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The concept of showing a fat girl and boy going to fall in love in a serial is new, many times I've seen a chubby guy but slim girl, and doesn't seem fair that the girl has to compromise with looks department for her life partner and always put other aspects of his character first and the guy never compromise on the type of girl he desires. So yes I like this that they are showing in that respect.
Many girls cave in and just refuse to go against the norm, because of the society pressure on female lead at the ram leela, expectations of the producer and even make up artist commenting about her weight and putting doubt in everyone's mind, director, about Deepika's ability to be accepted in this role of Sita. The nasty taunts she was putting up with by that other girl, but by accepting Hanuman's role she made it even worse with that girl and embarrassed her mother also. So perceptions of society of fat girl capabilities and what is expected of her in her position and how parents want her to be the best she can be, they want more for her. So sad, but enjoyable at the same time, I can't really explain it properly, its like holding up a mirror to society that this is how we are.
With the guy the father is doing it to him but unlike the girl society is being a bit more lenient on him because he was able to play Ram character and Deepika not. In fact they didn't even have anybody volunteering for this role and it seemed they were desperate to find someone to play this role for them, so he found a place for himself, and I suppose everyone seems to have a place for them according to how they look and how people perceive them and what they expect of them...but back to the father saying they shouldn't feed him anymore and count the food so he will know if he has eaten, it was funny but at the same time you can feel for him that he has to starve you know.
So this show they have a lot to show and so far its good.
But the parents and family members are inconsistent, which it seems to be in real life as well, I suppose out of love you don't want the person you love to be miserable so you cave in, but I feel this weight problem can be dealt with if all family members also follow the diet of the fat person, so as a family all become healthy. So instead of making him alone starve all in the house to have fruit and salad and lots of water and take exercise. This I felt Deepu's mother feels her daughter's pain a lot but she encourages her in some respects to make the cake on the cooker and interests of cooking fatty foods which have sugar, so if they encourage her interests of exercise and all eat healthy she could shed this weight. As it is both father and mother have diabetes and high blood pressure which are illnesses caused by eating sugary foods and fat.
But if they did that it would be the end of the show.😆 So they will carry on as they are but as I said before this is also what I've seen in reality where because they don't want the fat person to be miserable and out of love the good thoughts of tough love they end up giving up and allowing them to have what they want.
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