo..but still she cares for him like waiting for lunch etc May be he can eat but he upload pics saying having lunch so she says he had her meal...
Now she is even remembering how she behaves with him in childhood and how he must had felt that time like waiting scene etc next May be reunion scene..
So both are behaving same...tit for tat...

Agree she did lots of mistakes in her childhood and took everything granted from him but what I am think is she is unaware of the pain she caused to shravan. He never tell her that what he feels how he hurts when she thinks he was not good enough of her friendship publicly. It's communication problem. They should talk like adults and sort of their differences and move on

Originally posted by: GredandForge

Nowhere has it been shown that Suman was using him. She hid her friendship with him which is understandable because teenagers have a lot of issues. I am not supporting it and it is clear she probably said something mean to him the day they separated.

But still doesn't give Shravan the right to plan a public humiliation.

Many move on. Even if they don't or even if Suman used him, it still isn't reason enough to plan whatever it is.

He can tell her he didn't like it. Shout at her, ignore her. But don't make it an issue in front of all for something that happened to you as a teen and which no one will dare bring up seeing what you've become now.

At the end of the day, both are in the wrong. She, for whatever it was in the past, and he, because he hasn't grown up.

I am a woman but personally i feel many times women use the sympathy card well. Lets not give excuses for teen Sumo. She WAS USING him. period. She was ashamed of being seen with him. I value friendship a lot & that was the 1st thing which turned me off. She got the dress frm Shravan & he clearly said he wanted to go with her to the prom. But she acted coy, dint say No & finally went with a handsome popular guy. As i said the teen Sumo is vapid & is no diff frm Urvashi. Going by looks & class instead of character. How are we sure that the current Suman truly loves him & not like Urvashi. Shravan is now handsome, successful & hot. I am not saying that Suman is like that. But how will Shravan know that after he left she felt bad & always thought bt him. Acc to him she used him & clings to popular guys. Unless Suman shows her true, loving side Shravan will not be able to forget the teen Sumo.

Originally posted by: rekha.366

Agree she did lots of mistakes in her childhood and took everything granted from him but what I am think is she is unaware of the pain she caused to shravan. He never tell her that what he feels how he hurts when she thinks he was not good enough of her friendship publicly. It's communication problem. They should talk like adults and sort of their differences and move on

😛 Agreed!

The fact is two wrong do not make a right.

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf

The fact is two wrong do not make a right.

And like many other point out Suman did what she did when she was a child. Shravan is now a grown man.

Thirdly she did apologize. She literally said it many times. One when she dropped him off in the rain. Second the written apology in the book.

Fourthly Sumo was unintentionally ignorant towards Shravan's feelings due to peer pressure which is something that is very natural to many. She never intentionally premeditated to hurt him badly the way he is planning to do right now.

Last but not least, just because Suman ignored him in public just like every other person he should at least appreciate that she was his only friend. Even if it was behind closed doors she was the one person who accepted him as he was.

But that being said Shravan's anger is understandable if not justified. Childhood scars leaving the deepest marks behind. Its a proven psychological fact.

Hey can u tell me what this apology in the book is? Guess i missed a few scenes 😕