While I can't help but find it convenient that Dia is now claiming her marriage had nothing to do with her pregnancy, with the timing being what it is, I do accept and understand her point. I know so many people who would have benefitted from their parents either divorcing or having never gotten married in the first place. And I don't even mean that the households are abusive or toxic (though some are), but also just so many of my friends who are terrified of relationships because for their entire lives the main relationship they witnessed was basically a loveless obligation, in which two people loved their child/children but shared basically nothing else in common.
Also, on a personal note, I am someone who is asexual/aromantic, but I do want kids, and I plan to have them by way of adoption eventually. I know some people still consider this a non-ideal situation to bring a child into, but if you ask me children really just need a stable support system of some kind and lots of love, which I know that I would be better equipped to provide as a single woman than if I were in a relationship of obligation/convenience.
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