Originally posted by: HearMeRoar
Problem with what you're saying is every study out there confirms stable, two-parent households where the parents are married are better for children's future.
1. 2 parents who live together
2. Married parents
3. Stable partnership (not discordant)
Three factors determined to be best for the children. There has been no study to date which shows otherwise. And I mean studies with objective measurements like educational success, career, future problems with the legal system, etc. Not happiness/life satisfaction indices which are vague.
Of course there can be great single parents. But taken as a whole, children of single parents fare worse.
Would you be willing to cite these published peer-reviewed studies?
I can believe that such studies existed in the past. However, many experts have shifted their thinking and criticized such studies. Archaic beliefs that children need two parents pressured people to stay in unhappy marriages.
The other thing that people are pointing out is correlation is not causation and some of the data is flawed. Children of single parents do suffer in some aspects. But it is largely due to societal perceptions rather than being a single parent. Society would ostracize children born out of wedlock. People treat children of divorced parents differently. Thus, relationship status has absolutely nothing to do with the outcome. It's a false correlation.
Similarly, many single parents do struggle financially. In many countries, the children of single parents struggle due to lack of resources. However, in countries like the Nordic one that have a lot of childcare resources and free education, there is no difference. Once again showing that its a false equivalency between two-parent households and successful children.
I also find it extremely odd that you say your data is true for gay or straight parents, but have "marriage" listed as a factor. Gay marriage is still illegal in many countries. While gay people cannot adopt irrespective of marital status in many parts of the world, a large number of gay couples who adopt are not married. Marital status is actually irrelevant.
Completely dismissing happiness/life satisfaction is quite dangerous. Considering the high rate of depression and mental health issues in successful people, many psychologists and sociologists will say that focusing only on education, career, and financial success is dangerous. Happiness and satisfaction are not as fuzzy as they used to be. The importance of mental well-being has shifted a lot of research and effort into sociological well-being. The global happiness index is actually a well-researched and well-measured index based on multiple data points. Mental well-being is being added to annual physical checkups in many places. Happiness and satisfaction are still qualitative, but if you completely dismiss it in the data you are looking at - your dataset is highly limited.
The Fragile Families and Child Wellbeing Study is one of the largest research undertakings in North America that focuses on children from fragile homes. However, the researcher is key to point out that there is a racial and economic bias in the data. The real questions aren't if single parents families are bad, but what kind of support do single-parent families need. There is plenty of data showing why marriage is NOT the reason why children with two parents are more likely to succeed.
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