Originally posted by: _goofyCat_
@TM No one here hates Teni because she fell for a married man. She is hated because her love turned into obsession to the extent of forgetting ethics and morals and going to extreme levels to get that love.
This story should ideally have been story of a childless couple and their surrogate. Atleast it was promoted that way. In reality it turned out to be revolving about surrogate only. The couple's story was never given focus. In fact Shorvori's screen space was compromised so that Teni can get the whole focus.
Teni obsessed for Parth even BEFORE the brain tumour track. She had the audacity to ask Parth would he have loved her if Shorvori was not in picture. Even before she fell for him, she never bothered about the couple's privacy, and used to boss them. Worst part, she used the baby in her womb to emotionally blackmail Parth and keep him dancing to her tunes.
Shorvori was at fault in staging her death drama, no one denies that. She did many mistakes, so did the original Parth. But the difference was that they knew they were doing mistakes and they regreted and repented it at some later stage. That's not the case with Teni. She has never shown to be accepting any of her mistakes till date, forget about regret. Even in the brain tumour track, she wasn't innocent, she clearly agreed to Shorvori's plan only because she was going to benefit from it. Do you think she would have agreed to it so easily had it been anyone else than Parth? Was she kind of a person who will sacrifice her whole life for someone else, that time?
This whole story of a man falling for his surrogate while his wife is alive looks cringy. It sends a wrong impression that infertile women have no right to have a happy life. In this case, Shorvori's husband, her family, her kid, even things like her mangalsutra, her wedding dress, her ring, literally everything was snatched from her and given to Teni. Why? Couldn't they have shown Teni in her own life with a new man? If Iqbal was brought in after PaRi journey together with their baby and their surrogate was shown properly, then I myself would have supported her. But not now.
To summarize, we don't hate Teni only because she married Parth, but because she comes across as selfish, stupid, opportunistic, fake, oversmart, inconsiderate and so on. Even Shorvori and the original Parth were characters with flaws, but they always considered others feelings over their own, which Teni could never do. She was always selfish.
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Teni fans hate Shorvari only coz she's being a hurdle between her pati Parth and their Teni maatey's ultimate fascinations of lust.
Whereas we hate Teni coz she came as a third woman between a married couple and ruined their happy household. Ok I agree falling in love wasn't in her hands, but controlling herself was in her hands right? She could have stopped herself from getting herself involved with him further right?
She could have not fascinated for having a disgusting threesome. But she did.
And when she got the opportunity to attain him, she never cared about any others. She never thought of PaRi's pain or the trauma they went through over their separation from each other.
Parth the guy she claimed to be in love madly, was greiving so much when he was clueless over Shorvari's actions. Even his pain never bothered her. She just held onto the opportunity so tight that she never actually tried to save Shorvari and save Pari's marraige.
whenn the opportunitypresented itself during the Karwa chauth day, instead of letting the truth come out on its own ways, She played too smart and stopped that. Only coz she was obsessed with Parth and wanted to attain him by hook or crook.
People argue that she did all that on Shorvari's orders, but the story tracks execution and the portrayal of Teni was done so pathetically that its hardly convincing that her intentions were anything but genuine.
Shorvari had her own share of mistakes too, we never deny that. but in all this her main concern has always been her Parth's and their family's happiness, and in the end she was one who suffered the worst. whereas Teni's mistakes were all were more or less for her own selfish motives. and she never actually suffered or regretted for her deeds.
One example to see the way we differentiate Shorvari and Teni's mindsets.
Teni realised her love for a married man, but she never did anything much to stay away from him, gave a name for her lust as fraandship and chose to get more obsessed with Parth. All her hypocritical actions during her pregnancy of eating only when Parth fed her or staying hungry all day knowing well that the baby in her womb mught get affected due to this, only made it worse for us.
What rights she had on Parth that she made him dance to her tunes those days?? she literally used the baby in her womb to stay close to Parth againt his own and also his wife's will.
And i personally have no respect for leeches like her.
On the other hand, when shorvari went to meet her husband after she got cured of Tumor, she saw he was getting married to Teni, in spite of her ability and rights to stop the wedding she didnt, coz she thought Teni was marrying Parth on her request and she shouldn't ruin her life now.
And thats real sacrifice. She in fact agreed to threesome coz she knew this situation had risen only coz she hid her tumor. But yeah Later when she came to know that Teni was already in love with Parth, and she never did any sacrifice, she felt cheated and wanted to put an end to thay stinking threesome.
You may argue that teni also sacrificed her rights on Parath later , but whats the use of doing anything after the damage is already done? Moreover she realised that her relationship with Parath will be considered immoral when the Women's club marched into their house and chose to humiliate her and not Shorvari.. She understood what her place in Parath's life was from the society's pov, so there was nothing great in what she did.
above all , the way Parth turned into Parath it was all to retain teni in the show and glorify her more than anything, when she was a mere homewrecker and nothing else. so we hate her so much and wish nothing but the worst for her
Originally posted by: White..Magic
Writers of this show are not illiterate and uneducated. They believe in threesome awesome concept. So you don't need to choose whether to ship Teni with Parath or Iqbal. They'll make awesome alternative month banging schedule. My only wish is to replace Iqbal with some wooden actor so that all of them become equal talent wise. There won't be any focus on performance or acting if all of them are wooden.
They should take Indu and dada in their circle as well. Those 2 have nothing better to do in life, entire day they keep farting moral lessons which don't look good coming from heads of highly immoral family.
Originally posted by: ssnehaaa
@Dracarystrio @Ruhi86
Thanks for the story n relevant points that u both stated. I completely agree that they should have shown shorvori happy married life n should have bought a guy for Teni instead of dilchasp threesome. But i hv few doubts-1.Shorvori staged her death n went away for Parth Reno to marry n Parth married Teni with His consent,not forced. So y blame Teni for being the other woman? Isn't she the onlywife legally?2. Parth after marrying Teni , sees Shorvori is alive n brings her back. Why? When Teni is his wife, y bring Shorvori back? Shorvori tried hiding her identity which means she didn't want to go back bcz unlike Party she had the brains that a man can HV only one wife. So why blame Shorvori for going back, or Teni for being the other woman .Whether a bar dancer or sweeper , every woman deserves respect and when Parth has married teni , then she is also a bhanushali member.3. Have no idea regarding Rashmi getting less screenspace than Jasmin. If it's true, then sad4. Regarding falling in love with a married man is unethical, I don't agree. Did Teni plan n plot to fall in love with Parth n seperate Sidmi? Love can happen with anyone. Married, unmarried Or Dark fair , same castedifferent caste .5. I really feel sad to see They are showing Ipshita is just like her mom Reno. For God sake. She is Shorovori's n parth's baby. Ipshita is NOT teni's child. Yes she can be step mom considering she is Parth's second wife but Atleast give shorvori credit for being Ipshita '' momme6. I would blame Parth for this threesome mess and Not Teni thoughall 3 are responsible but after getting back Shorvori he shud hv taken divorce with one and wedded other. Having two wives is no solution lAnd can't believe the Bhanushali family supported threesomel
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